r/californiaswingers

Only couples and single females are allowed in this subreddit.

To verify you need to send a picture of yourselve(s) holding a piece of paper with the following written on it:

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Date, subreddit, username

You dont have to show your face but it does have to show who you are claiming to be.

Bans wont be lifted until verified.

Hey! We’re a nerdy and adventurous couple in our early 30s based in LA, looking to meet a woman — or the right couple — for good vibes, great nights, and some fun, meaningful exploration.

My girlfriend is bisexual, and we’re both working professionals who love anime, video games, breweries, trying out new food spots, and diving into the city’s nightlife. We’re also kink-friendly and sex-positive, so if that’s your vibe too, we’ll probably click right away.

We’re not into ONS — ideally looking for consistent, low-pressure connections that can grow naturally. Chemistry is important, but so is being cool, communicative, and respectful. We’re all about keeping things fun, safe, and drama-free. Regular testing is a must for any play.

If you’re curious, open-minded, and looking for a couple that’s big on laughter, shared experiences, and good energy — we’d love to hear from you! Tell us a little about yourself (or you two), and let’s see where things go.

For the ones who have read the rules you would know that this subreddit is ok with virgins as long as they verify and show that they can abide by the rules, even more restrictions are put into them when posting. I still continue on seeing people reporting their posts, which is a misuse of the report feature and if you would know I can refer that to admins, and who knows what they will decide to do if it violates the Reddit User Code of Conduct.

Why are they allowed to post here? There was a mass exodus of users from the r/virgin after r4r posts were forbidden, and any other nsfw personals subreddits have been extensively been banning, and harassing these users. There have been attempts at making nsfw virgin communities but all have been banned, and their mods have failed to provide any sort of safe space for their search. In response to that I decided to allow them to post here, until then, any sort of report towards a verified user will be considered a misuse of the report feature and action will be taken.

For the girls who are interested, Ill briefly introduce myself;

Spanish guy, my weight is about141 pounds, 5ft 8in, average size but girthy (5.8inches). I am now ok with being filmed if youre into that sort of thing, also ok with hearing ideas as long as you keep it within range of what Im looking for.

I am open to being STD tested, so far no luck, my chat also seems to be glitchy so bear with me. I am ok with working the logistics such as hosting, etc. I just ask that you verify, and if you are a couple, I ask that you do confirm that you are what you are claiming to be. Im not an easy target for catfishing, etc, and Ive learnt a lot by reading all these, "What to watch for" guides. As the title mentions, I find no issue in travelling if the interested party can verify who they are.

I do take or try to take care a lot for my body, that means going to the gym, eating properly, etc. I am quite low in Body Fat %, and have done other things to look appealing, so if you're into that, then we might click. That being said, I am also NOT interested in BBW.

No preference on race or age as long as you are STD free (DDF) and even better if you can provide a test result, I would do the same. I can get tested for HSV 1 and HSV 2 if you want as well

Hello from Southern Oregon! My wife (M54, F42) and I are an easy drive from the Sacramento and SF areas. Can anyone recommend a good LS resort in that area? We are wet and freezing here and looking for a place that we can lie our pasty, white bodies naked in the sun like a couple lizards. We NEED a place that has clothing optional areas, a nice pool, steam rooms and hot tubs. Nightclub…? Eh, I’m too old to stay out late. Food? Meh, we don’t eat much so we stay skinny and hot.

Any ideas for us?

Thank you! Cheers!

My partner and I are thinking of attending a party at Mountainside Acres. We're curious about the vibe- what's it like? Is it more laid-back or lively? Any insights on the crowd, music, or overall atmosphere would be awesome. Thanks in advance!"

Some users reported this account ( u/Illustrious_Yak_7989 ) for pic collecting. The account would pose as a "couple" but would not verify as such and would refuse to answer why when asked.

Remember to always think clearly and if an account or something seems off, it is!!

All couple seeking males posts are not allowed and don't get past the post filter, and single Ms are forbidden to post due to constant rule violation by y'all.

Now, if you are a couple and you receive a message by a single male, you can both ignore the chat request, block that person, and also there should be a flag icon that allows you to submit a report, you can file that report to the reddit system for harassment or whatever violating it might be, and most of the times, their account WILL BE SUSPENDED. Even better, the new AI is catching ban evaders and its not only recognizing IPs, but also MAC addresses, so its becoming extremely hard for these ban evaders to create a new account and continue to harass others.

For the girls who are interested, Ill briefly introduce myself;

Spanish guy, my weight is about141 pounds, 5ft 8in, average size but girthy (5.8inches). I am now ok with being filmed if youre into that sort of thing, also ok with hearing ideas as long as you keep it within range of what Im looking for.

I am open to being STD tested, so far no luck, my chat also seems to be glitchy so bear with me. I am ok with working the logistics such as hosting, etc. I just ask that you verify, and if you are a couple, I ask that you do confirm that you are what you are claiming to be. Im not an easy target for catfishing, etc, and Ive learnt a lot by reading all these, "What to watch for" guides. As the title mentions, I find no issue in travelling if the interested party can verify who they are.

I do take or try to take care a lot for my body, that means going to the gym, eating properly, etc. I am quite low in Body Fat %, and have done other things to look appealing, so if you're into that, then we might click. That being said, I am also NOT interested in BBW.

No preference on race or age as long as you are STD free (DDF) and even better if you can provide a test result, I would do the same. I can get tested for HSV 1 and HSV 2 if you want as well