r/ohior4r

Recently, we've noticed an increase in reports of individuals falling victim to sexual extortion. In light of this, I'd like to take a moment to share some insights to help ensure everyone's safety.

Let me provide a bit of context on the process. Typically, individuals respond to posts, often F4M, initiating conversations. The interaction then progresses to moving off Reddit onto a social media platform. While this isn't an immediate red flag, it should prompt heightened caution. Once on social media, scammers persistently engage in conversations, attempting to coax more explicit content and insisting on including your face. This is a significant red flag. Subsequently, armed with your photo or video, they threaten to share it with your friends list unless a specified amount of money is paid.

To prevent falling victim to such scams, here are a few quick reminders:

1. Question Everything: If something seems too good to be true, it probably is!
2. Privacy Matters: Avoid granting immediate access to your personal life on mainstream social media platforms. Exercise caution before adding strangers from Reddit.
3. Adjust Privacy Settings: If you prefer chatting on alternative platforms, ensure your friends list is private, limiting visibility to you alone. This simple step can thwart potential scams.

I'm going to leave this message pinned and unlocked for a bit. Feel free to share your own experiences if you'd like to help others.

Stay sexy, stay warm, and stay safe!

-Mods

Married, professional couple in Columbus with wife available for casual relations with younger men. She is 44, blonde, average to fit build, college-educated, non-smoker. Interested in guys for her age 18-24, locals or visitors welcomed. Open to all races and students a plus. Husband knows and supports but does not participate. Open to regular or ongoing. Can host near Columbus or willing to travel to other parts of Ohio. Preference given to those seeking something ongoing and who is willing, able, and interested in sharing her with others and making those arrangements for and with her. If this is your interest, please say so in your message. If interested feel free to get in touch. Thanks!

Hi!!! Please be nice when you dm! I'm looking for some people to talk to online. Preferably older... they compensate better... 😉

I look forward to hearing from all you sexy Ohioans <3

Since I’m off work today any older women 22 - 50 want to get railed senseless. I’m in a pent up breeding mood so I want to pin you down and pound you balls deep till I cum even deeper inside you. Cant host but I can travel looking for women here in pickerington or reynoldsburg. At the very least be at least 30 minutes to an hour away and drop a pic with your message. Not interested in bbws though if you’re on the chubby side that’s fine. Might be asleep if you message me so please be ready for when I respond and be ready to meet today. Dm me if you’re interested I want to breed any mothers, grandmothers doesn’t matter hit me up and if you’re interested age isnt a problem just let me use and breed you

Easygoing and laid-back guy. I’m 27, 6’2”, athletic build, and based in Ohio. Life’s too short to go through the motions — I’m here looking for someone who wants a little more.

I’m all about real connection, good conversation, shared laughs, and those small moments that stick with you. Whether it’s talking late into the night, sneaking off for spontaneous plans, or just being that escape from the everyday — I’m down for it.

Not looking to complicate things — just hoping to meet someone who gets it. If you value chemistry, enjoy playful energy, and want something that stays between us, let’s talk.

Discreet. Respectful. No pressure — just see where it goes.

Male 29 looking for some fun.. While im here for 3 weeks, got a nice hotelroom. Im into a lot.. but new in this world Soo who helps me discover more of it ? Hit me up

Good day all! I am a 28 year old bear bod of a man needing some release!Open marriage with trans masc husband and granted permisison for extra partners to help balance between bouts of asexual time brought on by his body and gender dysphoria and dysmorphia. Kink friendly and open to all kinds of partners. I live in Columbus off of Morse Road in that area.

Here are some stats on my body and I hope to catch some partners with:

-6’2 tall with broad shoulders and strong legs.

-350+ lbs, been a while since last weigh in but I yoyo around that weight.

-5-6 inch cock with decent girth. I am not a pornstar or toy levels of size, but my creative skills in foreplay and my stamina allow me to give my partners a fun experience.

Who I am looking for:

-20+. Age doesn’t matter either as long as you can keep up. If you are still in the age where the word “teen” is in your numeric age, do not contact me at all.

-People who are not going to judge based on looks. It’s 2025 people open your eyes and cut out the superficial stuff.

-Honesty and communication. If you feel the vibe is off, just tell me. Don’t have me travel for 3 hours with all kinds of promises and then duck out the second we see each other for real.

-Thiccer is always better but I love all body types and want to experience all I can. I have only ever been in one relationship my whole adult life so I want to see what I can do.

-Flexibility on Hosting. I can host no problem now. Had issues in the past because I had almost no furniture or amenities for guests whatsoever but now I am equipped to host totally fine. But it would be nice to alternate if possible but definitely not a deal breaker if we always go to my place though.

-I love all genders and want to make sure everyone has a chance for connection and love. Couples of all kinds welcome too!

What I am [[Not]] looking for:

-OnlyScammers, people who fish for people to get them on their OnlyFans. If I wanted porn, I would go onto free stuff like Pornhub.

-Dudes who want to top and claim they want to use me like a bitch. I am secure in my masculinity and my sexuality and I am a full Top and Dom. That will not change.

-People unsure of their intentions. I hate it when people get all into things and then flake at the last second. If you want this make sure you know you do. If you are part of a couple, please make sure that this is something you both want and don’t just allow a one and done deal before getting cold feet for future meetings.

-Cheaters. I have permission to do this, and you should too. I am not going to be the bad guy in someone’s story when their partner cheats.

Anyway! I hope we can all connect and have some fun experiences! If you read all the way through, please tell me your favorite color!

26 M and 24 F looking for a couple, single females, or select single males to have fun, be friends with, and just have a good time together!

Preferably couples and single females, but open to select bi males. Ideally would love to give F half their first female sexual experience. We love to drink some adult beverages and get freaky, 420 friendly. Trans friends pls apply as well.

Preferably be between the age of 20-50 and send us a bit about yourself and to trade pics . Edging and porn addicts pls hit me up!

Nice guys finish last because they make sure you get off multiple times before they do. I love making a woman cum and want to make you cum until you can’t walk anymore. If you’re down for some good stress relief let’s have some fun. I can host or travel in the Columbus area

I’m a young guy that is into milfs. I’d love to get with a milf and be a consistent fwb. I’ve only been with one milf and I loved it I want to do it again. I like them all shapes and sizes

34 year old Dom top seeking a sub that is hopefully the greater Cincinnati area or decently close. I am a bit of a bear with Daddy leaning tendency and personality. A bit of a nerd with an actively dirty mind and a constant desire to tease.

Open to any gender. Looking for the age range between 18-50. I don’t have a preference for most things but I love a partner with a thicc ass.

Some of my kinks include (Not all are required and vary with said partner):

Domination, Orgasm control/denial, Humiliation, Feminization, Toy use, Edging, Service/worship

Limits:

Blood, Scat, Diaper play/ABDL

DM for more info or if interested.

I've been a Dom/Daddy over a decade, and have had many partners with varying degrees of experience in BDSM. Typically my dynamics have had some element of DDlg since I enjoy getting to express my more nurturing, guiding side where I give a lot of praise and affection mixed with the more traditional forms of play. But, I tailor my approach and play to my sub since I want to make sure I'm hitting their mental and physical buttons well while giving them a fulfilling experience. We can discuss more about specific kinks we are both into as we chat and get each other, but typically I'm into impact, bondage, sensory play, breath play, marking/claiming, orgasm control, etc.

I don't have the capacity for a longer term/committed relationship currently. So, I'm looking for a kink centered FWB or mentee looking to get a good foundation in kink while exploring their sexuality in a fun, safe way. Your autonomy, consent, comfort, and safety are always my top priorities. Even in more casual things like this, I put a lot of effort into being the best Daddy/Dom I can, so I don't take on new subs lightly and want to enjoy them as a person outside the bedroom just as much as inside.

A little about me: big teddy bear of a man (6ft and 270 lbs), grey hair, beard, glasses and blue eyes. Physical touch is my number one way of showing affection, so love to cuddle and always provide good aftercare. I'm a white collar professional, live by myself besides my dog, and have a lot of hobbies such as blacksmithing, leatherwork, woodwork, D&D, photography, and many more. Huge comedy nerd, liberal, introspective, thoughtful, goofy, and funny.

What I'm looking for: when it comes to submission, the thing that's most important to me is effort. I want to demonstrate that I'm a safe space and that you are in good hands, give good feedback, and show my appreciation so that you feel motivated to always do your best for me. I get along best with intelligent, neurodivergent (I am ADHD as hell), kind, bubbly, curious, creative women who understand the importance of mature, honest communication. I'm gynesexual, so am attracted to feminity/feminine features regardless of gender assigned at birth. I tend to prefer shorter and/or average sized partners because it makes me feel more protective when my partner is significantly smaller than me, but I have a pretty wide range of things I find attractive so don't let that worry you too much.

If you have gotten this far and are interested, feel free to send me a chat request or DM! As a blanket statement, I'll always answer to my comfort level and welcome your questions!

Trans woman (yes I have a penis)

Pansexual

Poly/ENM with one partner

Been on HRT for 3 years.

CINCINNATI LOCAL ONLY (sorry. I have enough online only friends)

Looking to make emotional connections and build into a relationship. Whether that is friendship or dating depends on the chemistry.

Nerdy aspiring bimbo. In school for social work. I enjoy watching movies, writing, playing DND, going to drag shows, going out to bars with the right people, and dancing.

Friendship is important for any relationship though. If we don't connect as friends then don't expect anything else.

I'm pretty much an open book so feel free to ask anything.

Not interested in hook ups or one night stands.

Cis okay

Hi, Im 5’7 , respectful, quick-witted and I’ve been told talented at pleasuring a woman. I find the most pleasure in giving a woman pleasure and am looking for that with no expectation of reciprocation.

No single dudes. Any age (any woman older than me is a huge turn on). Not opposed to couples. Open-minded and flexible to most ideas.

Online is fine too. NO couples. No men.

Dominant in the bedroom. Loves rough and sensual sex. Also, needs a connection outside of the bedroom too. Looking for something more long term. Educated, smart, fun, charming too.

Kinks (negotiable, obviously): - Anal -All rough sex - Lingerie/ heels/ outfits - Ropes/ cuffs/ bdsm - CNC/ role play- Facefucking, face sitting, all oral/ foreplay, squirting, cumsluts - DDLG -Age gaps

Hi, I'm 21, 5'11, 135lbs. Looking to hookup, date or something simmilar with someone I get along with. Not sure what to put, im alright with answering any questions though

44M 6’2”, 200lbs, athletic outdoors type, 7.5”. I’m looking for a woman to kill boredom with and have fun and flirt online. I’m open to just about anything. I have a high sex drive and love to tease and flirt. If you’re interested and want to have some fun, send me a chat. Thanks!

Two buddies that work together here. We are looking for one lucky lady that would like the attention of four hands, two tongues and two … any ladies interested in being the center of attention? We are both professional, fit and fun. Let’s chat and trade pics. We prefer fit, professional women in 30s, 40s, 50s. Let’s have some fun! Chat soon.

hi! i don't usually post but i'm horny and wanting to worship tdick, have mine worshipped, and get fucked! versatile but would like to start sub/bottom. chat with me! cis women welcome too :)

I’m a young guy tall some what fit I am really into milfs have only been with one in my life but I want to get with another one I like them all shapes and sizes I can come to you or I can host

What’s up? I’m a 20 y/o straight guy looking for a one-time casual hookup with a woman who’s on the same page. no pressure, no expectations, just good energy and a fun night.

I’m clean, DDF, and respectful, If you're into Black guys or curious, I might just be your type. Not into games or drama, just looking to vibe, and keep things simple. If we click, great. If not, no hard feelings. Prefer someone local to Dayton or nearby so we’re not making it harder than it has to be.

I’m down to chat a bit first and trade pics if you’re comfortable. Let’s see where it goes. If you’re looking for something easy and real, shoot me a message.

Hello,

My name is Lauren and I am looking for some fun this week and weekend I am a 33 year old bbw white woman who enjoys trying new things. I am looking for someone who is free later this afternoon and tomorrow. I am open to most things. Also would like someone who is 25-38. thank you and please send a picture with your respond

I'm going to be in town and have my own hotel room the last week of May. Looking for someone who wants to spend one or more nights with me while I'm in town.

Me: 6ft tall, chubby but still reasonably fit, white, blue eyes, disease and drug free, likes drinking.

I’m a horny dom (30) looking for a submissive and/or sissy slut to have fun with. I am very kink-friendly, and I have a huge breeding kink myself. If you’re a cute cum-slut into getting filled up and bred by thick white cock, dm and we can talk, maybe even arrange something if things go well~

Visiting for a few days. Looking for a good bj/deepthroat and or gloryhole. Willing to host in hotel room. I'd need pics. Willing to send pics of my own.

I know this is a long shot. 43M. 6’3” BWC 215. Under fucked. Wanting to find 2 women , thicker the better for an unbelievable experience!! Love oral giving more. And a serious ass fetish