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This is NOT a personals subreddit. Here are various options for those looking

This is from old post I decided to bring back due to such posts being on the rise again. Information in it should be pretty accurate to date. I will be updating it in the future if / when need be.

This is pretty much the most common post type we have to take action against, tons of people are looking for someone and as we do not allow personals in this subreddit so I've been thinking of making a post to help out those looking.

Websites:

Fetlife is always worth taking a look. It's the biggest adult fetish network in the world (hands down), however do keep in mind that it is not a dating site. You will not have proper search tools and it can be a frustrating experience if you're not into local munches and meets. There are some fakes and scammers as well, but they do work on it to keep it as clean as possible
Tightcuffs is relatively new but extremely promising fetish personals website. It reminds me of CollarMe's golden days (website which was superb back in the day), it has simple and easy to use interface with search tools plus the best part of it is that every profile is manually approved to keep the fakes out, however based to what I've seen and heard they are lightning fast to approve provided you filled it up properly. It has seemed to grow quite a bit as well since I first discovered it. Messaging system is also great with realtime chat. It's still in beta and seems to be under active development with new features coming out regulary
CollarSpace is what's left of CollarMe. (Owners of collarMe had falling out, another one went their way and started up CollarSpace) The site is pretty much unmanaged nowadays, when registrations are allowed (currently registrations have been closed down for at least 6 months) profiles have to be approved and approvals take weeks / months at worst, interface is around 20 years old (no joke) and half of it is nonfunctional. Messages get commas, line changes, dots and other various characters removed. On top of that it has serious reliability issues. However if you do have an old account over there, it still works ..somewhat
UPDATE 11th Dec 2021 Lots of reports Alt.com being full of scammers nowadays Not recommended anymore and removed from the list

Reddit:

Reddit has certain subreddits which focuse into personals. However as Reddit is not moderated the way websites are, please do remember:

Asking for your money / tribute for just random online domination is 99% Scam
Asking for your personal details etc immediately. NEVER give them, these are blackmail based scammers and this scam seems to be huge at the moment.
In general if it sounds too good to be true, it usually is. As an example: You're a submissive male and that perfect Mistress simply comes to ask you to submit making the first contact randomly? Such posts are getting removed by the dozens every day in our subreddit, these are 100% scams.

Now, those subreddits:

/r/femdompersonals is the biggest femdom based personals subreddit. However, please be cautious with the points made above
/r/BDSMpersonals biggest BDSM personals in reddit. Moderated and well built structure for rules but again, do pay attention to scams (especially female dominant ads, scammers are really taking advantage of reddit's API changes)

I will be updating this list as time goes on if needed. If you feel like I missed something which should be here, please do contact me directly and let's look into it. Do NOT add a link as an advertisement to comments. Thank you!

** Edited and reposted (thanks to reddit now hiding stickies in certain cases) - 26th March 2023.

*** Edit, info about scams - 24th August 2023

**** Reposting since such posts are again on the rise - 29 October 2023

***** Another reminder 10th May 2024

Rule change for content creators - No approval needed anymore, however PLEASE MAKE SURE to read the this sticky in FULL before posting.

We are changing our rules regarding content sellers/creators.

From now on, approval won't be needed anymore. However to combat spam and scammers, we are dropping redgifs (99% of the trouble we have with content posts are due to redgifs, for example people spamming their redgifs content to 20 subreddits without taking even a look into it).

Due to that we have had to check every single post manually which has been extremely laborous and slow work, we also have had to manually go through every account before approval which is not fast and as we're getting them in two digit numbers at some days, it's not sustainable.

So, to combat this we're trying something different, redgifs is not allowed anymore. Instead, use imaglr.com when posting. That takes away 99% of the content related scammers and spammers.

Please note that despite this we do enforce the rules to the letter, make sure you have read them and understood them before posting

Thank you!