My wife and I are on the younger end of the spectrum for this play and I was wondering if there’s any tips or suggestions ladies (or men) might have for my situation, or another subreddit for advice. My wife is sexually conservative and I am a little more out going, I would like to broach the topic with my wife of this fantasy, usually when we talk about these things it’s via sexting because I feel less bashful of the situation. I just want to role play this with her and a sex toy, but she’s felt turned off by dildos in the past, I’m not sure if that’s because to her it feels like a 3rd or if it’s just generally uncomfortable for her, they’ve been normal size nothing crazy, but my thought is that if I do tell her she might be more comfortable with them and the roleplay aspect. Any suggestions or tips of when and or how to approach would be amazing, thank you so much.