r/blackmailers

This has become a frequent question on this subreddit so I wanted to address it in a proper post.

Nonconsensual blackmail is against the law, including if you gave the information to the blackmailer. There are resources online designed to help victims of sexual and financial extortion. Below are several examples:

https://www.cybersmile.org/what-we-do/advice-help/sextortion

https://www.cybertip.ca/app/en/internet_safety-sextortion

https://www.stopsextortion.com/

https://www.fbi.gov/news/stories/stop-sextortion-youth-face-risk-online-090319

https://www.nationalcrimeagency.gov.uk/what-we-do/crime-threats/kidnap-and-extortion/sextortion-webcam-blackmail

The sites all say basically the same thing:

• Don't give the blackmailer any more money or pictures than you already have
• Cut off all communication with the blackmailer
• Save all communication you have had with them
• Inform the authorities and get support from someone you trust.

… and, of course, report it to reddit’s moderators and administrators if you met them here.

A few things to keep in mind:

• A blackmailer is at their most vulnerable if they expose you. By exposing you, they risk revealing their own identity, while breaking additional laws. At the same time, a blackmailer loses the ability to control or extort you once they expose you.
• Therefore, most blackmailers stop short of exposing their victims
• Even though it might be humiliating to have your information exposed in the short term, most people aren't going to care. You may even be able to claim that it's a "deepfake," and most people are going to give you benefit of the doubt.
• Giving a blackmailer what they want will only lead to them asking for more and more in the future. Rip the band aid off early.

The reddit community r/Sextortion provides support, resources, and advice for victims of nonconsensual blackmail and sexual extortion. You are encouraged to join

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Hi everyone, this might be the best decision I've ever made or the worst.

So basically right now I'm a total loser. No work, no school, no social life, nothing, and somehow I'm unable to change it myself. So I've decided I might need to take drastic measures and be forced into improvement.

I hope to find someone who would be interested in a dynamic where you make me improve myself by making me get a job for example and in return the paycheck will be yours.

The life improvement is the main goal of this post but I'm also extremely kinky(How else did I get here haha) and I hope that could be included in the dynamic aswell. So it would be a big plus if you can go from sweet and loving to very mean and sadistic quickly. I'm into almost everything but would rather discuss kinks in private.

I'm down to pay tr1bute if necessary but would like to build trust before any blackmail. Maybe even do a call to see if I can trust you(I'll probably be muted because I'm super anxious)

If any of this sparked your interest please message me! Everything is negotiable.

I am a 20-year old boy who wants to be trained by an authoritarian and demanding master. I will be sending my nude photos and videos to you everyday. I have many kinks, especially feet sniffing, toe sucking, breath-play and cum control. I do not wish to share my address and contact information, but you can blackmail me by sending my photos and videos to your friends and to others. My limits are piss, scat, blood and anything illegal. You can save the photo from my profile at the good beginning:) I am waiting respectfully for your reply.

Im not looking for someone to ruin my relationship!

Sissy, 22, looking for a blackmailer who will force me to live out my sissy fantasies, but with a twist! As of now I’m in a happy relationship. But realistically it won’t last forever. So I want to find somebody who will hold blackmail over me, for however long it takes - may be weeks, may be years. Afterwards blackmail me relentless to live out every single fantasy I ever mouth or dream of.

While giving any time consuming, or real life impacting tasks will be a hard limit of mine, until after my relationships ends, I’d be willing to engage with tasks like watching hypno or specific porn.

Please make sure all my (potential) kinks or within your limits, or this wont work out.

Kinks: Sissification, blackmail, forced gay, permanent chastity, humiliation, degradation, extreme anal stretching (painal included), deepthroating, ABDL (scat included), pee, toilet play, cum play, extreme online exposure, whoring out (IRL or internet)

Limits: urethra play, family, job, scars, blood, knife play

If you can’t respect my limits I can’t respect you as a dominant. Please keep that in mind.

Blackmailer could be a dominant, submissive, whatever really. Just someone who won’t give me a chance to pussy out or disobey you.

Hey my name is Mika i am 18 years old i live in germany and i want to have to be in constant fear of getting exposed if i dont follow your rules and compleate my daily tasks to the fullest.

I want you to be/do : - Cruel - Give me a lot of rules - Tease my with the power you hold - Degrade me - Creative - Be Unfair - Scare me

My kinks Are: - Humiliation - Degration - Techdom (parentalcontrolls, Spyware, watching me) - Petplay - Blackmail - Having No Escape - Edging - Public Risky - Rules rules rules - Give me little space - Contracts - Forms - Gambling - Unfairness

If your from germany im also down for irl meetups. One of my fav fantasys aare that you dive with me out into a public forest where you then take my clothes and hide them while i try to find them naked and not being seen while being degraded by you🥺😵‍💫🤤

If that sounds like something you could work with dm me :)

Cant wait to meet you

Are you sure? Once you do this you may regret it, or is that what you truly want? That rush of adrenaline as you know im keeping a file on you anything tou say or send me may be used agaist you.😈

Or is it about the control i have over you making you and the devices i know own, my toys to use and paruse as i please, the guilty feeling you have when you know it may backfire but your soo horrny you crave more and more. Touching yourself to the very thought of seeing my messages or even tasks that you may have.

Message me my good horny blackmail adicts as i take your entire life into a little file with your name on it used however i see fit.

First message should have name you want to be called, kinks, limits, and a safeword! Then we will descuss what your exactly looking for then a payment, im not a wallet drain unless you ask its one payment per session i will not look at your financial records, that is only for express asked in our chats.

You’ve been fantasizing about this for a while now…how it would feel to give up just a little bit of control…and it excites you

Mostly looking for fem boys and sissy’s…but I’m open to anyone Men and Women

But I love nothing more than showing my dominance over a weak beta male…just give me a little bit of blackmail and see how good it feels to lose just a little bit of control…

Send me a dm…I’m actually a really nice guy

I will turn you into a blackmail edge slut, you’ll be constantly edging anywhere and everywhere. You’ll be getting rewarded with ruined orgasm instead of actual orgasms and edging is going to be your new favorite thing. Proof of completion of tasks will be required and I might even have you make some posts for the public.

I’m looking for a new beta who wants to devote their life to me through blackmail. A masochist loser who will do ANYTHING to please me. I’m looking for something online. I want a worthless toy. You must be extremely obedient and loyal and willing to change anything about yourself to serve me better. I want someone who knows they’re a beta and worthless. I’m into humiliation, pet play, degradation, bondage, pain, anal. Send me a dm if you’re ready to serve. If you send a picture of yourself you’ll be put at the top of the list.

Experienced German Dom looking for Sluts or Cucks to own completely. You will start with your ASL and a Sample pics of you (and your Slut if your a Cuck) and the Words „Blackmail“ so that I know what you want. We will talk about your Limits and Boundries of you and me and if you want to have a Safeword. If your looking for a Quality Dom that Slowly pushes you deeper and deeper into the Kinks and slowly extends your Limits while still respecting your Safeword when its called you found the right Guy. I‘ll look forward to hearing from you. Pls check my Bio.

Some of my Kinks are: Rough fucking, Toys, BDSM, Pain, Chastity for the Cuck, Forced Bi as a Top, Pegging, Corrupting, Full Control, Raceplay,

Obviously these are just some of my Kinks and they dont have to be included in the Sessions we have if you dont enjoy them.

My Limits are none negotiable: Scat, Legal Age, Blood

If we Click and agree to a Longterm Relationship for this we can go very far as I have owned Blackmail Slaves for quite a while already. I‘m only looking for Male Cucks or Femboys not just solo Males. If you read until now include „German owned“ in your Message so I know you read the Post.

If all this made you excited to get in Touch pls come and introduce yourself to me.

i know blackmail subs might not be the place to find what i need, but I don’t want to deal with the shit feelings anymore and I couldn’t think of a better place to go.

I think about what I could do, and my best option is to post on this subreddit, get helplessly horny and trade away my mind to someone else.

I feel weak and vulnerable so this seems like the right place to be.

19 [M4A] please approach me and surprise me with your blackmail

I would love if the person who approaches me acts normal and friendly and the more we talk the more the questions you ask me are personal. And at some point when you have enough you decide that i will become your slave. My big 3 kinks are humiliation degradation and chastity and my name is Julien if you guys wanna start with that. Please message me whenever you see this even if it is in 4 months i will always be a naive little bitch<3

I am looking for sluts to blackmail into my public bitches. You will do my tasks and follow my orders and if you do well you might be a given a special reward. If you think you're up for the task, please dm me. I only take femboys, females and MTF. You must be 18 or older and must be willing to share photos of yourself. If you're really feeling kinky and submissive ask about the "special treatment."

Worthless attention slut seeking dom that's into exposure kink and wants to help post me on the internet msg me I'll give you everything. I want to feel helpless after I get off and cannot delete the pictures. Idc who it is just not into paying for it. I might end up sending too much info leading to a blackmail situation. (; Help me become the pathetic dumb webslut I was destined to be.

I switch both Dom and Sub and Love a bit of forced play hehe. Looking for a twink who also shows face (I do too) to have fun with - preference one that can be both blackmailer and blackmailee.

Looking for LT fun where we can trust eachother (yet still get scared hehe) well Set limits at the beginning and safeword (if we need them).

Pics on profile :)

Looking to add some excitement into your life? Do you crave that feeling of being at the mercy of a dominant man? I’m looking for an ongoing online dynamic with a girl who craves security and submission and the thrill of knowing that she’s under my control. Someone who feels validated by having a man blackmail you into submission. I’ll provide a set of rules to live by, give you creative tasks, decide your outfits etc. If this interests you at all, shoot me a message any time! And let me know a bit about you and what exactly you’re looking for. Let’s begin..

Hello, so I'm a college student that's been getting more into the feminization/degradation aspect of kink. It has become an addiction really which I have not been able to escape for a while now. Each relapse is worse than the other, and I find myself stuck in this endless loop~

I am kinda looking for someone to either help me, or to push me over the edge and put me in my place. Ive had people reach out to me pretending to "help" (which was a turn on too, unfortunately)

I'm basically leaving it up to my fate, you.

I don't know... there is a lot more to know about me, so hit me up. If you wonder about my looks, yes I do send pictures but prefer not to show my face. I have a rather slim/curved body, pale skin, green eyes and brown hair, just a brief description.

These are the kinks I used when I used to roleplay a lot, sime may sound unrealistic but I'm hugely into them~

Fminization, sissification, degradation, humuliation, manipulation, blackmail, yiff, mindbreak, pronebone position, hair pull, getting ass slapped/groped, cuckold, power play, abuse, forced forced workouts, roleplay, chastity, fantasy creation, cum dump, marking, spit, bdsm, cnc , crossdressing and it goes on

Limits:

Weird stuff, feet, scat, blood, piss, fndom, showing face (not a limit, just very unlikely), anyone irl finding out I do this, and so on

You must AV!(age verify)

I prefer long term vs 1 time sessions. so Something that can grow and last for a while.

I’m looking for a dynamic that isn’t the usual one off session I.e “heres my info and photos from the get go use it as you will”. Sure it's simple and fine, but it’s not really for me.

I want a submissive who is like a golden retriever obsessing over me ready to cater to my whims. Someone who I can grow a dynamic with also. I want you to try to strive hard for my attention. To serve, worship and obey me 24/7 (obviously when able) That you will do all the humiliating things even tasks I ask of you (I also enjoy self improvement for my subs so they have goals to reach where I give rewards.)

Where does the blackmail come in? Of course all the displays of humiliation tasks amongst anything you tell me that you don't want out in the open. Every photo, every screenshot, every transaction, all info. Where the risk hangs over your head of being exposed.

The findom side::

I also enjoy doing fines for punishment or other forms of punishment depending on your limits and budget.

If you touch yourself to the thought of me. If you cum, If you think about another, you pay. If you do anything I don’t like, any other broken rules etc you pay a fine or do a punishment.

Kinks/fetishes in into:

Sissification

Feminization

Cuck

Chastity (app controlled is fun too)

Kidslox (you fund the subscription)

(Kinks are not a must lets find out what your into)

Other kinks and fetishes I am into are pinned on my bio. Also to note I will have a contract ready for you to sign after we chat a bit.

This one is for all the women who wish they'd get thrown into a dumpster after a ruthless gangbang, whose favorite fetishes make them want to cry, and who cannot cum without being intensely degraded.

Logically, you know there's no good reason for you to be so self-destructive. There's no obvious reason why a woman like you, with a good head on her shoulders, confident and successful, would have such nasty fantasies. But the fact remains that deep down, an undeniable part of you wants to be made to feel inferior, wants to be violated and have her shame put on display, and most of all wants to feel the thrill of losing control and living a life of depravity beyond your wildest dreams.

I'm going to drag that part of you out into the light, no matter what the cost. Your friends, family, school, and career all take second place compared to ruining yourself for male attention. I'm going to turn you into a filthy porn piggy, forcing you to spend your free time gooning your brains out to increasingly disgusting and dehumanizing pornography until you can't stop wishing you were the actress being abused in those videos. I'm going to make you humiliate and embarrass yourself for me to break down whatever resistance you have left. Your dignity, self-respect and pride will all be gleefully sacrificed as you beg me to hurt you in new and creative ways.

I'm going to blackmail you and hijack your life, and you're going to hate how much you love it.

If you're interested in getting knocked down a few pegs, send me a message here on reddit. Don't keep me waiting.

I'm looking for AFAB who is 18+ and looking to enter a consensual blackmail dynamic. You want your limits tested, you want your inner nasty dirty self unlocked under fear of being exposed. I am willing to help you reach your depraved fantasy every step of the way. We will have safe a safe words and discuss everything before entering any agreement.

Send me a reddit chat if you're interested.

I do have a IRL dom experience, but now wanna try to do it online, as it is completely different. I do have almost any dom kink, or I think so right now. I really like to just use my pats like toys, and then throw you out after some time, so no surprises. Wanna try to explore this world with me, wanna lose control and empty your mind like a good toy ? Come to my dm's and explore the blackmail.

Still have time for several more

Hey there all, thanks for reading my post.

I'm 31 and from the UK. One main thing about me you should know is that I'm married so if that's a deal-breaker for you I would stop reading here!

I'm into humiliation, blackmail dynamic, tasks, servitude, submission, feminisation, emasculation, slutty outfits and TPE.

If that sounds interesting to you, please send me a message :)

I have an opportunity you might not to pass up on. I’m looking for someone that hates men, and I’m being vague because I can only really share it in the dms. Dm me if you want to know more. I’m looking someone that genuinely hates the male species. I’m looking for someone that really wants to blackmail someone and let out some frustration.

I don’t know why but I’ve found it hard to find as of late, but I genuinely think there is someone out there that wants to.

DM me if you’re interested and we can discuss everything further. I hope to hear from you. Even if it doesn’t pan out, just hear my offer. Thanks!

hiii i'm Luca, 20 years old online twink whore here with a huge exposure kink... looking for a really harsh and mean blackmail or exposure master or mistress to make me their victim, either short or long term, please use and abuse me to the point where i can't go back and fully ruin me. if you think you're a good dom for me, dm me

I'm looking to own a sub under 35, interested in long term digital domination and blackmail. Must not be put off by humiliation, fear, total control, TPE, absolute invasion of privacy, GPS tracking, cameras, parental controls, voyeurism, remote desktops etc. Must be serious and not held back, will eventually expect full disclosure and no request refused. Face is a must and be ready to tell me what you enjoy. I am safe and sane and not looking for an exposure slave. Instead, I want someone who is prepared to surrender and wants to give someone total access to their life.

I have an application/GoogleForm for slaves who are serious about serving and committing. You can request the link.

Want you to surrender all power, submit whatever it means.

No sissy or femboys.

I am looking for girls that I can blackmail into making them "hand over" their breasts to me so I can take control. I will instruct on what to wear (showing them off or not), I will tell you what to wear and will decise if you wear a bra or not, will make you catch glances from others any many ither thinga

It also doesn't matter if you are proud of your breasts or if you don't like them/hate them. If you are proud of them, perfect! If you don't like them, I will make you like them hehe

Dm me if you are interested

Info: Not accepting messages from men, also don't even bother to dm me if you have a empty profile or won't send pics.