r/baltimoreanddcr4r
Hi everyone, so just wanted to give y'all a quick update on some recent changes we have implemented.
POST FORMAT - In order to make the sub a bit more uniform and cleaner looking, we tweaked the post format rules a bit. The rules are in the sidebar, but for convivence, I'll post them below. Furthermore, these rules will be present when your at the posting page, and you won't be able to submit your post until your title is 100% correctly formatted.
Age [gender tag] zipcode - TITLE
Example: 25 [M4F] 20001 - Looking for a hookup
[Tag] Format:
[F4M], where the first letter describes your gender, followed by a "4", then the letters for whom you want to match.
Gender tags are case sensitive:
-M - Male
-F - Female
-T - Trans
-X - Nonbinary
-A- Any(no gender preference)
Couples must tag their posts accordingly (MF, FF, etc.) No posting on each other's behalf.
If a success story, include [SUCCESS] at the beginning
POST LIMITS- Earlier last year, we tried to change the limit on posting to 1 time per week. However, it stopped working. We have now fixed it, but we decided to change it to 2 posts per every 7 days. So, going forward, if you try to post more than twice in the span of 7 days, your posts will be removed.
GENDER TAGS- As you probably noticed above in the post format rules, we added another gender tag, "X", to include anyone that falls under the non-binary umbrella.
SPAM- We have noticed a decrease in spam over the past year, and we continue to tweak our settings to improve it even more. However, we also don't want to create a situation where there are many false positive and legitimate posts are getting removed. So, we will try to balance it as best we can. Also, we will continue to keep comments on, as this has been a great way for others to call out suspicious posts.
If you have any other suggestions or concerns, please message us(USE MOD MAIL. DO NOT MESSAGE MODS DIRECTLY). Thank you!
Hi, so after discussions among the mod team, we are finally turning on commenting again. This is to mainly help us more effectively combat spam/bots, as you all will now be able to publicly call out suspicious and dangerous posts. And to allow people to vouch for others. A few things:
If anyone have any questions, concerns, suggestions, feel free to comment below or message us. Keep on having fun!
P.S. Unlocking the comments only affects new posts, and since it would be unnecessary to unlock all posts that are currently locked, we unlocked all posts in the last 24 hours(of this post).
53 yo WM offering a free sensual massage for a lady. I have a table and use two all natural lotions. I can host or come to you.
Sooooo...I'm back again. Hopefully this time with less catfish side eyes men posing as women and the little dicks in my inbox. I'm hoping for real life responders. I realize F4F is rare here...
Let's try again...WOMEN ONLY please😉☺️.
Stressful times call for other measures, and I'm sure you want to get lost in a fantasy land as much as I do. Have you ever wanted an admirer that's a woman and that you can selfishly orgasm with? Or maybe you are bi-curious and want to safely explore your lesbian fantasies with another woman without your husband? Or maybe you just need someone to ask you how your day really went while worshipping your body with my tongue and no reciprocation? I've been told I'm quite charming and enchanting. Care to find out for yourself? 😏 Let's make a world of our own.
So about you: • A WOMAN and at least older than 25 • I need and offer full discretion as a married woman • Mostly daytime availability but some flexibility(?) • You're open to communicating and verifying via Telegram app • Can host
If any of these pique your interest please shoot me a DM. Send a message with your favorite heart emoji and something that makes you wet or heart flutter so I know you read it all.
P.S. I've posted before and have had some in-person successes.
DMV. NOVA. DC. MD.
Fit and good looking here. Looking for fun hit me up!
Two brown fit bi males looking for a female for grabbing drinks and coming back to my place. I’m well off and can host in a nice spacious apartment near the water.
If you are down to play with us or just watching fuck each other, that is cool too.
If interested dm and we can chat in a group to see if we vibe. My friend has a gf who can join if things really get interesting ;)
Looking for some excitement with a like minded woman. Physically 5’10”, hwp, salt/pepper hair, brown eyes, hwp, Irish/Italian, told endowed, experienced, clean, ddf, vaxxed. Recently tested. I can host or travel. Looking for a long term FWB arrangement. Short term is ok too. Please be in the immediate DMV area (MD side) and available to meet IRL. Not concerned with your status. Let me know!
Howdy! It’s a gorgeous day here in Dc- and it’s got me feeling social and outgoing! I’m seeking interesting company, and I have a penchant for wiry humanities professors and accomplished social science professionals. Dirty blonde shoulder length hair, blue eyes, average height curvy/ muscular build.
Taking any and all convincing arguments to make you cum.
I just wanna worship and suck on some pretty breast I can’t host but I do drive! Nothing needed in return.
Hey! 25M Mexican and tatted. Extremely bored so is anyone down to watch me jerk off or have some fun in anyway !! HMU :)
F4M 20 Baltimore - humping, grope, nipple sucking
5’1, Black, chubby/bbw, Can’t host but can drive.
Use me as your humping toy, love getting my nipples sucked while you hump me as hard as you want.
Hi! I'm looking for a confident, sexy partner to do our best to ring in the spring weather appropriately. I'd love to find something consistent, but no pressure. Let's meet up to share a drink, have a laugh, and tear into each other like animals. I enjoy oral, teasing, and an even mix of rough and gentle fucking. My style is enthusiastic and uninhibited, and I'm pretty open about most things. Let's sneak out of work early for a happy hour that becomes a screaming hour 😈
About me: 37M, 6'5", average build, brown hair and blue eyes, attractive, white, educated, about 7" cock, DDF. My profile has a little more 😇. I'm pretty charming and extroverted and I've lived all around the East Coast, and I have a techy professional job. I spoil my best boy dog and play basketball when the weather is nice, and fascists deserve the fucking boot.
Say hi, and tell me something spicy 🌶️
Been lurking for a while. Been a while since my last relationship. Getting hurt the way I did takes time to recover from. Took a while lol. But you heal and learn.
But, I think it's about that time I start living again. Lot of self reflection and maturity in being alone. Lots of lessons to be had about who you deserve to be with. I doubt my forever person is in here but why not give it a shot. Life is full of surprises.
I'm early 30s, in decent shape, good head on my shoulders (whatever that means. Gramz said it once so I'm sticking with it), believe i communicate well, and have a great job that I'm excited to retire from in 30 years (or 50+ if these egg prices keep going up 😭).
I try my best to always put those I love before myself, and I aspire everyday to be the person my family and my future wife can be proud to have in their lives. I like to think I'm the catch that got fumbled. Just waiting for the right person to scoop me up and run to the endzone (by the way, I'm not a big sports guy as you can probably tell from the terrible analogy above lol)
Like the post says, im ready to dip the toes in the pool if I can find the right connection Friendship, possibly one that can lead into lasting relationship. Looking to find my catch. I've pretty good hands so I promise I won't fumble the ball (eh enough with those, got it lol)
If you're interested in any of the above is love to get to know you
Hey there! I’m pretty new to posting, so hopefully wording everything turns out okay!
A little bit about myself: To start, I’m 23 years old and live in Virginia, more specifically around the Alexandria area. I’m black / african american, 5’9, I have an average to slim build, as well as having soft facial features ( if you’d like, please request a picture once you message me ) I am naturally an introverted type of person, but that’s something that I’ve been trying my best break out of so that I can experience more things the world has to offer.
My interests: In my free time, you’ll find me searching for new coffee shops or bars to have a good time with friends, binge watching Netflix crime docs, spending hours immersing myself in the world of video games, stressing over online shoe releases, taking a walk through the mall to discover the shops unique items, among many more things and experiences. I try to always find something new for me to do, whether that be taking a painting class, going skydiving, attending a mixology class to learn how to make fire drinks, I’m always down to try out something new and to pick up on a new skill.
My personality: As I explained earlier, I am a bit of an introvert, but me being introverted is something I genuinely do wish to change, and I believe that I’ve been doing a great job at that. In terms of some personality traits, I would say that I’m very kind, caring, humble, reliable, adventurous, down to earth, and most importantly genuine. I’m sure there’s more things I could have touched on or included, but that’s everything for now!
What I’m looking for: I’ll try and answer this as best as I can. I guess I’m looking for the person that will bring me into the world and atmosphere of BDSM / ownership that I’ve always wanted to experience. We all have the things that we want or do that we simply can’t explain why, and being the property of a dominant woman is one of mine. it’s something I’ve always desperately craved, and I finally want to open myself up and experience the true bliss of submission while letting a woman use my mind and my body for her pleasure and comfort. If my mistress wants a foot massage then she gets it right then and there. If my mistress wants me to make her favorite drink prepared just the way she likes it, she’ll get it right then and there. If my mistress wants me kneeling at her feet in silence, she’ll get that calm obedience right then and there. If my mistress wants me to pamper her with a bath and soft towels, she’ll have it ready the moment she desires. If my mistress wants to talk or text me, my full attention and submission is hers.
What am I looking for from you: Honestly, the only thing that comes to mind is wanting you to understand that I am new to this lifestyle. With that being said, I probably will make mistakes, I probably will hesitate once or twice in terms of following your instructions and requests of me. I probably will make a crucial mistake that more experienced subs don’t make. However, I truly am serious about delivering pleasure, comfort, and a place of peace to whoever my mistress will end up being, and I hope that she understands I’m trying my best, even in my moments of failure. Other then that, I have no other wants or needs that I’m specifically looking for. Your physical appearance, the way you talk physically, your hobbies, relationship status, financial status, none of that will play a factor into if things between you and I will work, so please do not feel as if you have to be this or that in order to message me because that’s not the case!
The Outro: Well, if anything about my message peaked your interest or caught your attention then please feel free to message me and start up a conversation. I promise you that I’m a chill person to talk to, and I’d love to talk with you about everything I’ve said in this post so far. Anyway, thank you for taking the time to read through all of this, and hopefully I’ll be hearing from you soon. Until then, see you later
Will be in a hotel near the airport this weekend and want to host a blowbang bukkake with as many hung, horny guys as I can. The main event will be scheduled Friday noonish (thinking 11-1 but am flexible on the time depending on response). I want to be on my knees surrounded by a forest of dicks, working the crowd with my slutty hands and mouth, and then taking every single drop of the hot loads I’ll coax out of all of your aching balls.
I’m a bi, masculine white guy with an eager mouth and an insatiable craving for the taste of hard cocks and hot cum. Would love to have a nice size group. If you’re interested drop me a line with your stats, a pic of what you’ve got for me, and when Friday you’d be available. If you can’t make the main thing that’s ok too let me know if you’d like to come by a different time.
Hey there I’m a young experienced pleasure dom with a strong desire for eating pussy.
Just got out of a decently long standing monogamous relationship and since we’ve split my tongue has been lonely.
I’m of course open to as much or as little and the lady would like and if more is planned I’m happy to preform… but if nothing else I’m happy for you to just use my fingers and tongue to get off and let me go home Blue balled.
It’s been a while since I’ve had to write one of these so forgive my shorthand but shoot me a message and I’m happy to elaborate/ plan extensively
Stats: 5’6, 175lbs a little dad bod but muscular arms and legs, brown eyes, glasses, long curly black hair, tattoos, and 7.5 inches downstairs
It's spring, I'm horny, and I'm in my second puberty as a cute/dorky middle-aged professional, but I am soooooo disinterested in actual dating. I just want hot encounters with cute, petite women. Let me cover you in oil on my massage table, make you cum with my hands , then allow me eat your delicious, beautiful soaking wet pussy until you're incapable of thought, then MAAAAAYBE fuck you over and over. That's what I'm looking for!!!!
SWM, DDF, sane, sensual, uninhibited, empathetic, pleasure-oriented, respectful, 5'10", 210, and I'm very gym-strong and energetic. Music/art/nature lover, and a librarian.
I am an experienced dominant seeking a submissive for regular D/s play and possibly something longer term if we hit it off in that way. I don’t mind if you’re inexperienced as I am a patient teacher.
In the bedroom my favorite kinks are rough sex, power dynamics/exchange, spanking, roleplay, dirty talk, praise, moderate degradation/humiliation, light bondage, breast play, outfit control, and overstimulation/orgasm control. I like lots of touching, kissing, cuddling, body contact, massage, and aftercare.
Outside of D/s I’m kind of the strong, silent type - a down to earth, calm, and respectful person. I like the outdoors, being on the water, travel, history, diy, and reading.
I am 5’10” with blue eyes, light brown hair, hairy dad bod, big strong hands. When you respond please let me know your age, general location, and what makes you want this kind of dynamic.
Close to U st and Howard campus. I’m 5’10 160 slim/athletic build. Photos on my page.
Hey!! I’m new and trying to get out of my shell, always had a fantasy for serving a dom lady and her husband at her feet while he gives me commands like lick her feet and serve her well. I’m really kinky but value hygiene i am tested clean. Looking forward to chatting, lets swap pics on snapchat and meet up in public for coffee to see if we vibe before jumping into any fun! Cant wait to connect xoxoxo
Who wants some young cock ?:) need to get my stress sucked out of me DM if interested can't host
Very discreet white male looking for a female who enjoys receiving attention to her breasts, to help relax and unwind. I can follow directions, keep it anonymous, not looking to change your status or mine.
Wifes, moms, bbw, chubby, any body type, race, status is more than welcomed. I drive around the area often, Tyson corner to Leesburg and others. Available day or evening. 5 minutes or an hour. Tell me how you like them played with and when, and we can work something out.
Absolutely not doing donos or roses or deposits. This is just for fun.
Read all of this? Great, write in the bra size at the dm.
I drive around nova and dmv often.
I hear its going to be around 80 this weekend and would love to get out and share it with someone. I have some fun ideas for an outdoor date while its nice. If you want to enjoy the beautiful weekend with good company then lets chat.
I am a white male of average build and a funny and creative personality.
As for who I am looking for? Someone who wants to have fun and is willing to get a bit goofy. I am all about the fun side of life so be ready. As long as you are yourself and ready for so much fun then age or race or any of that does not matter . Being goofy and laughter is a MUST so if you can't handle being that then I give you a virtual hug because you may need one.
Hey there! 33m near Fairfax looking to explore my interests in womens feet/socks. I'm usually too shy to bring up my kink with partners so I figured I'd cut to the chase and look on reddit for a like-minded individual. Open to a variety of acts and scenarios, whatever you might be comfortable with.
I'm a pretty good looking guy, not pushy, able to meet somewhere local.
Prefer someone age 20-40, in decent shape, cute feet. Small feet are ideal but I'm not terribly picky on that. Pedicures not necessary.
Send a chat if you might be interested in meeting up!
...Is that too much to ask for???
The weather is starting to get too nice to stay inside all day. A little PDA is just the thing to get me out of the house!
But seriously though, someone to hang out with would be great. I'm an average looking dude but in decent shape and looking for someone similar. Kind of on the 'nerdy' side. But not the smart kind of nerdy, more so the video game and M:tG kind of nerdy.
I'm only looking for a single woman. Not really looking for couples or single guys, thanks.
I'm 5,9 redhead and Jewish. relatively fit. I'm ex military served as an army medic.
Im naturally a sub, but I can be dominant if needed. I'm mature respectful shaved and clean. I have all sorts of kinks id love to chat about. Very into women who are older than me but if you're around my age you're also welcome.
If this all sounds good to you, hmu:)