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After reading a book written by a psychologist who specializes in sex therapy, my mind is blown, and I realize I don't know much about what I like. I want to be more adventurous but I don't know where to start!

I think this stems from my ultra conservative religious upbringing and I want to feel liberated. Any thoughts, resources, and/or advice would be appreciated!

I got a dildo and some lube but when I use it my dildo gets a bit messy, how can I fix this

If there’s a way to make it hit my g spot regularly that would be great to know haha

I’m asking tops too, just didn’t wanna leave my fellow bottoms out. Be as descriptive as you want, let’s educate each other and make the gay sex life more enjoyable for us all 😜.

I am wearing faux leather pants with ankle high boots!! Super submissive and more on the feminine side!!

Get in to it and give details. Wanna educate and make bottoms better for y’all 😜.

I’ve never had sex as a top before. I’d like to try it, but I’m afraid I won’t know how to do it — like I won’t be able to keep the rhythm. How I could make it work? Tks in advance

Hey y'all, I got a question and I hope there's experts in attendance.

I started training to deepthroat a couple of days ago, I use a fairly soft double-sided dildo that's not too thick but I have an issue.

Besides the gag reflex, I quickly develop a slightly pain in my tonsils area during my sessions, as well as the muscle beneath my tongue. Afterwards, it stays sore for hours.

Is this normal, or is there something I should be aware of ?

Tried to get suggestions will comment in the comments what I’m after

I have a strong cum fetish, particularly for big loads. I'm also a bottom so the end result of any encounter should be the guy cumming. But so far I have yet to find a guy who has a big load (like 7ml or more). Most guys I found that claim to are usually barely average or less. I know an orgy/bukkake would probably satisfy me but those are impossible to find.

I know this is a weird or maybe hard (heh) to answer question, but how can I make my dream a possibility?

I’ve been on the search for trans dating siyee but I can’t seem to find any in the European/ German region. Could anyone help me out?

Just wondering what can I do when parents don't want me to buy sex toys but I really want anal play what should I do

hi i’m a 22 and a 5ft 2 bottom but i want to know what drive you tops crazy during sex. Men already like how short i am so i know they like topping me but i want to know like what positions yall like - i usually just do reverse cowgirl or doggy but id like to do more and get better with sex :) so anything helps

I have been with my boyfriend for 5+ years and as time passes, I find myself more and more clueless about what to say during sex. I know my man is turned on by me talking about my hole or his cock - typical stuff - but I feel like I’m running out of ideas of things to keep it sexy in a verbal sense. He’s really into me worshipping his body, playing with his chubby belly and commenting on how fat he is but I don’t know where else to go. Any ideas?

Luckily for me, I seem to be a lot of Arabs’ type. The percentage of Arabs out of all the men that fuck/want to fuck me is very high. They’re great at sex and are definitely my type so this is very good for me. However, there are lots of Arabs who would only fuck me on the stipulation that I shave my ass, and plenty of those that do fuck me say the same thing: they would prefer me if I shaved. I’ve always assumed this is because they’re uncomfortable with their homosexuality and just want to fuck a hole - men are easier than women so they fuck men and want them to be as effeminate as possible. Has anyone else had this experience? Why do you think this is? Can any Arabs give their thoughts?

Hi alk I’ve been this group for while now and I was wondering if yous could help I Don’t know weather u try dick or not idk if I’m gay or bi

Your pleasure is all I care about. I want you to have the best time, and feel like you are a King. If you want me to be dominant I can, if you want me to be submissive I can, just want a shoulder rub your ass ate and a blowjob I got you. You want to slap me, or grab my throat and call me names while you rail me, let’s do it. If you like a quiet session of me just opening my legs and not making a sound that’s cool to. Whatever you want, I want to provide it for you. Do what you want, use me for your pleasure and your pleasure alone. Don’t do what you think I will like or enjoy. If you are well pleased in the end, then I will be also. You being satisfied and feeling like a champion, that is what I get off on, you don’t even need to touch me if you don’t want to. I’m just a tool for your pleasure.

(Won’t do anything gross though like with bodily fluids.)

Hello!

So I (27 M) and by fiancee (32 M) are both vers. but 90% of the time my partner is the one who tops. While it's wonderful I have an issue where about 50% of the time after we do it, after a few days I experience mild pain and discomfort as well as light bleeding during bowel movements.

This is a pain the ass (literally) as it takes a few days for me to heal and usually incour in us not having sex as often as we'd like as I need to wait for myself to heal. This also sucks because my bf is quite hormonal and I also feel bad that I cannot do it more often.

I wanted to ask if there are better ways to heal faster as well as to prevent me from being hurt as often. I mostly plan to, from now own once i'm healed, train with toys a little every day istead of just trying to dialate all the way right before sex.

I also wanted to ask if it's normal to only bleed and feel sore 2 to 3 days after we've had sex and not immediately after, as it in my case I usually only feel it days after we do it.

Thanks for all the help!

Has anyone else ever been fucked so good or played either themselves to the point where your energy is depleted? I played with myself earlier today and within 30min I was mellowed out, then zonked out on the sofa. I woke up and have been so relaxed and tired. I haven’t felt like this in a while. Is this normal after bottoming for everyone else or just me?

I have this really big fantasy about sexting but with no photos, you know? Like it’s more erotic with just words. I don’t know if anybody else feels like this though, kind of biased just because I’m insecure about my body and being ftm.

Why or why not?

I love when mens brutally use my throat ( with throw up too but not necessarry), is it a bad kink? (20yrs twink)

After talking with a fellow sub about it, I want to know if anyone else has required their sub or have been required to provide daily service oral and/or anal? My ex required that I suck his cum out 2x a day every morning as soon as he wakes up and as he would fall asleep. Any similar situations?

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

There’s this older guy I had sex with and he loves all the dirty fantasies I do but I’m scared to explore them with him even though I really want to.