r/gbr4r
Seriously, if someone makes a post (especially an account that's like a week old or less), and "she" states that they won't respond without you sending photos first, that should be a red flag that it may be a catfish/pic collector/blackmailer.
There's at least one guy that keeps popping up in this sub pretending to be an F looking for an M. He uses stolen, edited pics as verification, and makes new names each time he gets busted.
His most recent username, u/12selfie, was created an hour after getting called out on r4rasian for catfishing with his username of u/12selfies.
His latest post in this sub is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/GBr4r/comments/so7gux/21_f4m_londonuk_feeling_carnal_and_looking_for/ (here's a mirror of their dirtyr4r post, which was the same text: https://i.ibb.co/18FVcD3/12selfie.jpg)
The pic he linked to on imgur was stolen from a now-deleted user, her pics (including an edited verification pic) is what he's been using for the last few usernames to pretend they're real.
He's also previously been:
And a bunch of others I haven't listed.
edit: u/12selfie has deleted his account after realizing that he's not able to post in many of the various subreddits he usually tries to post in... for reasons.
The mod team works incredibly hard to remove the users that should not be here. Ban evasion filter set to maximum, just single user reports raise push notifications on our phones to respond to (reddit default is three reports before a notification), karma limit to prevent 0 day accounts with no activity (bots) posting and a responsive mod team. Posts from malicious users have been reported, removed and banned in under four minutes so your reports are a massive tool in fighting against bots, scammers, catfish and content sellers, thank you to all those that take the 30 seconds to report posts - having heard horror stories from other subs you save potential victims a lot of money and stress - please continue reporting where appropriate.
But I would like a positive post, rather than the negativity of bots which post ten+ times a day I want to hear about your successes.
I am pinning this post as a Megathread for you to comment about how this sub has benefited you, if you have met people and maybe even if we have any engagements, marriages or kids effectively originating from the sub. Many users have had many meet ups and found the sub beneficial but those comments haven't been public until now.
If you have any other queries or questions for the mod team please feel free to post those here too but after answering (and giving you sufficient time to view and respond) these will eventually be removed to keep this as a success and post of celebration - we don't want to hide away from any criticism or feedback either though which is why I'm happy to open the floor to other thoughts.
Be lucky and stay safe.
Met a few really great guys on here so trying again! I have no plans this Easter and hoping to change that. Would be great to chat for a bit and hopefully meet up.
Me: 5ft6 and dark hair, Scottish, slim build with a nice ass, works in marketing, South London. Often found in Brockwell Park with a book or beer. I can host.
You: Tall, close to me or don’t mind travelling, knows some good pubs! A sense of humour goes a long long way…
36-44 only please. Looking for something casual/fwb but open to long term if things take off.
Tell me the last movie you saw at the cinemas and if you liked it or not! :)
I’m done with playing nice. 22, South Asian hoejabi, cute on the outside, filthy underneath. just want something rough and fast.
Catch my eye, pull me aside, and let’s get into it. I’ll tease you senseless or let you run the show, as long as it’s straight to the point. Tell me how you’d get me going, no fluff, just the real stuff.
Hit me up if you’re in London and can handle it. I’m not here to waste time.
Hi, I'm Chris - 27 from up near the Lake District. I would love to find some new friends to have some adventures with; ideally a hiking buddy or someone who's up for exploring the Lakes a bit, but open to new friends of any type! I'm comfortable chatting about anything you have on your mind :)
I live in the middle of nowhere with my girlfriend and dog in a little cottage that I've been renovating for the past two years. I have my own small business as well as working as a software engineer, so I'm kept fairly busy, but I love heading out on the weekends to explore nature - hiking and wild swimming are my favourite past times, and I'm hoping to tackle Hadrian's Wall & the Cumbrian Way this year.
Hobbies-wise I enjoy reading, travelling, and adventures of all descriptions. Tell me what you've done recently that got your heart racing? I'm 6 foot, brown hair, fit, glasses - happy to swap photos (+ dog pics!) over messages.
Ideally you're based in the north west or otherwise within a few hours drive - I head all over the Scottish borders and the north of England for work so I'm sure there'll be an opportunity to meet up at some point. Please also be over 18! Hope to hear from you.
Hello! I'm a 30 year old virgin guy who is looking for his first sexual experience.
Throughout my entire adult life, I've lacked confidence and self worth and as a result, I've reached 30 without having any sexual experience, not even a kiss...
As mentioned, I'm 30. I have blonde hair and a medium length beard. I'm not exactly tall at 5ft 8, and I weigh approximately 60kg. I work in IT. I'm a casual gamer (I'm not playing anything at the moment though) and I enjoy F1 (cars in general really) and photograpghy. I also like creativity and studied design at school.
I'm looking for someone who would be comfortable taking my virginity. I'm open to any age (18+) and I have no preference on looks, race or experience. Unfortunately I'm unable to host, so please be in London and able to host. Alternatively, please be open to a hotel or something similar. Please be female - no guys, sorry, just not my thing. Please also be ok with keeping chat to reddit for the time being. I have no experience what-so-ever, so please be ok with that, and ok with teaching and taking things slowly.
If any of the above sounds interesting to you, please send me a chat :)
Looking to meet other guys. Had an experimental phase when I was younger and enjoyed it. Now I'm looking to start experimenting again, and I'm looking for a top who's into that.
I'm really only looking to suck and get fucked. Basically the stuff I'm not able to try with a woman. I'm not looking to get sucked etc myself.
I'm in a relationship so discretion is a must. Can travel if you can accom. Very rarely night be able to accommodate but it would be difficult so if you can that's better.
Bored, hung student who loves going down on a woman. Can travel, would prefer not to host. Open to trying new things so let me know what you like!
I'm a switch, so don't mind if you're dom or sub. Any age welcome (18+), taken women/cucks hmu too
As you walk apprehensively down my road, you can hardly believe you’re really going through with this. Your heart is pounding, and you’re trembling uncontrollably with a mixture of nerves and excitement. Part of you wants to back out, but the thought of how proud you’ll feel afterwards for overcoming your trepidation and fulfilling such a naughty fantasy keeps you walking until you reach my front door.
Summoning up every last drop of courage, you ring the bell, and after what feels like an interminable wait, I open the door and usher you in out of the cold. You tiptoe inside with a whispered "hi", blushing and staring at the floor, too shy even to look me in eye.
I show you into the living room and sit down on the sofa with my legs apart, gesturing to you to to take up a position between them. Suddenly this all seems very real. Is it too late to change your mind? But you know you'll regret it it you do.
You take a deep breath and drop to your knees. The realisation that you’re already past the point of no return gives you a sudden feeling of liberation, so, gazing up at me and biting your lip, you start unbuckling my belt…
Within seconds my jeans are round my ankles and there’s a noticeable bulge in my boxer shorts. You murmur in appreciation as you impatiently yank them down, springing my rapidly-stiffening cock free. A couple of strokes with your hands ensures that it’s rock hard as you take it into your wet mouth.
It sudden dawns on you that you’re finally really doing it - giving a complete stranger a blowjob. The blood courses through your veins and your nipples harden as you warm to your task, slipping my cock in and out of your mouth, polishing the end with your tongue as you wank the shaft like in those videos you've watched. You’re determined to seize the opportunity to showcase all your talents, and you undo a few more of the buttons on your blouse so that I can see your bra and flushed chest.
Before long your skills begin to have the desired effect on me, and you can feel my cock and balls start to pulse. You take my cock out of your mouth and look up at me, smiling, as you prepare for the inevitable, hoping that you’ve succeeded in summoning up a big load…
As you walk back down the street afterwards, you’re almost skipping with the thrill of knowing what you’ve just done. What would your friends, family and colleagues say if they found out? But you know that this is your slutty little secret.
Thanks to Reddit I've been lucky enough to act out this fantasy a few times in the past, and I'm hoping to find another of these rare creatures who are daring/horny enough to meet up with a complete stranger and suck his cock.
I'm 46, 6'1", white, in good shape (gym-goer), single, discreet, easy-going and respectful. I have my own place in Nottingham (West Bridgford) so I can host, or I'm happy to travel a reasonable distance (Leicester, Derby, Sheffield, etc.) for the right person.
I work from home and can usually meet at quite short notice, so if you're still reading this, drop me a chat.
All levels of experience welcome, so don't worry if you've never done anything like this before - there’s a first time for everything!
So it’s actually been a while since I last done anything with anyone. And now that I’m starting to miss the physical side of things. Not looking for anything serious , just want to smoke, chill and have fun.
Me: well I’m 26 and single, 6’2”. No Adonis, dadbod guy. I’m laidback and easygoing, don’t really take myself too seriously. Like to think that I have a good sense of humour, maybe a little dirty at times. Im a dog person, history grad, nerdy and I’m 420 friendly.
If you’re interested at all, shoot me a DM, please open with your ASL. 18+only! I can’t host but I am happy to travel a bit and find somewhere to stay. Happy to verify and swap pics to see if we’re a match
Hi there,
As the title says, I'm a 27-year-old Arab guy with a twist:
I've got the body of a bull (fit, athletic, and ahem generously equipped), but the heart of a cuck. There's something intoxicating about surrendering control-watching my woman take what she needs from others, then tending to her after like the queen she is. The thought of her moaning for someone else while I wait to clean up, praise her, or just watch? Fuck, it drives me wild.
About me:
Physique: 5'7", toned, and (as mentioned) fit and full of stamina as i exercise regularly.
Kinks: Cuckolding (obviously), if you're into it, aftercare worship (massages, bathing you, etc.), and light humiliation.
IRL vibes: 420-friendly, love gaming (PS5 and VR), and can switch between charming and submissive real quick.
• Location: Portsmouth-based, but open to online play first to build trust.
What I'm looking for:
A confident woman (or couple!) who gets off on being adored and a little spoiled. Maybe you're a hotwife who wants a cuck who can actually fuck you well when you allow it—or maybe you just love the power of making a fit guy squirm.
Either way, l'm here to lean into the fantasy. For now, let's start online (sexting, voice notes, or pics/vids if we click), but I'd love to transition to IRI if the chemistry’s right.
Hard limits: No scat, blood, or irreversible marks.
Why me? Because I'm not your typical "beta" cuck—| can match your energy in bed and lean into the submission when you want me to. Let's explore the contrast.
First move's yours. Send me a chat with your favorite cuckold fantasy, and let's see where this goes.
Do you remember that thrill when your phone buzzes, and you can't help but eagerly check who’s on the other side? That moment before a date when your heart races, and you find yourself pacing, anticipation taking over? Or that feeling when you wake up with a smile, replaying the spark of last night in your mind?
How good was all that, right?! I have a feeling we might be searching for the same kind of excitement, don't you think?
I'm not very new to this space and still trying to find someone who craves that extra bit of connection. I’ve tried a couple of other apps like Bumble, but let’s just say, it isn't my jam. I do like Reddit though. I lurked for a few months, became active for a few more, and I’m still exploring. It’s not a quick success story or for the faint-hearted, but it is very, very interesting—and at times, rewarding!
A little about me: I’m 38, married, no kids, living in London. I'm 5'9", with dark brown eyes, black hair that has a touch of silver (a sign of wisdom, I like to think), and a well-kept beard. I take care of myself, physically and mentally.
Lately, I've been called “handsome” and “charming” by a few women with great taste—flattery that never goes unnoticed. But it's more than looks I'm after... it's that undeniable spark.
Music-wise I like most genres, but my heart belongs to Metal, Rock, and some D&B/House. But as I said, I like most genres. The Matrix, LOTR, and The Office live permanently on my tablet. I can't quite handle horror movies, but I promise to make you laugh instead. Big fan of Gervais and Jimmy Carr, too.
I like to experience things to the fullest, so whenever I pick up a hobby, I tend to really explore it until I "own" it. To give you an example: quite a few years ago, I made a cherry pie. To the best of my knowledge, no one died. That’s how I discovered my love for cooking and baking. That, in turn, led to me becoming a trained chef and having the pleasure of working in a Michelin-starred restaurant. I am in a completely different industry now, but I can still throw a feast!
My latest "passion" is motorsports. I think I might be too old to become an F1 driver—or am I? Regardless, I’ll make a mean Old Fashioned and at least watch the highlights on the weekend! Maybe even drop by Brands Hatch or Silverstone or... just go Karting :P
I’m looking for a like-minded soul who’s open to exploring this together. If you’re UK-based, between 30-ish and 40-ish Let’s take it slow, get to know each other, and see where the chemistry takes us. And if we hit it off, I’d love to take you out somewhere special and make it a night to remember <3
One thing you should know—I don’t ghost. If it’s not working for me, I’ll be upfront. No games, just clear communication. And while I’m not looking to rush into anything, I’m open to seeing where things go, at whatever pace feels right.
So fellow wanderer, riddle me this: What do you call fake spaghetti?
32 UK [M4F] - Love hearing you moan
Hey, I'm M32 from the UK, have a deepish voice and am mostly dom leaning. I myself am very vocal (very loud moaner) and am happy if my partner is the same, but am also good with those that prefer just to moan or be guided.
I also love to give praise.
I've attached a voice sample here:
If interested please drop me a dm and tell me what you are into and how I can best help you finish. xx
Hey, thanks for stopping by. Long weekend is here!
I’m born and raised in London with my own place, my own wheels and looking for something with chemistry, banter, and that playful, flirty energy that makes conversations addictive.
Physically, I’m 5’10”, slim-to-average build, with a trimmed beard and a shaved head — putting it out there so you know who you’re chatting with.
I’m told I’m easy to talk to, and if we click, I’m all about keeping things fun, relaxed, and maybe even a little bit cheeky if the mood strikes.
You? Ideally open-minded, looking for something low-pressure but engaging, and cool with verifying early on—keeps things real and drama-free.
If this sounds like your vibe, drop me a message, tell me a little about yourself, and what intrigued you about this post—let’s see if there’s a spark.
Hey Jen here! I'm a bit of a nerd, heavily into gaming (love rpgs) and a erotic lit, particularly fanfics. I've tried my hand at writing a few but I tend to read more than anything.
Looking for a bit of casual play or something serious, whichever fits the vibe! Break the ice with a confession and a question
I''m looking for someone to suck me regularly. I'd be especially interested if you think this sort of arrangement would normally be completely out of character for you, but you're turned on by the idea.
Ideally we'd manage weekly or thereabouts depending on distance etc 🙂
I'm 5ft10, fit and athletic build, clean and DDF. Dominant-leaning, but this doesn't need to be a dom/sub arrangement, just be someone that enjoys giving head 🙂 may also suit someone with an oral fixation or who just wants some practice.
I can host in Guildford sometimes or can drive to you nearby (e.g. London, Surrey, Hampshire, Berkshire). Big plus if you can host and live near Guildford, Farnham, Woking or surrounding areas.
Be willing to send a verification pic relatively early in our conversation, I'm happy to do the same.
Please don't waste your time contacting me if you're a bloke or trans, I won't respond.
Hi gang,
Just to preface whatever rambles I spew out off the top of my head, I am looking for something serious that ideally develops into a long term relationship. Travel is never a problem but ideally you're relatively closeby to the above.
I'm turning 29 in a few days and with 30 looming right after, I feel like I'm way overdue on settling into a happy and peaceful life. Attempts at dating apps etc. have proven themselves to be a waste of time over and over, and posts like this have brought on successes now and again which I'm hoping for once more.
Me: work in logistics after a change from office work, silly long hours but plenty of time to talk. Also currently work nights but hopefully this will change soon enough. I'm very much career driven and enjoy seeing the results of hard work. I enjoy the simple pleasures during my time off and live sensibly. No drugs, no smoking, only drink casually to celebrate the special moments worth celebrating. 6', brown hair & eyes. I'm a big boy but very much headed in the right direction to lose the extra weight. I'm not religious, nor do I make politics my daily conversation. I don't mind children but the current world is probably not the greatest to bring them into.
I'm on the search for a partner to enjoy life with. Unfortunately the last 6 or so years have flown on by without many exciting things to say about them, and I'd like to catch up on experiences and fun travel. I'm looking for someone somewhere around my age with the wild & free days behind them. Be clean and for the most part, baggage free.
Happy to share a selfie if we get on, happy to move to some other app for convenience. Looking forward to a chat, and if we get on we could call.
A bit about me: handsome, athletic body (lean), 5’10, white, sporty, stamina
Mostly looking for a hookup or fwb, but happy to see where it goes.
Feel free to send me a dm to see some pics ect. :)
Let not mess around, here's what you need to know to guage whether to reach out:
I like the psychological side of being the boss way more than the in/out bit, this mean that it will be quite a commitment from you. Not just a few nights of non-PC fucking.
Saying the above... you will enjoy cumplay.
I have a partner whom I love and, more importantly, respect. You are dark play, a form of fun and should be fun but nothing more. This should likely excite you.
Much of my direction will come from online sources so I will expect evidence/outcomes to be shared online. We will, ofc, meet in person but I want to make sure you're fully committed before we do.
I'm fat and hairy just to make double sure it isn't a surprise.
Get in touch and I'll see how right you feel for me.
Pegging has always been a fantasy of mine, I've played with my ass and used a dildo before but never found someone willing to peg me. DM me if you want to help me fulfill my pegging fantasy.
I’m in London this week and am looking to meet a woman who is interested in receiving a massage. In particular, I'm interested in role playing a professional masseuse meeting a client. The massage would start out as a normal non-erotic massage but things progress I start to take small liberties and pushing boundaries. The entire time I still maintain my "professionalism" and insist what is happening is just part of a normal massage. As your tension builds the massage culminates in my having to relief your obvious arousal with an "oral massage" and perhaps some long hard strokes...
This is a scenario I have experience with in the past and really enjoy. I'm 40, 6'1", in decent shape, and I think attractive. Happy to provide a photo. I'm also single - this represents just a little bit of no strings fun to relieve a bit of sexual frustration. I can accommodate but live about a 45 minutes outside Edinburgh - so more than happy to trave to you if you wish to book and appointment!
30 year old Londoner originally from the Middle East in pursuit of memorable encounters of the naughty kind with older (or younger) women after the same.
Working professional by day in strategy, which keeps me busy. Love being active and staying fit, reading, animals, and hanging out with friends/dining at new spots or planning my next travel plans around the world.
Mainly after a regular fling after establishing a connection and checking out the mutual chemistry and attraction. Coffee and mocktail enthusiast, so happy to grab a drink and see if we vibe prior to the naughty bits.
6ft, gym-fit, dark eyes and features, light beard and body hair, always smell amazing. Hygienic and careful with my health to a fault – please reciprocate this. Have my own place and can host quite centrally.
Physical attraction is obviously important, please be fit and curvy in the right places - love a gym bunny.
Can verify on Telegram/Snap/video call. Let's both be mindful of our privacy and discretion to make this as smooth and safe as possible.
Hi there,
I'm 43 from the UK. Pretty standard home life but lacking intimacy and excitement.
I'd love to find a woman in a similar situation for mutual validation and company as well as the inevitable flirting.
I'm in decent shape and enjoy exercise and can pretty much talk about most things.
I'm looking to get that buzz of receiving messages throughout the day which is lacking at the moment.
Hopefully the above rings true for someone out there, I'd love to hear from you
Hey hot couple (pics in profile) looking for friends to explore with
Hey, chill guy looking to meet either a guy or girl to be able to have open discussions about sex, porn, masturbation etc. if the vibe is right then would love to also get off together. If you are interested, please let me know your asl.
Can travel
…..Has that kinky side and kinky toys plus a devilish BWC 🥵🤪😈🪢💦💊
