r/mommydom

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Like I'm not into pegging/anal really or chastity or abdl... But all I see in this kind of soft mommy Dom stuff is that. But it's just not for me. It's doesn't turn me on. All I want is to tease and hold my sub lots 🥲 but it feels like theirs a push (especially for pegging) for me. I like being mommy but I don't do the diaper thing and I don't like chastity. I dunno makes me feel like I'm not in the mommy kink but yet I love my sweet boys who wanna suckle and be loved and what not. Kinda frustrating I guess to find the stuff I like since it's dominated by those other things. Not saying shame on others for it do what you like safely. but damn I feel alone sometimes.

Ok to explain. I’m getting into dating again (I’m not trying to ask if anyone here would like to date). And when I start dating I want to let the person know that I’m into a mommydom/femdom dynamic. And I know it is probably not a first date topic but I also don’t want to lead anyone on because that is wrong. I’m just confused and curious how I would be able to bring it up in conversation and let the possible new partner know?

So I (transman 21) recently, the thought of having a mommy to take care of me and dominate me and someone who wants me to worship her, the idea of that makes me all excited. I wanna be able to have a mommy I can be taken care of by and to take care of however she wants but I feel like it's so hard to find a mommy, nevermind one that would be ok with me being a transman 😫 does anyone have any advice?

Mommy just told me they are getting me a "cage" that informs them any time I get hard or do anything with my bits and can be used to shock me if anything is happening between my legs they don't want happening and I am absolutely over the moon excited!!!

Mommy here: So my sweetest boy had a wet dream last night and came in his cage while he was asleep. He’s been locked up a few days and he and I haven’t gotten to see each other in a few days either, so my question is: does he deserve punishment? He knows he’s not to cum without asking me or me instructing him to. But, he couldn’t help it and literally didn’t know it was going to happen. What would you do or want done to you in this situation? Anything at all or let it go?

Secondly, I’d love some punishment ideas or teasing ideas from other folks (nothing crazy please!) as I’m relatively new to all of this and am trying to learn some new tools/techniques :) thank you!

Has any good boys here like me ever wana eat mommy out till she’s crying and screaming maybe it’s just me but sometimes just wana make sure mommy knows she’s appreciated and deserves everything for what she does…. Meh maybe I’m weird

Lately I haven’t been able to stop thinking about telling a needy, leaky sub to just latch on and hump for me, knowing he’s not allowed to cum but I keep squeezing my thick thighs together more and more.. 😵‍💫

Is it normal for mommies to get flustered too?

Is anyone else making an Easter basket for there little? If so, does anyone have some ideas?😋

Edit: not interested in any new littles

Seeing all the posts on here it makes me wonder about my choices and what I’ve done to get here like it’s clarifying but then again I do also still have that yearning to have a sweet relationship with someone like a mommy

I've been going though depression a little and just am tired of the negativity out there all the time. So give me your happy feelings my dears and cheer this mommy up. Keep it happy :)

Just a late night reminder that it is okay to cry and let those sad feelings out. No matter how tough life can be, don't give up, okay. You aren't alone and you are special. You mean so much and you deserve to be here. Don't be ashamed of yourself, okay honey. Take it one day at a time. I believe you. You got this my loves🩷

Hi sweeties! My baby girl mentioned to me that it’s Mother’s Day soon and I wanted to ask you if you celebrate Mother’s Day with your mommydom, what do you do to celebrate? (Or is this weird 😆🥲)

Any other girlfail mommy’s who just love their baby’s to pieces but aren’t all put together? Girls who bedrot?

How do y'all do it? I am in a relationship with my sub and that's wonderful and so fullfilling but I don't have many friends and I'm struggling with that. Any advice is appreciated!

I cannot get enough of how cute sub boys are. How adorable they are when they sleep, the begging eyes, the blush on their cheeks when they feel shy and how snuggly they are. I adore every moment of that. For me it's never entirely sexual. Love is so important. A lot of men would be happy to get all that love and attention but often are too embarrassed to admit they want that. I give them teddy bears and forehead kisses. It's okay to cry for my subs. I want to hold them through it. You don't have to hide your feelings. At least that's how I handle my mommy Dom stuff. I always want them to be safe. To be the woman they can actually be this raw with. To be themselves. Im kinda rambling. I just love being this person....it's so fulfilling.

my dream:

i want to make sure everything is fine and remind you you're a sweet angel who deserves nothing bad. to my boy feel safe and fulfilled in more ways than one. Take your stress out slowly and play with your hair, kissing your forehead to make sure youre feeling warm and happy.

you deserve a great weekend :3

I found my way into really understanding how much I enjoy this dynamic a while ago. The woman I was dating was super open and we explored it together, both for the first time.

There were a lot of things we did that made me feel so special.

My favorite was my sticker chart — when I was a good boy and followed all the directions in a given day. Or when I made mommy cum with my tongue promptly as instructed. Or even when I finished a project at work. I got my purple star sticker that we put on together. And when I got to 10, I got to pick my reward from the choices mommy selected. I still have this little toy dinosaur on the bookshelf in my living room (my little secret).

I often got to be little spoon at nighttime and butt pats when I was feeling squiggly and couldn’t fall asleep. (She would really not like all this terrible grammar 🤭)

Only mommy got to decide when I was allowed to have my paci. It’s just not the same now that I can have it whenever I want by myself.

We ended our relationship after about 6 months for like real life reasons. And that was absolutely the right decision.

I just like to think back on those times with a very specific fondness. Having a person to be SO vulnerable with and to trust in such a deep meaningful way was pretty special. It’s also taken me quite a while to decide whether I’d want to have that dynamic in a relationship again (I would). It’s not something I feel like I need. It would be just fine if that was a singular, short period of my life where I got to experience someone on a whole new plain. And I think that’s beautiful.

Please be kind in the comments. I’ve had this written for quite a long time and haven’t had the courage to share til now.

Just wanted to say this to anyone that needs to hear it…

You’re not alone in your feelings and thoughts, there will always be someone there for you in your life or if you feel like there isn’t I’m sure there’s someone here willing to listen and lend a shoulder of comfort.

I hope all your dreams and wishes come true whatever they may be!

You’re deserving of happiness, kindness and love. Dom or Sub (and anyone in between) I hope you find or are with someone that understands, supports and makes you feel seen and appreciated.

The biggest hugs, head pats and cuddles to everyone that needs it!

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I'm just curious and want some ideas for encouraging things to say to my sub when I get him to please himself for me♡ I want to make him squirm and blush more than he already does.

I miss everything !

I miss having a sweet voice comforting me. I miss the JOI/CEI. I miss being told I'm a good boy or sweet boy. I miss the long sleepless nights sexting. I miss edging for hours and being denied or rewarded without knowing it before. I miss worshiping mommy. I miss being feminized. I miss the soft humiliation. I miss her making me goon to bnwo or to her nudes. I miss being totally dependent on my mommy to receive pleasure.

I miss having a mommy to take care of me :/

mine always seem to be eyes, hands, stomach, ass and lips (and funny/creative expression of course! 🥰🥰 intelligence is also something i’m into)

Something I truly miss from my last relationship was the mutual curiosity and hunger for learning we both shared. I'm a photographer and writer, my ex was a painter and sculptor. We would go out and look for inspiration together, spend the day drinking coffee and walking around hand in hand (let's be honest, her leading me).

I loved the encouragement and respect we had for one another. Mummy would tell me what a good job I did taking photos for her, print them out and put them around our house. She would paint me and I would kiss her cheek and blush because her paintings take my breath away. It's the little things like this I crave.

What hobbies do you share with your significant other? How do they tie into this dynamic? Normal and naughty answers are fine 😊

What are some ways that you could show or have shown a mommy/sub relationship in public? Of course you can't just pull out your boobs and let your little suck on them, so I'd like to know what your favorite things to do in public are, both things you have done or dream of doing.

One thing I like is when mommy is taller than her little, but of course that's not really actively doable if it's not already the case. Still, the image of a taller, older thick woman and a cute young guy does something for me. Another thing I like is feeding a sub ice cream for example or giving them cheek kisses. Especially those that leave lipstick marks hihi.

I'd love to hear from both fellow mommies and you littles what you (would) like to do with your partner in public