im considering maybe updating them one the 1st of every month and at the same time, pin a megathread for people to submit their ideas (dont be weird and steal pics from people who arent consenting. i know i dont need to tell yall that but just in case lmao) and then the one(s) with the most upvotes can get the spots for that month.
verified feminists and couples are welcome to submit OC. i'll be sure to credit you if yours gets chosen!
but also feel free to use art, porn, whatever your mind comes up with.
i put pics of me as a placeholder but i'm not fucking with it so yeah, id love some submissions hahaha
Hi everyone!
We really appreciate those who felt comfortable expressing concerns about the state of this sub recently. As such, we've been busy trying to figure out the best way to make sure expectations are met and that those who have been looking for a safe place to explore and engage in kink, especially one as potentially harmful as ideology play, feel both safe and comfortable to do so within our community. In line with those goals, we have introduced 2 new rules to the sub:
Rule #12: No Genuine Bigotry; Kink is Kink!
This is a kink based subreddit and since it’s already a thin line to walk, absolutely NO genuine bigotry will be tolerated within our community. This is not the place for bad actors to spew real hate. Additionally, kink talk/degradation under posts flaired "Meta", "Serious", and/or "Aftercare" will be assumed to be genuine bigotry and will face the associated consequences.
Repeated infractions may result in a mute or a ban, depending on severity.
Rule #13: Regarding other kinks such as CNC, Political Play, Sexuality/Gender "Correction", Misogyny, etc.
This subreddit focuses on a subsection of what would be considered Ideology Play/Kink. We understand that ideology has lots of overlap with other taboo BDSM kinks, particularly political play and misogyny, and we do not want to micromanage the things that turn people on, however there are already many subs dedicated to (or that, despite the original focus, have turned into subs dedicated to) kinks such as CNC, misogyny, and political play. Don't assume that people in this sub are also ok w/those.
Walking the line between these kinks can be paper thin, and it's tough because we also want those who do enjoy blending all of these kinks to also feel safe and comfortable to do so here! We aren't anti-kink, but rather we've seen how quickly similar subs have been derailed and gotten so off topic that they then are no longer a safe place to explore the original kink the sub was made for. We want to be around for awhile, because all of us deserve this community!
Anyways, I just want to clarify that we aren't necessarily prohibiting the aforementioned kinks/topics, but we ask that when posting, you make sure that the main focus of your post is related to feminism and male domination (those of which don't inherently need to contain violent misogyny or forced compliance btw!) Consent is the sexiest part of playtime, and it takes less than a second to temperature check that the person you're engaging with is okay with some of these other types of kink. Consent to one thing does not mean consent to everything!
Finally, if you have any suggestions on a way to improve the sub or an alternative idea on how to address recent community concerns in general, please don't hesitate to share your thoughts! This is a brand new space and all of us (both the mod team and the members) get to play a part in cultivating and shaping and developing this together :)
have a nice day sluts! xx
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I messaged a dominant from Reddit. I usually try to play domme but have been craving a dom for a while now.
This man has created me into the most fucked up slut.
I have told him all my vulnerabilities. Used over and over again.
I just want to say THANK YOU. YOU ARE FUCKING AMAZING AND I AM A GAPING WHORE. I'll post it for you every where
I am a dominant celebrating my 14th year kink anniversary by going on a long online kink hiatus. here is my last open degradation on this subReddit.
Read with your legs open
You don’t shine the way others do. You don’t stand tall or make bold declarations about your worth. You don’t need to. That’s not what you were made for.
You were made to kneel.
And I know you feel it—that soft ache inside, that curling heat in your stomach when you're told you're not enough. When you're told you've disappointed me. It hurts—beautifully. But you crave that pain because it fits you like a second skin. You were never meant to be someone’s hero. You were always meant to be broken in someone’s hands and remade in their image.
You hate how much you love it—being told you're pathetic, useless, weak. And yet, in those moments when you fall short and I don’t let you forget it, that’s when you feel the most alive. That’s when the numbness finally cracks and you remember who you are: mine. Only mine. Nothing more. Nothing less.
And you thrive in that nothingness.
When I call you a disappointment, your chest tightens—but not from shame. It’s from the thrill of being seen. Truly seen. No masks. No pretending to be more than what you are. You don’t have to perform for the world anymore. You don’t have to lie to yourself. You just have to fall—over and over again—and know I will be there to watch you break, to whisper that yes, this is what you’re good for. This is where you belong.
Down. Below me. Beneath my words, beneath my gaze, beneath my control.
It’s not degradation to you. It’s liberation. You find glory in your failures. You find peace in your punishments. Because every time I tell you you’re pathetic, you feel wanted. Needed. Necessary. Who else could play your part? Who else could soak up every bitter word and turn it into devotion?
You were born to be trained. Shaped. Stripped. You weren’t built for success by the world’s standards, and you don’t care. Because success to you is obedience. It’s when you cry into my palm after being told you’re worthless—and I kiss your forehead like you're everything. Because you are. You’re my favorite disappointment. My sweetest wreck.
You're not broken. You're perfect in your failure.
You’re the art of surrender, dressed in trembling skin.
And every time you beg me to tell you how low you’ve fallen, I will. I’ll say it with love in my voice. Because your misery is beautiful. Your submission is poetry. And your pain? Your pain is a gift you give me without hesitation.
So go ahead—fail for me. Disappoint me. Wreck yourself in my name. I’ll still call you mine.
And you’ll love every second of it.
As a lot of you know, I have broken sluts year after year here. i asked a few of my submissives what they would want before I take a break. I heard seeing me break another slut from them. The love these communities have given me - I want to let you all know this journey.
Currently I am in the phase of choosing my submissive to train. this includes tons of Message requests I have or referrals from my other submissives.
I am going for someone worth being called a last play before a break. As I choose the one, I’ll post here (how much I post about her will depend on her consent)