r/nyr4r
Thank you for choosing to visit and browse /r/NYr4r . We've revamped the rules, sidebar, and filters for NYr4r. We'll also be bringing in some of the auto defenses the other r4rs use as well to help control spam even further.
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Primary Rules to be Emphasized (The rest can be found HERE)
Rule 1
This subreddit is 18+. If you are under eighteen do not post, comment, or PM OPs. This rule is required of us by the admins for liability reasons. Lying about your age if you’re under 18 will result in a permanent ban.
Rule 2
Prostitution, Exchanges for money, or goods, are strictly prohibited. This includes, and is not limited to, any of the "sugar" lifestyle ads, massages, OF, drugs, cam performances, etc. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. Also note that if your activity feed contains items of this nature, you'll need to use a different account to post on r/NYr4r to avoid any potential conflicts of interest or confusion about the nature of your posting
Rule 3
Accounts must have sufficient karma and be sufficiently old to participate. (The specific age and karma requirements change from time to time in response to scammer campaigns. Do NOT modmail to ask what the current requirements are.) Post titles must include the author's true, exact age at the time of posting.
Rule 4
No Third-party platforms including Snapchat, phone numbers, email addresses, or other platforms may be shared in public. No surveys, forms, or other information-harvesting activities. We recommend against sharing this information in public, as it will be much more difficult to connect scammers/catfish/etc. to their Reddit accounts when communicating via non-Reddit platforms. Scammers frequently try to move off platform to Snapchat as soon as possible on NYr4r.
The titles of submissions must be properly formatted or they will be deleted. The format for post titles is:
<age> [<r4r>] <your location/time zone> - <title>
Examples:
21 [M4F] #Manhattan - Looking for a friend
26 [F4R] #Bronx - I want a gamer buddy and somebody to chat with
28 [MtF4F] #SuffolkCountyLI - brighten up my work trip
30/29 [FM4FM] #Albany - Married couple looking for roleplay with another married couple.
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Hello all,
Your friendly inactive mod here. Thankfully we have had another very dedicated mod helping keep the community going so that we can stay live. but I am noticing one major trend
OVER 80% of all removed posts are due to people not meeting the minimum karma requirements
This is a major requirement of our subreddit to combat spam and other issues. Please be mindful of this when posting.
THANK YOU ALL AND STAY SAFE!
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prefer women 🤷🏻♂️ we know how that goes on apps like this tho, anyways come have fun, always like an adventure and can actually hold a real conversation
South Asian guy with 7" cut brown cock looking for couples that are exploring or new to sharing - offering amazing body massages for her or more as circumstances dictate. Very skilled hands and mouth. Particularly interested in Indian, White or Hispanic couples. DM for further details
27M, Latino 6’1’’, 160lbs. DDF.
I’ve been fortunate to have made a few connections/friends exploring my sexuality, and I’m looking to start doing the same this year. Just looking for people to meet in order to get to enjoy one another and let go of some of post-work stress.
I’m down to chat some, talk about how we’d have our experience go, and generally see if we’re a good fit. If interested, feel free to send me a DM or chat.
29 6’0 185 fit here looking for another bro to get naked with and chill. Im down for oral (can reciprocate) but very open minded. Im ddf and can provide recent test results (would love the same)Cant host but can travel anywhere.
Hey M25 I recently turned 25 and as the title says I am looking to get my first blowjob. Almost had someone but it fell through recently. I don’t have much sexual experience which I guess I assumed if I’m looking for my first blowjob on Reddit.
I am 6 feet tall and on the heavier side but working on it. I’m a white guy average size dick. Looking for a one time thing but also 100% open to an FWB situation or just someone who wants to explore with me and find out what each other likes. I am open to more then just a blowjob if that’s what’s your looking for by primary focus is getting my first blowjob. Message me if you wanna know more. 6’0” 195 ish
Please no guys.
I can host.
29 hung uncut clean 6ft 210lbs Looking for fem bottoms! Or verse bttm Clean +++ I can host , dm for more info Please send pics
Single 26 yo, just looking for some fun with F only. I’m clean and disease free. Can host. Down for whatever one time or fwb. Don’t have to rush it either. I guess message me what you’re interested in. Once again only women people
Hi 👋
I’m visiting NY for business 26-30 April staying in Soho. Looking for someone to hangout & have fun with whilst im in town. Happy to reciprocate if you ever make it to London 😆
About Me - Male - 38yrs - 5’9” - White - English / London - Short Dark Hair & Trimmed / Tidy beard - Average build - I’m told I’m handsome / good looking but that will be for you to decide! - Clean, hygienic (I get told I smell nice) - Confident, outgoing, can hold a conversation. Easy going. - Educated, ambitious entrepreneur. - Enjoy music, art, film, travel, bars, clubs, business, running & football. Going out & enjoying life. - 7” x 5.5” 🍆 generally dominant in the bedroom and open minded to everything / kinks. - Orally talented & eager to please. The more fun you are having the more fun I’m having. - Hosting. - Willing to verify.
About You - Female - 5ft 8” and under - Fun, easy going and able to hold a steady conversation. - Petite, but it’s not a deal breaker. If we get on then / have chemistry then it’s game on. - Know some cool spots to visit / hangout. As comfortable in a club as you are in a restaurant. - Chivalry isn’t dead. You’re going to need to let me pay for dinner and hold the door open. - Shared interests. - Clean, Hygienic, Disease free. - Available on one of / some of the dates mentioned above. - Willing to verify.
📸 on profile
I’m a 36-year-old, white, male, physician (psychiatrist) looking for a long-term fling. I work at one of the major NYC hospitals, and also teach/conduct research on the side at one of the local medical schools. I also recently have opened a small private practice. As you can see, I’m very busy, which has often neglected my sex life.
I’m 5’9, 190lb, stocky (but pretty strong- go to the gym frequently). I can be the life of a party, or have no problem laying low and watching TV in the apartment. I’m into sports, music, and the outdoors.
I’m looking for someone either older or younger than me, curvy, and willing to get to know me before we meet up. I want to get to know someone given the high profile of my position. I hope to hear from you.
I am looking for a friends with benefits, with more of an emphasis on the benefits side. I can host and live alone in Brooklyn.
Sexually, I enjoy teasing and pleasing a woman orally. Looking for someone eager to have me between their legs for some time with making out/teasing beforehand. Turning on a woman and having her want me is what turns me on the most. Beyond that I am very open to your interests and willing to try most things and dynamics. I want you to be satisfied!
In terms of our dynamic, I'm happy to get drinks or coffee before we get intimate (first time and later), but not looking to hang out beyond that. I've tried many FWB dynamics and this works best for me. However let me know what you prefer and we could work something out if it's different. I have a flexible work schedule.
White, fit on the slim side, I've done this before from here. Open to all body types and races.
Down to chat, call, and/or get a drink beforehand and see if we click in person.
HMU
Open to starting out as just workout partners, but ultimately we know the bedroom fun is what we're after.
Me:
You:
Looking for frequent meetups of hard and raw primal fun where we fuck like rabbits. My goal is to make you cum over and over while also emptying every load balls deep inside you.
We can start with good sex and work our way up to breeding sessions (multiple loads) and eventually sex marathons if you an handle it.
I have decided to hand over my soul to corporate America by deciding to move here for my investment banking job, so might as well have som fun while I'm here 😅
About Me: 6ft3, white, 26 y.o., handsome european excel slave based in midtown, well endowed and clean, looking to spend a fun evening of mutual pleasure - if the vibe is right hopefully it turns into a longer term fwb situation!
I am free now and able to host, happy to briefly meet up in a public place to suss out the vibe before we proceed.
Happy to share pics upon request and answer any questions 😊
Je parle aussi Francais
So couple things to throw out there immediately I am hoping for something long term and serious (naturally not immediate but that is the goal). I'm a nerd whose hoping to find someone equally nerdy and also open to guys who crossdress. I'm also not into weed, and very lightly drink like one beer with dinner. I'm not looking for a 24/7 kink dynamic, my aim is a mix of something fun and serious. Where during sex the sub/dom roles is very apparent but outside of it, it's less serious and more teasing and playful. I will also say I dont like to be the one to start sexual engagement since I'm always afraid of coming off wrong and seeming like a creep, I would really prefer to get to know you as a person first and would like for you to start it when your comfortable.
SFW: As stated I'm 29 5'6 and about 130 with long brown hair. I'm a nerd who loves gaming, anime, manga, model building, tech and history. I currently work two jobs a full and part time to make ends meet while I look for a job in HVAC. I'm super laid back and not very much gets to me though I'm also the type that hints fly over my head so I do prefer to be straight to the point. I believe heavily in open honest communication and compromise. I see a relationship as 50/50 where both parties need to put in equal effort and dedication toward the relationship. I'm also the type who very much wants a partner to WANT me not NEED me. I'm also the type to be very cuddly, I love simple romantic things like cuddling, holding hands etc... I've also gotten more into cooking now living on my own so I love the idea of cooking for a significant other. Hobby wise I love games that are either coop, story driven or RTS so things like death stranding, metal gear solid (absolute favorite), resident evil, fallout, hearts of iron, palworld to name a few. As stated while I am aiming to find a dominant partner for something serious and long term I don't want it to be a 24/7 sub/dom kink dynamic, for me I'd want kink to be in the bedroom and outside of it us to be more playful. I'd still be submissive but more lighter things like cooking and cleaning or even rub her feet and she be playful and tease me as her sub. I am also into crossdressing and enjoy exploring my feminine side, I've experimented with makeup and am curious if I can pass. I'm hoping to find someone whose comfortable with this and would encourage it. Outside and around friends/family I'm an average guy but it's behind closed doors that I experiment with femininity. While I've never gone out in public dressed up I am open to the idea of cosplaying as a female character for something like comicon or halloween, but never got that far. Something I've done with an ex was she'd at times have me dress up to be her "girlfriend", and always found that sort of thing to be fun. I am hoping to find someone whose open enough to acknowledge and share in each others hobbies and interests to find more common ground between us. I do find sharing and engaging in each others interests as a love language as I see interests as a major part of ourselves. It would also be awesome to date someone whose also a gamer since I think it'd be fun. I do have a type, I've always had a thing for tougher girls, ( I think the terminology is tomboy?) I'm also totally cool with women who are taller then myself. I'm hoping she'd be into and understand nerdy culture. I do also prefer partners on the more fit side of things.
NSFW: So to start this section I want to make it known I don't like to be the on to initiate anything sexual, I want to know what's ok first so I'd prefer it if my partner start us off. Before anything I'd want us to discuss what we both want in kink so that we can be fair with each other and both have fun. I'm into bondage, latex/leather, chastity, pegging, leash and collar, pet play, body writing, teasing, JOI, outfit play and I am lightly on the side of masochism. Not into anything blood, or poop related, not into sounding or cbt. When it comes to sub/dom I enjoy sometimes being a little on the rough side and being spanked and punished and other times I enjoy being more gentle and treated like my partners pet. Not only do I love dressing up for my partner but I also love seeing how she'd dress as well and have a major weakness for tight fitting clothes, skirts and things like that. I do also love the idea of being my partners maid at times. I don't have a lot of kink experience but do want to explore more. I am open to the idea of my partner having me regular-ish wearing a chastity cage and told how to dress when at home.
Over all I'm hoping to find a dominant partner for something long term and serious who has similar interests and is open minded. Someone whose ok with a sub male partner who enjoys exploring femininity and willing to encourage it. I'm definitely willing to talk things out to come to a common ground. If you think this is of interest to you please feel free to send me a chat request, please say more then hi! Hope to hear from you soon! I am also willing to share pics!
Looking to link with someone who’s on the built side. If you’re curious, I’m pretty chill and looking to take it easy. I’m in midtown.
DM/chat me if you’re interested. Let’s chat and exchange some pics before meeting.
Hey all — I’m here to connect with real, open-minded women and couples for chemistry, fun, and unforgettable experiences. I’ve been in the lifestyle since I was 23, with 10+ years of experience as a trusted, dominant Bull and respectful third.
I’m 6’4”, fit, confident, and carry a BWC. Whether it’s an intimate one-on-one or something more wild—threesomes, gangbangs, or upscale sex parties—I know how to take the lead, push the right buttons, and leave a lasting impression.
I’m dominant, not shy, and very direct—but always respectful, especially when joining couples. I understand relationship dynamics and the importance of trust and communication. I never overstep—my role is to enhance, never interfere.
I vibe best with open-minded, submissive-leaning women (single or taken) who want a strong, confident man to take control and unlock deeper desires. I’m the type of Bull who knows when to lead and when to match the energy. I’m open to soft or hard swap as the vibe builds.
I’m confident, drama-free, and not afraid to share pics—face and full body—when there’s a real connection. Discretion is always respected.
If you’re craving something raw, respectful, and fully satisfying—with no pressure or BS—let’s make it happen.
[m4m] 30 #brooklyn. Looking to suck some hot dick
Hey there. I can host in bedstuy or travel close by. I’m looking to suck some clean ddf dick sometime soon. I would also be down for more if things click. I’m 30m 6ft 150 with a nice ass looking for something similar but Im open. Hit me up anytime
So let's start with my stats i guess. I'm 35 6ft 165lbs, athletic, brown skin, Indian origin. Been looking for a while with no real luck but can't give up because you never know what you might find right? I'm looking for someone sweet and bubbly and definitely a bit of clingy to grow close with. My everyday person, we should look forward to hearing from each other every day. To often conversations just seem to sputter out without any effort given. Relationships take effort but with the right person it really does feel effortless. I'm very easy going and relaxed hoping to find someone similar. I want to be needed and wanted, a partner who loves being with me for just being me and I hope to make you feel that as well. I don't mind if this starts long distance but i would prefer someone local if possible. Hopefully if you are interested you say hi and we can see how things go. Thank you for taking the time to read my ramble.
Tall fit white DL jock looking for other straight / married / curious guys that wanna have some fun. Can host in UWS. Hit me up with pics / stats
Preferably a stud i can eat out or a bbc i can stroke. Swm here, ddf. Looking for a chill ongoing thing. Discrete too, can host sometimes but not often. Hmu.
Im looking for one Indian woman to build a connection with and see where that goes. Open to any age or body type. Just be an adult...
Im an Italian guy from NYC. Looking forward to seeing if we are compatible. Send me a chat message if you are interested...
Willing to share pics if your interested
Hello! As you see from my post I’m really into bigger women. Love pleasing all women no matter of age. I’m free all week to meet up or even just talk first. Also not opposed to being a third if that’s an option. Lmk msg for serious inquiries only please.
Hey there - looking for someone who wants to jerk off together, swap oral and rub our dicks together. I'm a side who is looking for someone who's younger than me, in the 18-24 range. Want to do this with someone who's not hairy and asian is a bonus :) I can host in brooklyn, and I'm free tonight! Not very experienced and a little nervous lol. Anyone around?
No recip necessary you just walk in, feed me your dick, and leave. I can host or travel around bushwick. Pm me with age/stats if interested, more interested in around my age. Will need to see face before we meet, so if that’s an issue for you its not a match. To speed things up please send age and stats in 1st message, or a pic if you’re comfortable with it.