‼️This is not an ad! I'm just sharing some tips to help the guys with no luck so far‼️

I've been a lurker on this sub for several months now, so I've seen posts of all kinds at this point. I want to share some tips on how to make your post stand out cause I've noticed that a lot of guys would have more success if they put more effort into their posts (not trying to insult anyone, just stating facts).

Share your stats. I know everyone's trying to be as discreet as possible on here, but it'll help a lot if you share some general details about your appearance. Your height, weight or build (slim, fit, lean, chubby, heavy, etc.), race or ethnicity, etc. People have preferences, as I'm sure you do as well, so it'll help single out the time wasters from those who find you attractive.

Can you host, drive, and/or get a room together? This is super helpful to share right away since a lot of people these days either can't host or can't drive super far.

And if you can't host, are you open to splitting or paying for a room? If you're open to covering the cost of a room entirely on your own, make sure to mention that.

If you're willing to drive far distances, mention that as well, including your limits. And if you're open to carplay, include that too.

What are you looking for? This one sounds obvious, but I've seen a fair amount of posts that are vague about this. Be honest if you're looking for hookups, FWBs, a serious relationship, or something else. Maybe you're not sure and you want to explore. Be upfront so no one wastes your time.

Are you willing to verify yourself? It can be nerve-wracking posting a picture of yourself on an anonymous forum for meeting people, but there's ways to maintain your privacy while reassuring others that you're a real person.

I've seen people upload pics to Imgur and attach links to their posts, and others who upload them to their profile. However you prefer to do it, the safest way of verifying yourself is a faceless SFW picture where you're holding up a sheet of paper with your handwritten username. If it's a fullbody picture, even better.

As long as you hide anything super unique about your appearance (tattoos, piercings, super flashy clothes or accessories, etc.), you should be good.

Are you clean and open to getting tested/providing recent results? If you're clean and can prove it, or open to getting tested before meeting with someone, this will make others way more comfortable to contact you. Obviously some people don't care, but if you want to cast a wider net, this is a sure fire way of doing so.

Don't have a blank profile. It's one thing if your account is new, but it's another not to engage in other subs. It can be really hard to post in subs when you're account is new, but it's really easy to engage in subs open to new users. Try leaving comments so others get a feel of what kind of person you are (if you weren't aware, we do look at your profiles before we reach out and yes, that includes comment history lol).

Optional, but helpful - Your experience: this is the time to brag. If you've met up with other Redditors, definitely include that (but be ready to back it up with proof since no one can really take you for your word). - Relationship status: Are you attached, single, ENM, poly, etc.? Some people are into hooking up with someone who has multiple partners, others aren't. - Kinks and limits: Are you vanilla or more on the kinkier side? What are you into and what are your limits? - How quickly would you like to meet?: Are you someone who wants to meet that same day or would you like to take your time getting to know them before planning anything? - Availability: What days are you free and what time?

Good luck to everyone in their search!

Hey there,

It's me again, your friendly neighborhood dragon mod. We've been hard at work growing this community and bringing it up to parity with some of the other personal subs, if not trying to make them better. You'll hear some frustration in my written tone in this post, don't take it too personal, just don't be a part of the problem and we're kosher.

First off: STOP DMING ME. From now on, I will no longer answer any DMs about shit in the community. If you have a problem or question for the team, use the modmail feature like the gods intended. Don't know how to send a modmail? Google it or use the side bar or literally any comment that Automod makes in our community. For the next 90 days (I am a generous mod) I will link this post, after that, I'll just ignore and block the chats. MY DMs ARE NOT FOR MODERATOR QUESTIONS.

Second point of order: if your post is rejected, and Automod comments on it, READ THE COMMENT. It'll tell you exactly why your post is removed. And if you modmail us and ask why your post is removed, I 100% of the time just copy and paste the exact same comment because guess who wrote the Automod code? Read it. Live by it. I didn't spend literal hours and hours on it for my health. (Still working on getting the social media username mentioning filter ironed out, I haven't forgotten about it.)

Thirdly: If you're going to report a user for being a scammer, fucking send screenshots to back up the report, otherwise, we can't (won't) do anything. There needs to be balance, and this is part of it.

Fourthly: If you get scammed out of money, we can literally do nothing but ban the offending user, which they've probably already changed by the time you message us. We've warned so many times in this community, try to remove them as quickly and efficiently as we can, if you're getting scammed you're an idiot. Stop being an idiot and stop thinking with your dicks. There is no gas needed, there is no playstation cards needed, no kids, no grocery money, none of it. The ONLY acceptable thing is if a user asks to go 50/50 on a hotel room so they're not fronting the entire cost. If you're not comfortable with that, politely refuse and go about your way. Don't play yourself.

Fifth: If you think your post title format is correct, and it's rejected, IT'S WRONG. Funny enough, our title filter was one of the first pieces of Automod code we wrote years ago. It's the strongest, been tested the most thoroughly, is the first piece of code in our ruleset and it has not been wrong for years. YOUR TITLE IS WRONG. Follow the format EXACTLY. When I say "Exactly" do you think I mean "mostly"? Or "Kind of"? Or "The parts I want to put in and not the parts I don't"? Because I don't mean that. I mean exactly. Follow the fucking format, like, it's literally that easy. Every time Automod removes a post under this rule, it posts a correct example for you to follow. Is there a hashtag in front of the location? Use the fucking hashtag. Is there brackets around the gender tags? Use the fucking brackets :D

THIS WILL NOT BE GOING AWAY ANY TIME SOON.

So learn it.

Sixth: If you have a problem with your post, just modmail us. Nicely. Use manners. We have some really great members of the community that have messaged us in the past, and it's so nice to be treated nicely. So please do it, and we will want to help you out more efficiently, more quickly, and set you on the right track to getting your sexy time on.

Seventh: There's been some fucky-wucky stuff going on with NSFW communities in Reddit lately. We have not made significant changes to our posting requirements and not announced them. If you get a greyed out button while trying to post or you have an error message pop up, you haven't been randomly banned (every ban gets a message auto-generated telling you that you've been banned) and we're not actively trying to prevent you from posting. I'm reaching out to other communities to see if they've been encountering or experiencing anything similar, and will update if/when I have something to update.

Ok. I've said my peace, I hope you all get tons of safe, mind-blowing sex in the new year.

Also, I'm not an 18 y/o girl, so stop messaging me thinking I am, you're just proving my point that you're not thinking with the head on your shoulders.

Just trying to see what’s out there. I’m Hoping to find someone I click with and we can have fun. We can just hike or go out for drinks? I’m 5’5 athletic, Asian >_<

I'm in dire need to eat a needy pussy. Enthusiastic pleaser that wants to focus on your pleasure 100% and devour you. This will be all about you - let me take good care of you with my tongue with zero expectations of reciprocation.

I'm an Indian guy, DDF, respectful, 5'9 150, and really looking forward to pleasing you. Happy to share face pics to get things started :)

Hey there! I’m a 26-year-old guy looking to connect with a woman or an open-minded couple. I’m open to exploring chemistry, intimacy, and shared experiences. I’m into fitness and take good care of my health, both physically and mentally. I’m also regularly tested and can provide recent STD test results (latest dated 01/27/2025) for mutual peace of mind.

I have some experience in non-traditional dynamics (including with couples and BDSM) and am always respectful of boundaries and consent. I’m happy to share photos and more details if you’re interested.

Let’s chat and see if we vibe.

This isn't a pitch. There's no spectacle. Just a woman with a certain stillness, a gaze, a voice people tend to lean toward. I don’t make demands; I suggest. And most of the time, they follow- thinking it was their idea.

You: Steady, thoughtful, intrigued, though you’d never say. You keep your secrets close, your instincts closer. You’re not easy to lead. That's fine. I’m not looking for followers.

I don’t need you to worship me. Just notice the pause, the pull, the slow undoing of all that composure when the door finally closes.

This isn't about romance. And still, there will be candlelight. Long silences. Glances that linger. You’ll bring me your attention- unhurried, deliberate, aware. You’ll say things you didn’t plan to. I’ll remember all of it.

I won’t name it. But we’ll both know.

Start where you are. You don’t have to match the tone. Just mean what you say.

Looking for something discreet. Happy to chat more in detail. Feel free to DM me. I’m in the west LA area but I can drive to whatever part of LA you’re in.

I’m 6’, hazel eyes, light skin, brown wavy hair, slim/thick, been working out everyday getting my fitness back. Tested and completely DDF, you must be too.

Very clean, very hygienic. Ideally something ongoing, like a FWB type situation. Do enjoy a good chat too, not just trying to get in your pants, also not looking to stick it into any and every woman that moves. Let’s chat :)

Hellooo. I am usually in Downey and Huntington Beach a lot of the times, so let me know which area works best for you.

A little about me. I am 5'10". About 180lbs. DDF. I am average body size to kinda skinny. I am vietnamese (for those wondering). I look a bit nerdy, the normal asian with glasses.

If any ladies out there are available, please let me know and we could discuss a few things and schedule something out.

I am mostly available in the mornings from around 5:00am to 3:30pm on the weekdays. So if anyone is free around that time, then it would be perfect.

Requirements: Mainly be DDF as well. I am interested in white ladies, but any race is fine.

Let's chat a bit and exchange some pics.

for a chick that wants to watch me and her man service each other… serious replies only… and bonus points if the dude is masc

Athletic, straight only. Jewish and middle eastern guys a huge plus.

Was at my gym and I saw these straight college boys getting undressed in the locker room. God, they had these delicious bodies. Athletic, young, nice dick size, probably all that bent up sexual energy as they aren't getting any from girls. I fantasized about the three of them just taking turns using my mouth to get them all off. You straight boys have not had the luxury of the mouth that enjoys and knows what it's doing. Let me prove to you gay guys do it way way better. My warm, wet, sloppy mouth exist, only to get you off and swallow your load.

Hey there! I'm looking for someone to chat with throughout the week and possibly meet up with if the chemistry is there. I have tickets to Disneyland so maybe we can go!

I'm 32 and from Irvine. I love to travel, snowboard, try new hobbies/explore new places, always down for food, and enjoy watching shows/movies. Down to swap pictures when we message, looking forward to chatting!

Offering a special erotic massage experience for women. Through previous partners and friends, I've come to learn that time and time again, women are shortchanged when it comes to sex and pleasure. Whether it's the pressure to be 'performative,' or your male partner not taking the time to learn your body. If you have struggled to orgasm, or don't feel in touch with your body - I can help with that. As a pleasure dom, this is my main kink so I benefit from it too! I set up my space with a massage table, candles, and a music playlist to enhance the vibe. I'll use coconut oil, my hands, a wand vibrator, and lots of tease, body worship, ear whispering, and edging to bring you some of the best orgasms you've ever had.

I can host near Beverly Hills. I have an optional blindfold, restraints, and a harness if you're into any of that.

Me: 5'8, fit, (body pic in profile), emphasize personal hygiene, experienced, actually know how to communicate, respectful of boundaries, test regularly.

You: Please be 18+, fit, clean.

Please message me with your age, height, location, a body pic, and favorite color so I know you read the whole post- Thanks!

I'm looking for a couple to have fun with and get to know my sexual side a bit more!! Id really love a couple who wouldn't mind me being with both of them or a cuck hold couple!!! I love to watch as well! I'd be down for most things. I'd be interested in learning new things . I'll be free on Sunday.

A room opened up at my spot in the West San Fernando Valley and rent is cheap. Long shot but I thought I'd seek out a roommate who can also be a jerk off bud. Only into jerking with other straight homies while we watch porn together or dirty talk about bad females. I'm 30 slim/fit build, nice cock, chill vibe, regular bro you'd get a beer and watch the game with. Hit me up for details about the place !unlock

I'm 22, white, 5'11. Respectful, passionate, discreet, recently tested and clean. Seeking nsa friends and more between and surrounding Los Angeles to Cerritos.

Primarily seeking women, but open to couples if the vibe is right. I am looking to meet new people and make connections. I have a place to myself in Cerritos and I'm happy to host or meet somewhere!

I love good conversations, good drinks, and if it comes to it, great sex. I live and love to please! I last for a long time and I've never left anybody disappointed. Cum see for yourself!

I'm looking for a good time; I'm not gonna pay to see you or do any money transfers.

Reach out and let's make something happen! I promise you'll have a good time!

Please say more than "hey"!

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Married guy just looking for a guy to suck this Friday. Wife will be out of town all day so its my chance to get on my knees and drain some balls !Unlock

Still looking for first success here, m27 6’4 dad bod type Thick 6.5 inch cock Looking for head or any carplay fun give me ideas! Hairy so if you like that thats a plus Looking for all ages mature or young (18+ please) Please be clean and ddf as i am the same If post is up i’m still looking Thank you(:

Hi my name is James I’m a 26 year old amateur photographer in Hollywood. I’ve been shooting and developing my own 35mm for about 5 years now and am almost at my 10,000 photo mark.

I’m currently starting two different projects, both untitled but both with the intent of capturing personal intimate human moments while also making you feel sexy and gorgeous. The first being a series of portraits of people showering and the second being a series of portraits while the subject takes nude selfies of themselves.

I have other toys such as gags and whips we could always freestyle in any direction soft or hard as well. Our collaboration doesn’t have to be sexual in nature but who doesn’t love sex?

Looking for mostly women but am open to select couples and single guys. Obviously must be comfortable being photographed nude. I can host but don’t mind going to your place as well, a new space always inspires creativity. Drug and alcohol friendly.

Please reach out with any questions and put an emoji in your message so I know you read all this. I look forward to hearing from you hotties. Work samples available on my page. Thank you!

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I love piercings and tattoos on women, and even more the process of picking them out and having them done! Let's talk about what you want done. Maybe I can give you some inspiration, and come hold your hand while you get it done. And of course, I'd be happy to cover the cost.

I’m not looking for anything serious right now—just to keep it real here.

I’m down for something casual, consistent, and physical. Good sex, maybe a drink before or movie after (or in between rounds ;) ), but no pressure either way.

I’m 6’2”, 190 lbs—athletic build, just got back in the gym, and cutting for summer. Cut goal: 170 lbs.

I can host at my place or come to you.

Nights work best for me, after 9pm, weekends wide open.

If you’re chill, drama-free, and just want to hookup without expectations, that’s the energy I’m on.

I like to kiss, I eat ass, I eat pussy and like to get my dick sucked and fuck!

If you prefer meeting for a drink or food first, cool.

If you’re direct and just want to come through, awesome.

Also, quick note—because I’d rather say it upfront than deal with any awkward questions: I have vitiligo. Like MJ had. It’s non-contagious, doesn’t affect anything, but there’s a few spots on my chest, neck, hip, and—my balls :/ . Luckily the spots are small and relatively unnoticeable, but it’s kind of embarrassing for me. So, just wanted to be straight up so there’s no surprises.

I’m fresh out of a 7 year long relationship. Ended 4 months ago. And I’m not looking to jump into anything emotional—I just want to enjoy life, meet someone cool, and get my groove back.

One consistent partner would be ideal—safer, simpler, better chemistry. Let me know if that’s your vibe too!

Hi, I have a tickling fetish and a foot fetish. I’m looking for women who’d be interested in trying getting tickled, possibly while tied. Also interested in couples where I or we tickle your gf/wife. Also open to tickling two girl friends. Open to switching with women. No single men please.

Feel free to ask me anything, and me know if you’re interested!

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Looking for a F with a high drive that will make me regret this post. Preferably someone short so I can toss around and have my way with you. Don't mind hosting if drinks go well or coming over and pleasing you !Unlock

Hey yall, I’m in the South Bay Area, looking for a female to spend time with, preferably someone who is interested in sex and just hanging out. I work and go to school so someone with similar interests and I can switch my schedule a lot, especially on weekends. I can host sometimes or just do it in the car or you place. Latino. Not that chubby but I got a solid build body. Any age is okay, lmk :)

If you don't live around L.A., please show why we should get to know each other. I'm a healthy, handsome, interesting, creative, artistic, attractive (SWM) single white male seeking a kind, curious, intelligent, faithful, younger lady I find attractive for romance, who is open to learn what we both enjoy, what we find interesting, stimulating, funny, entertaining and like learning together. Seeing if we can have friendship with chemistry for kissing, intoxicating loving, satisfying your deepest desires, feeling the best pleasures possible. Making my good girl happy and makes me happy, so I've developed the skills to do that. As lustful as I may seem, I don't seek casual stuff, because it's risky, can feel empty and is disrespectful, like saying someone isn't worthy of more. I seek my misses to devote my kisses, my mind and body, caring, sharing, exploring, walks, talks, holding hands, hugs, cuddles, kisses, making out, making love, all day and night, where pleasing is our passion, giving each other mutual mind-body bliss. Why settle for less than a partner who loves to please you, the most satisfying lover, even long-term, if we know it's right. I want us to look forward to spending time together, learning, sharing mind-expanding experiences, including flirty fun in and out of the bedroom. I'd like us to find healthy activities together, exercising, hiking, meditations, bonding, cooking, making smoothies, open to try adding in vodka for extra buzz. I'd be curious to try home spa treatments together, skin care regimens, face masks-slugging, even trying body-slugging using coconut oil, edible oils, natural lotion, something to moisturize, lubricate, to feel our bodies sliding on each other. I have soft skin and want to feel yours with massages head to toes, partner stretching, workouts, maybe light wrestling, fore-playing around. I want us to enjoy sharing slower sexy arousing pleasures, with verbal and physical foreplay, edging, teasing, touching, kissing, giving goosebumps, helping circulation and fluids flowing, priming us for more fun.

I'm mostly mellow, chill, having a positive outlook, a dry of humor with snarky wit and puns. I'm in good shape, with defined abs/v-lines, attractive facial features, grey blue eyes, a wavy full head of hair and none on my back. I have no children, no ex-wife, kind of edgy artist musician looks that cleans up well. I like to exercise regularly. I want to share in stimulating, creative experiences, appreciation of nature, cultures, arts and architecture around Los Angeles and SoCal. I like to be very affectionate with my lady, while indoors and out, where and when possible for hours at a time, fully satisfying each other. I can take charge, teaching, being patient, learning your favorite things, and I can also switch roles, letting you be in control of my pleasures. I'm open to some soft kinks, being rough yet romantic, nipple breast play, suckling sessions, ANR, CNC, free-use, sexy praise to naughty talk, safe creampies, filling my lady with my sexy love, whatever my lover enjoys. I go for slim petite with real curves especially T&A, up to a very healthy, fuller figure, pinup model type, with other sexy features I'll explain if we chat. I like long to short hair styles, straight to wavy-curly. I like eyeliner at times, but I'd like you to be comfortable wearing little to no makeup around me, and not into the lip-injected trend, or any surgically enhanced parts.

34m, 5'9", medium build, clean, respectful, and very open-minded. I enjoy meeting women who are confident, curious, and craving something fun and pressure-free. Whether you're looking for flirty conversation, slow-burn chemistry, or a deep physical connection—we might just click.

I’m a big fan of teasing build up, soft touches, and that electric kind of anticipation that makes you forget everything else. I take my time, and I love a partner who enjoys being explored mentally and physically.

I’m all about good communication, mutual respect, and shared desire. If you’re looking for someone genuine, discreet, and ready to connect with the right energy-let’s talk.

I’m 5’3” and skinny just looking to make female friends. It doesn’t have to be on a date but I’d want more experience with just talking to women. I like to read manga and comics I enjoy walking around the outdoors, I’d wanna go on more hiking trails I know some restaurants for Salvadoran, Korean, and ramen.

So I’ve tried posting on here before and didn’t have luck so here goes again. I’m going to keep it short and simple I love bigger women, yes I mean BBW and I don’t mean to offend anyone by that. I’m looking for a FWB or even just friends is fine too, would be cool to get to know someone and vibe out with them. I’m in the LA area so I can go to you, and I know my profile is blank but I can also send pictures of myself. Anyways weekend is coming up so let’s talk and maybe plan something? So if you’re a BBW or plus size woman reading send me a chat and don’t be shy! Also about to relax and watch some movies in case y’all wanna recommend any good movies or shows ?