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We’re a couple,35M and 33F looking for a woman who’s ready to be our fuck toy, someone who wants to be used, pleasured, and shared between us. We’re looking for someone who craves the feeling of being taken, but also someone who loves to lose control and gets off on the power exchange.
I’m 6'2”, dominant, and know how to take control, giving you what you need while pushing you to your limits. My girl is curvy, inked up, with big tits, a big ass, and a wicked mind. Together, we know how to make you beg for more, use you, and please you all simultaneously.
What we’re looking for:
A woman who’s into being our fuck toy, available to both of us, willing to surrender herself to our pleasure
Someone who wants to be controlled and used, but also enjoys the raw pleasure of giving herself up for our enjoyment
Into kinky, dirty play, face-sitting, intense strokes, rough sex, and total submission to both of us
Willing to be worshipped, teased, and taken however we see fit
Clean, discreet, and ready for a real, unforgettable experience
What you can expect:
Intense, passionate moments where we both share in using you, while making sure you get lost in the pleasure
Her worshipping you, teasing you with her tongue, while I take you from behind, pushing your limits until you’re shaking
Deep, rough sex as we take turns dominating you, showing you just how much pleasure you can handle
The feeling of being shared, used in the most intimate and primal way, but also completely adored and pleasured in between
Unleashing every dirty fantasy you’ve had while we both take our turns pleasuring your body using you, owning you, and giving you the release you crave
We’re not just here to use you; we want to make you feel every inch of the moment, to worship your body while we take our time giving you what you need, then turning up the heat and pushing you to your limits.
What we need from you:
A woman who can handle the heat, the kink, and the pleasure
Someone submissive, but also wants to be treated with respect and pleasure during the experience
Open to a raw, real, no-strings-attached experience with a couple who know exactly how to make you feel good while we take what we want
Send us a message with:
A bit about you and your fantasies
A photo (face and body)
What turns you on, what you crave, and what you’re into
We’re not about games. We want a woman who’s ready to explore her desires, be used, and loved on by two people who know how to make pleasure a priority. If you’re looking for a real, raw experience, don’t wait, hit us up.
Looking for fun. Hit us up
Normal, professional couple looking for play partners. Open to males and females. Bonus if you have experience with cuckolding. Would prefer something ongoing.
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Looking for a fun couple tonight who is looking for a 3rd. Open minded and laid back
Vers 5'10" 7in cut 220
Will share pics ect..
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We are a married couple looking for a third this Saturday. Please DM if interested! We have been discussing adding a third for a few months and are ready to make it a reality. She is 5’3” brunette and curvy, he is 5’11” slender athletic and heteroflexible.