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Sooo I was mischievous and I was punished for my bratty behavior so brutal that I questioned my brattiness (well maybe not that much, you can't give up being a brat that easily). Which I'm a little ashamed to admit, but Sir said I had to share it with my community of brats. Sir and I always go to the gym together after work. We walk together from our workplaces to the gym and from the gym to our home because it is quite close. And so we got home, we took off our clothes to take a shower together, but before that I started putting things out of my backpack. Where at one point I pulled my gym socks and thought to myself it would be a great idea to throw them at him because on the way home I told him very politely, hm hm, to massage my legs when we get home, to which he said that he would do it after the shower, but I really wanted as soon as we get home because it was leg day. And as I'm a great thrower I managed to hit him in the mouth when he had it open...with my gym sock. To which I just got a serious look from him and the words, go in the shower right away. Of course, I tried to get out of the punishment with the excuse that those weren't my gym socks at all (they were), but these fresh ones that I only wore from the gym to home, and that's a very short distance, so they definitely didn't smell or get sweaty at all. But I couldn't get out of it, so I waited the whole shower to see what punishment Sir would give me. I only knew it would be degrading because we have an agreement that every punishment had to be degrading because I had become a hardcore brat and the others don't work on me (plus, those are my favorites, but don't tell Sir that). When we finished showering, he told me to sit naked in the middle of the living room across from the couch, so it occurred to me that maybe he would spank my ass or that I would have to lie face down on the floor while he is watching TV. He sat on the couch and told me: You were throwing your stinky socks (it was only one but okay) at me because you were impatient for massage, now you're going to have a massage, but you're going to massage yourself while I'm watching you here. The punishment was to sit on the heel of one foot and grind, while I massage the other foot in detail with my tongue. And maybe it's not a brutal punishment for someone, but for me it is because I really don't like my feet. I trained dance for a very long time and I have dancer's feet, they are very big for a woman (EU 42) I have bunions and bunionettes and no matter how much I take care of them they never look nice. At first I complained while I started massaging because I felt ashamed to touch my soles with my tongue and to do it in front of him (it's not like I've ever done that before), but even though he gave me a punishment he encouraged me the whole time. Like: You wanted a massage now do it right, you missed the little toe, don't forget to massage your heel, grind stronger don't slow down. So the shame passed quickly, but the feeling of degradation was strong the whole time. Somehow in the end he made it a degrading but funny punishment although very exhausting because of all the grinding (although I won't forget that I had to lick my feet and revenge will be sweet and mine bwahahaha). At the end, he just asked me with a laugh if the massage was delicious and if it helped my so(u)re muscles. -.- When I was done I got a kiss on the forehead, he picked me up and took me for another shower because I was all messed up from drooling and orgasms. He washed me and wrapped me in a blanket and we watched The Last of Us together. The last part of the punishment is to write a detailed description of my punishment for all my brats because, according to him, you encourage me to do such mischief. And feel free to ask me everything you want to know about my punishment in great detail...I will answer you...with pleasure. haha
Nobody ever said I can’t ask daddy if he’s being a good boy so I’ve decided that someone (me) should check to make sure. If no one’s ever asked him then how’s he supposed to know?!
In other news, I have not been spanked in…🧐 three??? Weeks???
I posted a week ago about ordering 240 miniature ducks to hide around Daddy’s things. They came in today and I started hiding them EVERYWHERE! I went a little too crazy though and put some in his protein powder and in a bottle of whiskey 🤭 I had made a video of myself hiding some of the wilder ones (like both of these). I started to get worried about Daddy eating a duck, so I sent him the video of me hiding the ducks in the whiskey and the protein powder. He’s currently over an hour away on his way home from a work trip, so I’m currently out of arm’s reach. I’m starting to worry though that he might not be too pleased with my little prank 🤭😅🤣
We will see if I survive the evening when he gets home…
Update: He just got home. He thinks my little prank is cute, but he told me off about putting ducks in the whiskey and I’m supposed to get them all out. I may be getting off easy, but the kiddo is still up, so things may change after he goes to bed.
Hi fellow brats! I need some inspiration.
My Dom is coming over to my house for dinner and to stay for the first time and I want to send him a list of things he needs to do for when he turns up as he often does for me. For context, his usual commands for me when I go to his are wearing a plug, collar on, fresh and smooth as he likes and sometimes specifics on outfit/makeup.
All I can really think of is requesting he wears a top that is tight on his arms (I'm just a girl). I want cute cheeky flirty things to request but am coming up short on ideas... Please help!!
Me and my boyfriend got together a few months ago after knowing each other for quite a while, I’ve been a sub/brat for a few years now but it’s his first time in a relationship with a dynamic like that. He’s been doing great so far but I want to incorporate more of it into our lifestyle and just don’t know how because I’ve never been on the dom side if anyone has any advice
So my water bottle from like almost a year ago got all weird and tasted funny no matter how much I cleaned it. Come to find out secrete mold, gross. So my master say, let's go out and get you a new one tonight. We head to the store and go look. I'm teasing a bit and then once I find one I really start to tease him, shake my ass on him a little. I'm wearing a jumpsuit with a little lacy cropped cover that ties in the front. so he sticks his hands down the shirt part cause he was like "you didn't wear jeans so I can stick my hands in your pockets and squeeze your butt". I'm like oh well suck for you. The jump suit has a low back and he stick his hand in and I jump a little and we laugh. Anyways I keep teasing and we check out and head to the car where he says I mess with him too much Not true. I playfully tease him. And then he decides to mess with me?! Rude. And he gets in the car and doesn't unlock it. takes his time then once he's in he unlocks it. Annoying. Making me wait for no reason. I get in annoyed so when he drives off the lot a flash my tit at him. Hehe I won right. I get called a brat bit no reaction. He acted like it was no big deal. I call him stoic and he never is bothered by me. Which means I need to try so hard, ugh. So we get a quick drink and he's like I like to start trouble. Which I'm like no. I would never. This leads us back home and I put my drink down and head to the room to go to the bathroom. He follows Which is odd and then grabs the back of my neck and pushes me onto the bed, bent over. I say "Gotta let me up i gotta pee" As I'm giggling trying to get out of this. He says too bad and proceeds to spank me. 😏 I get chastised a bit for being a brat and then he's like "this will be over if you apologize" He says while still spanking me. I argue I didn't do anything wrong. Be he doesn't stop even as Im squirming. Finally I say "I'm sorry I hurt your feelings" with a soft of sarcastic tone And he stops. My ass is a little sore and my face cheeks are warm cuz imma little embarrassed. He let's me go to the bathroom and as I do he says "next time, and apology is sorry for being a brat". So no more half assed apology from me.
I did however get a good spanking for seemingly no reason. I feel like according to him, he's seemingly unbothered so punishment was excessive lol. I was continue to only tease. I would never "mess" with my Master.
Dom has been very busy so ive been getting away with a lot of chaos, well theyre free Friday an im wondering what theyve got planned 😅
heyy, this isn't necessarily a bratty post but because my last one was here i thought id give an update..
first, I wanna thank you all for the help and advice, it meant a lot. i had a couple people dm me to help me stop spiraling, and I'm so grateful.
if you didnt read my last post, it was about a dom i was interacting with that decided to ignore me right after playtime, and it messed with my head a lot. I told him i was using my safe word, but at that point we hadn't discussed what it would be, so that should have been my first sign that it wasnt serious. after he told me to stop sending messages until i was told otherwise, i sent bratty messages to try to get his attention. He left me on delivered until the following day around noon, when all he said was "hey, busy today, sorry". after that message he continued leaving me on delivered and didn't even acknowledge the safe word.
earlier this morning i decided to just pull up my big girl pants and end it. i sent a message saying it wasn't working, i needed more attention than he was giving, and that i didn't feel seen. i left off the message wishing him the best. usually im not the type of person to let myself get treated badly unless im into it, but this was just pure toxic. I knew right away that i should have left, but there was something in my head saying "stay, itll get better".
I stupidly decided to listen to it until it literally gave me a medical emergency. I spiraled so bad, and got my heart rate so high that I ended up passing out. i do have a diagnosis for POTS and vasovagal syncope, so its not new but ive never had an episode because of someone else. When i passed out i cut my head on the corner of my desk. I woke up almost immediately after and went straight to the nearest family member. i passed out again, and thankfully there was no concussion or brain injury, but i wasn't willing to test it and let it happen again.
again, want to thank everybody that commented and/or reached out to me, as it helped a lot. Have a good day :)
Was was told to write five things i wanted daddy to do to me, and five things I didn't want done. I worte the five things I wanted done and two things I didn't want. I like everything he does so it was hard. When I asked him if I did okay he simply said" you didn't fallow my instructions" I told him "yes i did" he responded " ok. I will punish you accordingly" 😤 he picked me up kissed me played with me did everything I wanted him to do, I was thinking I was getting away with it he was fucking me so very hard and we were about to cum together ❤️, nope daddy pulled out came all over my back instead of my mouth, and ruined my orgasim. Bad girls don't get cum. 😢 😭 😿 I hate this punishment 😑
Ok, drop your best brat memes here. I need some good ammo lol.
Me and my Dom (Which I just figured out he was my dom like 2 months ago, I'm slow-) we're in the heat of things and I decided "Yea, I'll submit just this once" but no no. My Dom wanted me to fight back instead of just submit and I attempted but he pinned me, more than once. After about 5 minutes of me struggling and decided that teasing me and using the flogger was better.
So, I learned to NEVER submit willingly, it doesn't end in my favor (or does it? 😉😜)
Hello everyone!
In my professional life, I’m a UX Designer, and one of my favourite things to do is User Research. Now, my Sir knows I love research and falling down rabbit holes, so he’s assigned me to write a bunch of essays. The researcher in me is giddy because he has no idea what he’s getting into.
That being said, my fellow brats, I want to conduct some research with you about ‘the joys of being a brat’. I have 4 quick questions to guide the research and you can answer as much or as little as you like. Note: you do not have to be in a dynamic to answer!
When did you discover you were a brat? Was this a surprise to you or not? Are you currently in a dynamic (this last question is optional)
Tell me about one of your favourite bratting: brat moments. It can be funny, dirty, sensual, cute etc. How did it make you feel?
What is your least favourite part about bratting/being a brat? Why is it your least favourite? How does it make you feel?
What, in your opinion, are ‘the joy[s] of being a brat’?
I would like to thank anyone who takes the time to answer my research questions and I’m open to any and all responses. As a token of my gratitude, once the essay is written I will share it here - if you like.
VIVA!
Edited to add: if you prefer to send me a DM rather than respond here - that is totally okay by me!! 💖 I take privacy super seriously!
As some of you may have realized, I asked for advice some time ago. And as silly as it sounded, ai gave my best shot at initiating some bratting from my brat.
I literally just called her short. This set her off almost instantly and we began a back and forth until she ran out of thing to say. I surprisingly had her stumped 🙂↕️
Thank you!
Sir: You ever posted on BratLife? Me: What's bralife Sir? Sir: Oh no.
Now the fun begins to up my brattiness in some very creative ways from other brats.... I can't wait!
We are long distance so always finding ways to be creative with my brattiness.
What is your favorite way to be brat?
I'm just looking for advice on this because I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or not. (this is online so I cant just walk up to Him.)
Sir gave me orders today and let me finish. I was obedient and listened to everything He said to do, as I really didn't feel like bratting today. At the end, He gave me a few more orders, but then told me I was to stay quiet unless I was told otherwise, and that I couldn't send any more messages. Because of past childhood trauma aftercare and communication is a big thing for me, so when He said that I got defensive and bratted a little. I told Him he could punish me for it as long as He'd talk to me but also told Him I didn't think I should be punished for speaking my mind.
When He didn't answer, I took that bratting a bit further and called Him a "bad boy", hoping it would get His attention. It didn't. Almost 2 hours after He had initially told me not to send any more messages for the night, I sent my last one and said I'd like to have an actual conversation about it as I'm not comfortable with it. I felt abandoned and used, and not in a good way.
I may just be overreacting or being crazy but It's driving me crazy. Id have felt better about it if He gave me His reason like maybe He had something to do or somewhere to go, but He just didn't answer. I'm sure tomorrow Sir and I will have a conversation about it but I'm not sure how to address it and what to say that won't make Him mad.
