r/cuckoldpsychology
Hi folks, we propose implementing a public verification program for the interested users in the community. Currently, verification would allow you to have a distinguished user flair and we are also thinking about some exemption from some rules such as being allowed to post story and AMA posts with more potential benefits in the future.
Our wish is to increase the quality of interactions within the community and give everyone a more engaging and fun community where there are less fake people and fantasists. As moderators, we would only act as the arbitrators of the verification process where you ultimately get to verify an user as the community.
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Verification Process:
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I (F22) have started talking about and fantasizing this fetish with my bf (24). He loves when I flirt with other guys, and I love to tease him about it. We talk about doing the real thing but I’m nervous to try as we’ve only been together 2.5 years.
How young is too young? I feel this this fetish has an older demographic.
I think this is the biggest honor as a bull, to have the wife be so into you that their relationship turn into cuckoldry. Happened to me s couple of times, and for both times it was the cuck's idea because they saw how much their wives enjoyed sex with me and wanted to take it to the next level. That changed their lives forever.
What about you? Any instances where stag/vixen relationships developed into full on cuckoldry? What aspects changed when the switch happened?
My wife first cuckolded me a couple of years ago when a guy she knew came onto her. She enjoyed it immensely and told her best friend what she was doing. The friend was shocked but also full of admiration. My wife told her she was doing it because she needed satisfaction and the guy was a lot bigger than me. She also said I knew and encouraged her as I wanted her to be satisfied. She didn’t say the C word but I found the outing of my small size and agreement of her affair humiliating but also a tremendous turn on.
She has just started looking for someone else and has met a guy who could be the one. She is meeting the friend tonight and I am desperate for the humiliation of outing me again. If I get my sensible head on I know it is a bad idea if this became more widely known However, cock is ruling head at the moment. Is it worth the risk?
I went to try to masturbate with a condom on late at night while the wife wasn't around. I have trouble getting it up so I've been trying to 'practice'
As I opened my drawer to get one I saw that my stash was substantially reduced. I know my wife took a bunch for her outing with her partner
I know I encouraged her to take some but I had a mixed feeling of shame and envy when I saw this. It made me furiously jack off more
Anyone else had similar situations?
If I ever saw my gf having sex with another person it would make me ill and uncontrollably upset. However, the last few times I have masturbated, I have thought about her performing sexual acts with other men, specifically her exes, in vivid detail. Which I hate the thought of. I have retroactive jealousy and I’m insecure with myself (as a person, I know she is satisfied in bed with me) Why do I keep thinking about these things while masturbating?
Somewhat early in our relationship, we discussed sexual experiences we’d be open to try. It started off that we would both be interested in entertaining a threesome (either MFM or MFF), but I posed the question of whether she would want me to participate, or if she would let me sit back and watch. The answer was back and forth between the two, but primarily to participate.
Fast forward a couple of months and I opened up that I thought the watching component was pretty attractive, or even, a lack of watching. She was receptive to incorporating this into the bedroom, and quite often the dirty talk would include role play as if she’d been used before I got to the house, or tell me that she missed fucking [previous partner] - later confirming this wasn’t true but thought it would get me going.
This on its own was already new territory for both of us, but seeing it drive me crazy seemed to get her off even more, especially as it makes me more aggressive in bed. We talked about whether she thought this would go anywhere, and she said she wasn’t sure/not for a while, but baby steps.
A few days ago, I made a list of potential baby steps to gauge her interest more directly. It included ideas like browsing online communities, engaging with people to make me jealous, or using dating apps in the bedroom. She said she’d try, but that there were a few risky items that she wasn’t sure about.
That same day, she got my attention in the gym and told me she found someone hot. She told me later that night that she was thinking about him fucking her while we were having sex. I asked her later if she was just saying that like last time, but she said no, he was hot, and she was really picturing someone else fucking her.
A day or two later, to my surprise, she had me go down on her as she downloaded a dating app. Although this scenario was on the list, I definitely didn’t expect it to materialise any time soon, and especially with such confidence and without warning. She set up a blank profile with an honest bio explaining she was there to make me jealous, and instantly got a match. She texted him back and forth about 20 times, exchanging compliments and flirty messages, and made me read them while fucking me.
We’ve agreed to no meet-ups or IRL activity in the foreseeable future, just harmless fun online while we’re both exploring our feelings about the experience. After this event, she said to me, “remember, whatever happens, you asked for this.”
I’m finding myself so turned on and unable to stop thinking about her getting off on seeing me jealous. When we’re not together, all I can think about is her chatting with local singles she finds hot enough to swipe on, admitting her attraction and directing some light humiliation towards me. Initially, we said she’d only do it in front of me or during sex, but… since I’m thinking about when we’re apart, it turns me on so much more to think about her using the app when we’re apart, too. I’d love to see messages that were exchanged when I wasn’t around.
Don’t know what the next baby step will be but this is going to be hard to top
Mine always said mine was perfect for her even though I am 2” and I was the one who pushed cuckolding. I still remember her first reaction when her first bull pulled down his pants. It swung out compared to mine that just kind of bobbles. She got this huge smile on her face and goes “can I touch it?” Completely mesmerized. She is very innocent so her immediate reaction of not even looking at me and asking to play with it took me off guard. Then when she finally put it in she gasped and moaned like I’ve never heard before. To top it off he only had his head in but the thickness must have got her going.
Since then she will make more comments when she sees a bulge or on TV. I love her openenness now and the humiliation turns me on. She will make comments like “why doesn’t yours swing like that” and I love it.
What has been your experience? Interested to hear from cuckolds, bulls, and hotwifes!
Have our first dinner date and overnight in a hotel with our bull next week. I am excited and nervous. Its the first time for us beyond cuck sessions of maybe two hours.
Wif is as excited as she can be. She is my dominant in our marriage and our bull has been with us about 8 times.
Any comments that might help keep my sanity as I watch all the events over the 12-16 hours between dinner and the overnight?
Sorry but I am not in the camp of “how wonderful it is for her its the best thing ever” that some are.
I am still struggling with the whole concept yet my cock gets rock hard as I watch them. What a struggling journey the cuckold life can be. I love it. I hate it.
In the beginning when we first ventured into the lifestyle, I never imagined myself being comfortable with any humiliation play. But as the years have progressed, I became curious and naturally looked to satisfy this curiosity.
It's not with every experience or guy that we venture towards humiliation play but I will it is something that's become a huge turn on for me and the wife has gotten more comfortable with it to be more involved and creative in finding ways to spice that style of play for us.
One of my favorite acts has become having our bull cum on her wedding ring and hand. In order to be able to get permission to reclaim her, I have to lick off all of his cum off her ring and hand. Another fun act is undressing our bull to get him ready to take her or being handcuffed with my hands behind my back while he's fucking her and not getting uncuffed until our bull has came on my cock and then my wife goes to lick it all up and kiss me afterwards.
Wondering some ideas other couples have?
I 36F recently started dating 34M who has opened up to me that he has a cuckolding kink.
Quick background on this situation: We have been dating for only around 5 months. He is by far the most attractive (to me) person I've ever dated. Even my friends joked that I found my unicorn because he embodies the quintessential man I've always wanted to date, and what I want is extremely rare (in terms of all aesthetic features coming together in one person). So to say im turned on by this guy is an understatement.
Well, the attraction is clearly mutual as we made out on our first date in the middle of the restaurant lol (something I had NEVER done before). Despite this, he was fine with holding off on sex which surprised me considering just how flirtatious our conversations were.
Well fast forward after a few more dates, he began asking me questions that caught me off guard. Questions about if I had ever cheated, if I would consider sleeping with another man in our relationship, etc. I was super confused at first because the questions were contradicting how he was asking them. Basically he sounded more like he was asking because it turned him on, not to explore my thoughts on monogamy.
So I asked him flat out if he was interested in the idea of a threesome or something? He then explained that he wasn't but he secretly is extremely turned on by feeling jealous and would like me to consider doing things like going on dates with other men, sending pictures of me kissing them or holding their hands, their hand on my thigh, etc, but coming home to him afterwards to sleep with him. He added that, part of why he was so turned on by me on our first date is he had seen on my social media story, myself on a date with a guy whose face I didn't show. He said it made him super jealous and turned on at the same time and he couldn't control his desire to kiss me when we met. He also eventually admitted that he would like to see me sleep with another man at some point in the future.
When we finally had sex it was after a guy I had previously dated messaged me. He saw the message on my phone and tried to hide his jealousy but it was very obvious it bothered him. To my shock he was indeed very turned on afterwards though and the sex we had following was incredible!
Having never experienced anything like this, I think im finding myself turned on by the idea of him being turned on by it? And while I'm still not understanding this kink he has, im open to entertaining it if the end result is that level of passionate sex afterwards.
The thing is, im also genuinely attracted to this man beyond just his looks and the great sex, and ideally I would love to have a long term relationship with him. Being unifamiliar to all this, Im concerned if entertaining this will lead to problems longterm.
So im open to any advice anyone has on how to navigate this fetish. Anyone in here in longterm relationships that have thrived while engaging in doing this? If I do consider entertaining this, what parameters should we establish first? Any thing I should be aware of if we move forward? ‐----------------------
TLDR- new relationship partner opened up to having a jealousy cuckolding kink and im unsure if or how I should entertain his request.
Howdy fellow lifestylers.
A little backstory for you.
My wife and I are early 40s. We are both tall, fit, and attractive. I am well above average below the belt and she's still incredibly perky up top and around back. We started our relationship in our early 30s with complete honesty. She had been married for 15 years, before divorcing and subsequently we met on tinder.
She was dating other guys while we dated, as I was dating other women. While we were courting we talked about all the dirty things we'd done and what we enjoyed and didn't and she mentioned one guy she was currently seeing loved to be cuckolded. So she'd send pics and video to him of others she was sleeping with. He would stream on BBC cuckold porn and they'd fuck to it. Etc.
Cuckolding had always been a secret fantasy of mine and I told her as much. Needless to say I got to fulfill that with her from pretty early on.
We ended up getting married and have had a wonderful marriage thus far. Very little strife, few arguments, and almost no apposing goals.
Over the years we have dabbled in the lifestyle, mostly with one of her exes who has a great cock and completely respects what we have as a couple. She doesn't get any sideline texts or invites or requests for pictures from him. He's not a snake in the grass at all. It's all very open.
I've realized over the years that my "cuckold" fantasy isn't traditional, in the way it's presented in visual porn or erotica. I have no inferiority complex or any desire to be degraded. Similarly, she has no desire to degrade me or humiliate me. So I've started calling what we do "hotwifing." Which, according to what I've read, more fits with what I enjoy. I love seeing her pleasure, her excitement, and I love reclaiming her after she's been with someone. We don't dabble too often as we are both professionals and we have a phenomenal sex life.
Now to the point. We've recently discussed getting back into the lifestyle so she is on the prowl. She has made connection with an experienced gentleman who travels through our city fairly regularly. (It should be noted, part of her enjoyment is getting to know the potential partner without my involvement in order to find some connection which makes sex the better for her, these men are hers to choose, not mine).
She gave me his profile to look at and he falls into the category of BBC, which I don't care about, but, he's also into pretty extreme domination (whips, St. Andrews Cross, impact etc). And going further into his connections one of his playmates has a profile full of captioned pictures reading "BBC owned" "BBC cum slut" etc. This gives me hesitation because that more extreme Dom stuff is not something I want my wife doing without me. I don't want her hit, beat, bruised (beyond love bites). I also will not play the "owned" game with anyone. She's my wife and I am her husband. We share each other but nobody owns us.
This is new territory for me because I don't want to stymie her excitement and experience, but I'm not sure how to express my concerns or even say no without doing so.
Anyone had a similar experience that can share how they handled it?
Hey all,
Looking to see if others recognize this dynamic, and maybe even if there’s a name for it.
My wife and I have explored cuckolding on and off over the years. She enjoys indulging me every now and then, and I’m grateful for that. But honestly, the part that hits me hardest lately isn’t even the act itself.
It’s when she interrogates me. Lovingly, playfully, but with just enough dominance to make me squirm. She roughly knows the fantasies I’m shy to say out loud. And she wants me to admit them. Or digs for new depths and secrets. She asks questions, teases, prods , sometimes mockingly, but never truly cruel. She’s creating an atmosphere where I have to be vulnerable. And that’s what really turns me on.
It’s not humiliation per se. That’s not really my thing afaik. It’s more about being exposed, seen, made to say the things I almost can’t. I think of it as some mix between confession kink, teasing domination, and vulnerability play? But I don’t know if there’s an actual term for this dynamic and if it is common within cuckolding.
Anyone else experience this? Or have language for it?
If so what was your initial reaction? How have tour feelings changed over the years?
My wife and I have been navigating different stages of the beginning of our journey. We have both started to really fantasize about what we both want the hotwife experience to look for us. It’s lead to a lot of fun dirty talk and conversations both inside and outside of the bedroom. But I’ve noticed that the aspects have been evolving in our talks.
They used to focus around just the sharing of her and having her be the center of attention, receiving pleasure from both of us. Now we have added details like the other man being bigger and better than me and then focusing on him being a young stud with great stamina. It’s been a great ride and I’m curious to where it goes from here
My wife and I have been together for close to twenty five years and have used the cuck/hotwife fantasy during sex for a long time. We've had a few serious discussions about doing it for real and of course, she has her concerns.
She has said that if this were to ever happen, she would like it to be something that happens organically or in the moment. I don't mind the thought of that, but the problem is that I don't ever see it happening in this way. We have young children and we always travel with them. She doesn't travel alone for work or go out with girlfriends that often, so I feel like the chances of this happening organically are worse than PowerBall odds.
My suggestion is to look for a Bull together. Vet him, make sure that there's a connection and that he understands what we would like. And of course, make absolutely sure that he is STD free as we are both into a potential bull having her bare (she can't get pregnant) which I think is a big factor over finding a Bull by chance in the wild.
The hurdle to this is that she has told me that searching for a Bull in this way would make her feel cheap. So I feel like this is the big blockade that is stopping us from trying out the lifestyle.
Has anyone else come across this or might be able to explain to me what she really means? Have any wives ever felt this way?
I’m a 22 year old white guy dating a girl who is 23, and I watched porn a lot since I was like 14 or 15, a lot of it being blacked because the storylines were better and the sex was hotter. Anyways, I wasn’t always like this and I actually used to have a fetish of being the guy who fucks the girl in front of her man but over time I’ve found myself getting turned on by the idea of my girl with other dudes, specifically black dudes with massive dongs. Now I’m sure this probably stems from years of watching bbc porn and I’m trying to stop because in all seriousness, I don’t want to be a cuck. I think it’s not for me (no offense to anyone who is a cuck) and I don’t really want to try it.
But fuck dude I can’t get it out of my head. I’ve fully had dreams of my girlfriend fucking other guys, like a month ago I had a dream of her fucking Victor Wembanyama (a French nba player) that shit didn’t even turn me on I was just like what the fuck? Probably because Victor isn’t like your typical “bull” but anyways. I’ve had dreams of her other guys and I always wake up horny as shit but like kinda pissed at myself for even having this kink.
My girlfriend was at her friends house recently and saw her younger brother change (her younger brother is like a 10 year old black kid) and she said she saw his dick. Now in no way am I trying to sexualize a kid, just wanna get that out there. She told me “yeah you’d think because he hasn’t hit puberty yes he’d have like a tiny dick right? But no it was like pretty big.” Btw she was just saying this in passing like she didn’t think anything of it, and if I wasn’t this like sexually depraved dumbass then I probably wouldn’t have thought anything of it either.
Now she told me this, and PLEASE hear me out. It really fucking turned me on. Not the fact that she saw a kids dick, but it was her describing another dick to me as “big”. That turned me on.
Then since I was horny already I started asking her abt like some stuff she’d done in the past (in a normal way not in a perverted way) and she told me her ex (another white dude) has like a huge dick and it turned me on even more. The thought of my girlfriend with a dick bigger than mine turns me on, and that’s the truth. I don’t want this fetish, but idk how to get rid of it.
Do I bring it up to her? I don’t want to be a cuck because like I feel like it would fuck with my trust and just destroy my self esteem, and on top of that I just think it’s a little odd to jerk off watching ur girl get fucked. When I’m not horny it doesn’t turn me on at all it grosses me out which means my mind doesn’t want it but my dick does.
Lastly, I just wanna say I’m not like some nerdy scared “white boy” that I’ve heard about, I’m a 6’3 white dude and when I go out I usually get approached by like 1 or 2 girls per night. I’ve also never had problems satisfying any partners in the past, and I make my girlfriend scream-orgasm every time we fuck. My dick is also like the size of a white claw can. So it’s big but not massive. I’m just saying this so that you guys know it doesn’t come from this like feeling of sexual inadequacy, it’s really just that I watched too much blacked and now I think I just associate my sexual pleasure with two other people having sex, usually a black dude w a huge dick and a white girl. Anyways, sorry for making this so long. If you have any tips on how to get rid of this please let me know because it’s kinda pissing me off. I’ve been slowly watching less porn, going from like every day pretty much to like twice a week. So anything other than quitting porn would be useful. Thanks Reddit.
Hi all, I've been into cuckolding for a few years now, never really told directly the wife, and honestly I'm still a bit ashamed by this kink of mine. But wanted to share a bit of a story.
The wife has a dildo and we often play with it, I tell her I love seeing her suck me while I use the dildo on her (hinting that she'd look super sexy getting fucked from behind and sucking me), that I like to feel her pussy stretched after she uses her dildo. It's been super hot and I feel like she knows there's some thing there for me and goes along with it.
Couple weeks ago we were having sex and she admited to have watched porn recently and when asked what she was watching she says gloryholes. I was very surprised, she often tell me she has no sexual interest in anyone else... We were about to kinda dirty talk about it, but I came so quickly once she started asking if I'd like to see her getting used... It was the first time she brought anything like that up and I just couldn't handle it.
I'm not quite sure if we ever will do real cuckolding, I don't even know if I really want that, but I do find it sexy at least just the though of it. I can't wait for our next time and see if brings it up again...
Since my wife and her boyfriend have been together, my wife and I don’t have sex much. We were talking and I told her whatever she wants/needs from me would be fine. It’s been decided that except for special occasions, I’m going to be pussy free. This happened to anyone else?
Ok so I’ve narrowed it down to a few possible situations that we have both talked in depth about these last few days. 1 idea my husband has suggested that we get in touch with a friend of his from back in the day,who I did share a kiss with long before meeting my husband,they are still good friends but not as close as they once was ! My husband has shown him a few videos of us having fun and he showed my husband some vids aswell,I was fully aware that was happening and I was messaging ‘Andy’ for a while but that fizzled out. 2nd option is meet a total stranger BUT he has to tick all my boxes 1st,this discussion involved the type of body and dick and type of sex I’d like to experience,ideally I want a different shape and size of man compared to my husband and I like the sex to be more demanding on his part,my husband knows what I like and how to do it but I want abit more shock value and not knowing what’s going to happen next,I guess I want the ‘used’ side of sex something I haven’t felt for a longtime.also after the said deed I’d want my husband to make love to me straight away and reconnect.i know this sounds 1 sided to my likes but my husband is agreeing and has suggested that maybe he should not be there straight away maybe I should start of on my own and then he joins us once he can hear me moaning and then watches us.just quickly all the talking we’ve been doing and the reading of Reddit we’ve had sex 8 times in 4days l,I’m sure to update again
My wife and I have already talked quite a bit about the topic of my fetish, of being a cuckold. She even kissed another man once when she went out with a friend, but nothing beyond that. Now, 10 years after we started talking about it, she is more willing to move forward and try some things.
But we wanted to start slowly, to learn more about the liberal world, since some accounts have made us a bit apprehensive. Things like rude men or experiences that generated a lot of jealousy and ended the marriage. We wanted to start slowly and experiment with things to understand our limit, so to speak.
Has anyone who has gone through this have any suggestions on what we can do?
Some things we have already experienced:
Not talking about making it a permanent thing. But I had a happy ending massage and feel as though there needs to be some punishment. Is cuckoldry used to punish for such things? What type of punishments are common?
Hi all, i’ve been with my gf for about 6 years now. She’s 23, I’m 22, and, to put it simply, I’m really interested in getting cucked and similar experiences, but, she doesn’t seem overly interested, and just gets annoyed the more I bring it up, she is adamant I am the only person that she wants to sleep with. I know this is the nicest problem to have in the world… but is there anything I can do about this? Or is this just what our relationship will have to be?
So, right now me and my girlfriend are on vacation to Tenerife. We’ve been together for nearly three years and for a while I’ve been wanting to ask her if we could try cuckolding. It’s always been one of my biggest fantasies but I’ve never spoken to her about it before. Since we’re on holiday, I think this would be the perfect time to try it since no one here knows it and there’s not much consequences if things aren’t what we expect. There’s a lifeguard at the pool of the hotel we’re staying at that has taken a liking to my girl, I think it would be so hot if I got her to make move on him.
Hi all, my wife and I are in hotwife lifestyle for 6 years now. We both immigrants in USA coming from a relatively conservative country. 3 years back we had a kid and she took about a year break and she is back in lifestyle for like a year now. What I want to discuss is, although we keep the lifestyle part a secret (just couple of her girlfriends know), as soon as she became comfortable being a hotwife, she went through major change in the way she dressed even in non play, day to day settings. Lot of heavy make up, revealing cloths and heels. I did not have a complaint. After she baby she gained some weight and she worked hard to loose it. As she gets back in the lifestyle, she is dressing daring dresses again. But now I am bit worried as she is a mom. Because particularly about an outfit she wore for daycare to pick the child.
I do not want to make an issue about it and make her feel uncomfortable. How would you approach this?
Hi Everyone,
We are a cuckold couple, both of us are 32 years old, from Hyderabad, actively embracing this lifestyle for the past two years. While we’ve enjoyed exploring, we haven’t yet found a regular bull to connect with consistently. Recently, my wife became pregnant (with me), which has brought lot of anxiety. When we were trying to conceive, we felt optimistic about starting a family, but now that she’s pregnant, we’re reflecting on how this change might impact our kink dynamics.
One challenge we’re navigating is a sense of isolation. Our kink preferences aren’t something we can openly share with friends or family, which makes it difficult to discuss our hopes and fears about parenthood fully. We often find ourselves holding back, unable to seek holistic advice that considers both our lifestyle and our new journey into parenthood.
We’d love to connect with other cuckold couples who have experienced similar transitions—particularly those who’ve balanced this lifestyle with starting a family. We’re eager to hear how you’ve managed these changes and maintained your dynamic.