r/njhotwife

1. GET VERIFIED! Even though verification isn't a requirement, it's good to have. If you are verified newer members to the sub and other people who may be on the fence about meeting up with you will know that you are verified and would assume to be trustworthy of their time. To verify, all you have to do is write your Reddit name and the current date on a piece of paper, crumble up that paper, unwrap the paper, take a selfie with it and send it to us via this link. Couples must verify together in the same picture. Your faces don't have to be shown. And it will not be seen by anybody other than the mod team.
2. Reinforcement of title requirements and post flairs. One of the things that will be required to post will be post flairs. To go along with both the age and location requirements to post titles. There are flairs for both bulls looking for couples and couples looking for bulls. We may had more in the furure if its decided that we need flairs for other subsets of the hotwife lifestyle as well. We will also be requiring the title format followed on r/NJ_Swingers. Meaning all posts titles must follow “[Age][Gender4Gender][Location] Catchy title/what you’re looking for”. The location can be as specific as you want or even vague if you’re willing to travel the entire state. But all 3 are required!
3. To hopefully cut down on spam even further, we're going to impose a minimum character count on top-level replies. Which means every top-level reply must be at least 45 characters. This way the entire comment section won’t be just “DM me!” and the posters themselves can still get a little bit of the love as well. 45 characters should be enough to get across who you are and why you think you’re a good match for the poster of the ad. Its 45 at the start but if needed the minimum can be raised.

Hey, I'm hoping to meet some awesome couples or the hot wife by themselves. I'm fine with a threesome if everyone wants to play, but I'm not bi. Hygiene is very important to me and I will always be freshly showered and clean shaven in the pubic area.

I am 28, 5'10" with a slim figure. I'll send pics in the chat. Please have pictures of yourself available as well.

Hi we are looking for a good looking male over 35 to meet for drinks and fun. We like the borgata, ocean, and hard Rock. Wife is super pretty milf. Say hi and send a picture. 6 ft and over step to front of line. Oh and if you have a kink or fetish feel free to share.

Real latino looking for a couple for fun looking for long term and local would be ideal. I am fit and handsome as wellI clean and experienced. I enjoy all types of fun. looking for fwb. Open to fun ideas

Hey guys, black male (32), living in Brooklyn/NYC.

I’m looking for an open-minded/kinky New York woman who’s interested in meeting up for some race-play foreplay/dirty talk and hook up sex. Mostly looking for white, Asian, or middle-eastern women, preferably around my age, but older women (40s and 50) are more than welcome as well!

Basically, I’m looking to hook up but involving dirty talk/foreplay using racially charged language. Which would involve you using racial slurs (hard or soft) depending on what you’d be comfortable with.

Looking to meet irl, so being in the NYC/NJ area (or traveling) is a must.

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, shoot me a message ( feel free to tell me your kinks/fantasies) and we can start chatting. If we click, we can move things off the app!

We are college students thinking about how to pursue the lifestyle in an authentic but still discreet way. We attend Rutgers - New Brunswick. We have some kink experience. We would prefer a bull under 30 with experience in similar kinks (such as cuckolding, chastity/denial). We would also prefer that you have your own relationship so there is no conflict. If you are older than 30, we would be down to chat and maybe meet up... but not likely that we would play with you.