r/naughtyfromneglect
It’s a fine line as I have stated before. Some affair seekers are looking for ONS or something more casual without the commitment of exclusivness. You must state this. Clearly. otherwise your post will be Removed. Today I removed 10 such posts and banned two users who weren’t getting the hint but kept trying any way.
This isn’t’ your typical R4R sub. Plenty of other hook up subs out there. This sub is a niche among niches in the human relationships] world. don't use it as another pond you cast your net into hoping for a bite.
Married woman with a little free time this morning, looking to chat with a married man who may be a bit more mature, but playful. I woke up a little restless and would like to find someone in that same mood. Reddit can be good to share that with on occasion. We can enjoy a bit of a fling to start the day. I’m a pretty normal woman looking for a pretty normal man. I am a bit curvy but definitely active. And I really do enjoy someone who no one would expect to be here. That’s probablymy type.type since I am probably the same. If interested, let me know a bit about yourself like your age and part of the world you’re from and let’s talk.
Hi! first, yes i know, i’m really young to be in this kind of situation but i got married even younger and made a series of life decisions that make me feel like i’m already 35. i’ve often times been told i’m very mature for my age, but if it isn’t your cup of tea, that’s fine and you don’t have to reach out to me to let me know!
Now that that’s out of the way—i’d love to find someone to build a genuine connection with. someone that knows how to have a full conversation without it randomly devolving into sexting every day, i’m starved of affection in my marriage and would love to find even a small amount of it elsewhere. preferably you live close by as i’m mostly wanting in person, but i’m not entirely opposed to online. i will absolutely not be sending any nude pictures at any time though, so if you do live further away just keep that in mind before reaching out.
a small bit about me: i’m a 5 foot tall black woman with black braided hair, multiple tattoos mostly on my arms, 3 nose piercings, a fairly average body type, and no kids. i enjoy crocheting, reading, exploring the outdoors, and casual painting.
attraction is a two-way street so please feel free to let me know if you’re not attracted to me, my feelings won’t be hurt! and i hope you feel the same.
I've always been impressed by, and yes, attracted to, athletic women. So, are any of them out there, prowling these subs? Former collegiate athletes, or pros, or even Olympians?? There's something about the whole vibe of an athlete: not just the fit body (if you're strong and/or tall, I'm into it!), but the mindset of competition and drive, the discipline of practice, the visceral awe of physical achievement. I'm not an athlete myself - I'm good shape, but have never competed - but if you are, I'd love to connect. Especially if you find men are too often intimidated by that side of you, I'm very much not; it could be a breath of fresh air.
My quick stats: I'm 46, white, 6'2", 190lbs, fit, educated, professional, married with kids, and living in the greater Sacramento area. There's an anonymized body pic in my profile so you can see for yourself what I do and don't mean by "fit." Hope to hear from some sporty gals out there, and best of luck to everyone searching - cheers!
Hi, I'm usually shot out of a cannon and ready to board my rocket ship daily. Today I may have overdid it, but is there ever really tooo much?
So now I would like to procrastinate my stupid science work and entertain and interestingish lady. I will soon start searching the spotify to help me find a groove for the morning and you are going to help!
I'm surrounded by stuck up PhD squares, help me go somewhere else once in a while. Stuff me in your pocket and take me with you, make your daily doings little adventures you're going to take me on. I'll be doing the same kind of things but with my cool, interesting science stuff. As well as when I'm able to free myself from my feet and leg prisons and enjoy the outside!
We are going to progess through a process. Going from passing friendly strangers, to something probably otherworldly. I like to get into it all, where we've been, how we got to where we are, where we are headed and can work together towards some things. I'm looking to take over your heart, or at least most of your spare time. I don't take up too much space, I'm tidy, I'm a good resource for all sorts of stuff and things, I always got something to share, an addictive addition to your daily doings.
I'm an enjoyer of the more simpler things in life, I can't wait for after work hammock hangs and disc golf. I was able to admire the big beautiful morning moon today on my 2 mile rocketship ride! I seek a creative mind muse that could use any of the many me's once in a while. An engaging, intriguing, challenging, complimenting safe space to be our wonderfully weird selfs.
Come share a song for me to queue up in my morning jams, I like to feel and I like to move and groove, horns, harmonica and harmonies get me going, bring it, don't hold back.
Also maybe scroll through my history, get yourself familiar with some of my things, send me a little intro message with something I can respond to. Eventually I would like to move to telegram if things progress through that process!
Hello, I posted a little bit ago and had some great interactions. But I am looking to replace what I had. No superficial conversation. Actually putting the time and work in. I found that with someone, but she needed to go and I respected that. But the whole is pretty big. Can you fill the void?
Married, no kids, professional male. Not my first rodeo and I am not built to help you if this is yours. Athletic build, beard. I have the time, wealth, and motivation to make something work. I have in the past, I am determined to in the future.
What I crave isn’t just someone to talk to. I want to build a connection where you’re the highlight of my day. I want that spark & intoxicating bond. I want a woman who wants to be seen again. Someone who misses being praised, teased, and slowly unwrapped with words.
I’m tall, on the thicker side, but very masculine. A bit of a blue collar build. Married, no kids.
I’m attracted to women of all kinds—but stimulating conversation & creating those butterflies is most important. If you’re craving attention, praise and something that lights your fire again… I’m here for that, and looking for the same in return. Chemistry is my priority. I’m not prioritizing body types. Im not afraid of a gap in age either.
Let’s give each other the spark we both need. Message me if you’re ready for a little trouble.
Easygoing and laid-back guy. I’m 27, 6’2”, athletic build, and based in Ohio. Life’s too short to go through the motions — I’m here looking for someone who wants a little more.
I’m all about real connection, good conversation, shared laughs, and those small moments that stick with you. Whether it’s talking late into the night, sneaking off for spontaneous plans, or just being that escape from the everyday — I’m down for it.
Not looking to complicate things — just hoping to meet someone who gets it. If you value chemistry, enjoy playful energy, and want something that stays between us, let’s talk.
Discreet. Respectful. No pressure — just see where it goes.
Hey there! ☺️
I’m looking for someone who’s up for a daily connection that brings a little spark of happiness to us both. I’d love for us to make each other feel wanted and seen, sharing those warm, fuzzy moments that brighten the day. I’m a pretty laid-back guy who enjoys cooking, unwinding with smutty audiobooks, or relaxing with some TV and games.
I am married but in a roommate situation, so I’m hoping to find someone who’s into building both an emotional and physical bond, where we can enjoy intimacy together, from sweet vanilla vibes to exploring the kinkier side—I’m open-minded and eager to see where our chemistry takes us.
If you’re someone who craves those good morning and good night messages, a bit of flirty fun, and the feeling of being truly appreciated, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s chat and see if we can make each other smile! 🤗
Married man, 33, born and raised in LA, no kids, and seeking that which has been missing in the marriage for some time now.
Affection, connection, desire. Looking for a woman in a similar situation. I don’t mind if you’re single as long as you can be discreet.
I’m not looking for public dates, as much as I would love that I simply cannot take that kind of risk. Strictly looking for daily chatting and meeting up for steamy fun when time permits us.
I do workout just about everyday, I’m very clean/hygienic, I’m Latino, very light skin, hazel eyes, I get confused for Caucasian quite a lot, slim/thick body, working towards having a more athletic build.
I’m not looking for multiple partners or random hookups. Life would be easier if that’s all it was. But I’m simply not built that way.
If you made it this far I hope I still have your attention, I know you ladies get bombarded when posting on here to the point it can be off putting to even try to post anymore. So here I am, shoot your shot. Tell me a little about yourself and let’s take it from there :)
Looking to meet someone local or online to provide some distraction and fulfillment of needs. A bit about me, Im into cooking, gaming, normal millennial internet nonsense I suppose. Trying to take better care of myself healthwise, I exercise and such. Im looking for someone to have regular conversations with. I guess you could say a friends with benefits situation. Best case scenario would obv be someone local to me but sometimes you cant always control these kinds of things so if we are able to be social frequently and the vibe is good Im not opposed to an online-only friend. If youre looking, take a flyer and chat, lets see where things go!
It's been a rough go lately and I don't normally do this, but I'd like to find someone to have fun with and help me forget about all that's happening in life. Anyone up to just escape for a bit? Married white male, attractive and in shape. Not looking to change my situation.
About Me:
About You:
Looking to chat first and see if we vibe. Hope to hear from you!
I feel like a part of me has disappeared. I miss the butterflies you get when you see a name on a text pop up. I don’t get those feelings at home and haven’t for a long time. Honestly I’m happier at work than at home, and I really don’t like work.
I’m not looking to change my own or anyone else’s situation. I’d like to find someone intelligent who can carry on a conversation. Somebody that I can get to know, someone who I want sneak messages to while my significant other is in the other room.
I have a career, a house, someone who keeps my bed warm at night. I guess some would call that the American dream, but I need someone to wake me up.
The obligatory illustration: I’m 5’9 Caucasian I have a decent beard. I’m glad that dad bods are in because I’m teetering towards one. I think that my work keeps me in well enough shape though.
I know it’s a long shot, but I’d love to find someone to build a friendship and connection with. Someone who wants to talk daily and can hold a conversation without just one-word replies or sexting. My marriage has fallen into the roommate phase. We chat and hang out, but there’s no romance (not for lack of trying).
I’m looking for someone down to earth, with a good sense of humor who doesn’t mind a cheesy dad joke from time to time. I want something long-term. I’m fine with things being only online, but if there’s a chance for things to get physical, I’m not opposed to the idea.
A little about me: I’m 6ft, have blue eyes, and short brown hair. I’m working on growing out my beard and taking better care of my body. I’ve started working out on a semi-consistent basis. Although I still have a “dad bod,” I’ve started to lose some weight and feel a bit more confident in myself. I enjoy reading, gardening, cooking, gaming, going on walks, and playing chess. I hope this reaches someone who’s looking for the same because I’m over posting! 😂
Are you looking for that passion again? That spark that could light up even the darkest of moments? Are you looking to feel those butterflies every time my name pops up? To feel desired and wanted again. I want to give you all that and more. I want to give you those good morning and good night texts. I want to hear about your day and that b**** Rebecca at work. I want to be your outlet and escape from everyday life. I want to be there for your lows and highs. For the good and the bad.
I'm 35 married with kids. I don't mind exchanging pics sooner rather than later. But until then, I have muscular build, clean cut brown hair and beard with brown eyes. I'm an easy going guy and even easier to talk to. Can't wait to hear from you.
Do you remember that thrill when your phone buzzes, and you can't help but eagerly check who’s on the other side? That moment before a date when your heart races, and you find yourself pacing, anticipation taking over? Or that feeling when you wake up with a smile, replaying the spark of last night in your mind?
How good was all that, right?! I have a feeling we might be searching for the same kind of excitement, don't you think?
I'm not very new to this space and still trying to find someone who craves that extra bit of connection. I’ve tried a couple of other apps like Bumble, but let’s just say, it isn't my jam. I do like Reddit though. I lurked for a few months, became active for a few more, and I’m still exploring. It’s not a quick success story or for the faint-hearted, but it is very, very interesting—and at times, rewarding!
A little about me: I’m 38, married, no kids, living in London. I'm 5'9", with dark brown eyes, black hair that has a touch of silver (a sign of wisdom, I like to think), and a well-kept beard. I take care of myself, physically and mentally.
Lately, I've been called “handsome” and “charming” by a few women with great taste—flattery that never goes unnoticed. But it's more than looks I'm after... it's that undeniable spark.
Music-wise I like most genres, but my heart belongs to Metal, Rock, and some D&B/House. But as I said, I like most genres. The Matrix, LOTR, and The Office live permanently on my tablet. I can't quite handle horror movies, but I promise to make you laugh instead. Big fan of Gervais and Jimmy Carr, too.
I like to experience things to the fullest, so whenever I pick up a hobby, I tend to really explore it until I "own" it. To give you an example: quite a few years ago, I made a cherry pie. To the best of my knowledge, no one died. That’s how I discovered my love for cooking and baking. That, in turn, led to me becoming a trained chef and having the pleasure of working in a Michelin-starred restaurant. I am in a completely different industry now, but I can still throw a feast!
My latest "passion" is motorsports. I think I might be too old to become an F1 driver—or am I? Regardless, I’ll make a mean Old Fashioned and at least watch the highlights on the weekend! Maybe even drop by Brands Hatch or Silverstone or... just go Karting :P
I’m looking for a like-minded soul who’s open to exploring this together. If you’re UK-based, between 30-ish and 40-ish Let’s take it slow, get to know each other, and see where the chemistry takes us. And if we hit it off, I’d love to take you out somewhere special and make it a night to remember <3
One thing you should know—I don’t ghost. If it’s not working for me, I’ll be upfront. No games, just clear communication. And while I’m not looking to rush into anything, I’m open to seeing where things go, at whatever pace feels right.
So fellow wanderer, riddle me this: What do you call fake spaghetti?
I'm a 50-year-old married guy who's found himself in a bit of an unusual situation. While my marriage is solid and loving, I've come to realize that there's a part of me that craves a deeper connection outside of my marriage – something secretive, intimate, and purely platonic.
You might be wondering why I don't seek this kind of connection within my existing circle of friends. Well, the truth is, I feel like I need a fresh perspective – someone who's outside of my usual social circles, someone who brings a new energy and insight into my life.
So, I'm turning to Reddit in the hopes of finding that person. Someone who, understands the complexities of life, and is looking for a genuine, meaningful connection. Whether you're married, single, or in a relationship, it doesn't matter to me – what matters is the bond we can create together.
If you're intrigued by the idea of being a secret friend – someone to confide in, laugh with, and share life's ups and downs – then I'd love to hear from you. Let's start a conversation and see where it takes us. And rest assured, discretion and respect for each other's boundaries will be of the utmost importance.
Thanks for taking the time to read this. I'm looking forward to connecting with some like-minded souls out there.
I am looking for a woman close to central New Jersey for a long term AP. Ideally, you have done this before and know exactly what you want out of this. You don‘t have to be in NJ, but an hour away is a solid maximum distance to make this work.
I am open to any age, height, weight, ethnicity, hair color, etc. The only things I care about are that there is a mutual attraction, you don’t take yourself too seriously and you have the time and desire to actually make this happen.
Also, I’m looking ideally for someone with hobbies and great sense of humor. Life can be complicated, let’s not make this complicated. If you know what you want, like to have a good time and are ready to make it happen, send me a chat message. I’d love to hear from you!
Hello there - I'm a HWP 45 WM out in the western burbs of Philly. I'm attached and happy, but looking for someone who justs wants a little bit more out of life. I'm looking preferably for someone who has done this before (as have I), and who wants a situation like this because it's fun and not a replacement for anything. I'm also interested in someone who is attractive (I love glasses), has a srong sense of humor, a pronounced naughty streak, and decent availability. If this sounds interesting, reach out with a chat request to see if we gel. Thanks!
I’m married looking for something more than just a hook up. In search of a woman who is in a similar situation. Someone that wants more than a one time thing, but connection. Flirty conversations, a friend to talk to, and etc.
I'm a married hygienic man in a dead bedroom situation looking for substance. I’m not looking to change our situations, I just want to be "wanted" and vice versa.
I'm 5'10, white/hispanic, 185lbs(Dad bod), shaved head, clean, disease free, and wanting ongoing for safety. Not seeking for a specific age, race, or etc. Just a woman that seeks the same, not wanting to change your situation or mine.
Hey baby, I’m hosting tonight I’m 5’11 180 and clean. Can’t wait to meet you 😚 btw I will eat you out as long as needed
Aged 36, in a long term relationship with a vanilla partner.
I’m flexible and very reasonable - I’m open to casual play sessions, or proper kinky dynamics with rules, structure, and discipline involved.
(I’m also sadistic, dominant, and have an insatiable sexual appetite. My kinks range from gentle to very rough, degrading and humiliating, depending on you…)
I don’t mind if you’re new and inexperienced. I enjoy teaching, and have well over a decade of experience doing so, in a variety of different dynamics.
If you have an open mind, and you’re eager to obey, submit, and push your limits, I may be interested.
Everything will be safe, discreet and online. I’m flexible with time differences, work/school/family commitments. And I’m flexible with limits - though the fewer you have the better.
You must be open to photo and video - real acts of obedience and submission for me to watch and enjoy - not roleplay.
My profile might scare you off. But if it doesn’t, and instead you find yourself wet and squirming, chat or message me directly.
Mid 40’s Dad-bod type white guy here. There are pics of me in my post history, if you’re interested. I’m in a dead bedroom situation as I imagine most of you to be. No kids on this end. No problem with them, we just don’t have any.
I’m looking for someone relatively close to connect with both on a friendship level as well as (hopefully) a physical level. Schedule seems to be the biggest hurdle. I work Monday through Friday, and that is a challenge to hook with anybody. So I’m throwing a line out. DM me if you feel like it :)
Hello there!
(Yes, that’s a Star Wars reference—if you caught it, we’re already on the right track!)
I’ve been with my wife for over 11 years. She was my first, and I was hers. Naturally, every now and then, I get a little FOMO—wondering about the experiences I never had by not playing the field when I was younger. Who else is out there? What might I have learned along the way? Will I ever know what it’s like to be with someone else?
Lately, a new fantasy has been on my mind, and I can’t seem to shake it. I keep imagining my wife exploring pleasure with another woman—whether she’s giving, receiving, or both. She’s never mentioned being bi or even bi-curious, but for some reason, the thought is ridiculously exciting to me. At the same time, I can’t deny that I’ve also been wondering what it would be like to explore a little myself. I mean, if you’d only ever been with one person, wouldn’t you be at least a little curious?
A little about me:
Age & Looks: 27-year-old guy with brown hair, blue-grey eyes, and a trimmed beard. I spend a lot of time outdoors, so I’ve got some muscle, but don’t expect a gym rat.
Kinks: I’m into quite a few things—ropes, blindfolds, oral, exhibitionism, and voyeurism top my list. That said, nothing extreme—no scat or gore.
Personality: Definitely on the nerdy side, but I love chatting with anyone who’s fun, engaging, and can keep a good conversation going. I’m open-minded about looks and age—it’s all about the connection!
I’m not necessarily here for RP, but if the vibe is right, who knows? If any of this sparks your interest, shoot me a message. Let’s chat, explore, and see where things go!
Hello and thank you for taking the time out of your busy day/night to read this post!
I was hoping to find a generous lady interested in having some taboo fun. Why taboo? Well I'm taken and she doesn't know I'm doing this, so I understand if that makes you downvote and leave this post immediately.
If you're still reading thanks for sticking around now that the upstanding members of our society have scattered away. I'm 6'0 185 lbs and South Asian with black medium-short hair kind of in a side part, a full, but neatly trimmed beard, and brown eyes, my skin tone is lightish brown like a lightly sweetened caramel macchiato. I'm often mistaken for Middle Eastern or North African, sometimes Latin. I lift 6 days a week and am in good shape as a result, take pride in smelling and looking good, and being well groomed. I'm drug and disease free and looking for the same.
Behind my looks, I can make you laugh, am a treasure trove of pop culture references, sarcastic, silly at times. I love pets/animals, 90s-00s rnb and hip hop and can provide you with plenty of deep cuts.
You: A pretty face to look down at and at least HWP or thinner/better shape. I am preferably looking for oral only, but can be convinced if I like what I see.
I'm able to host in the Murrieta area but meeting in person somewhere public to ensure mutual attraction and comfort is where we'd start before going anywhere. Totally fine with you getting cold feet for any reason.
I’m just a regular man seeking a genuine connection with a regular woman who wants more from life. While my marriage is stable, I feel unfulfilled and crave feeling valued. I am more concerned with a connection than anything else.
I am 6’5, athletic and attractive with a love for healthy living, good communication and great times. When I’m not growing my business, I’m hitting the gym, hiking, fishing or spending a day exploring. At home I’m usually doing home renovations, watching a show, reading or spending quality family time. I believe life is best with confidence, kindness and positivity.
Drop me a line if there is an interest!