r/oldermanpersonals
I do appreciate the people here who take a few seconds to report posts that don't belong. Helps me get right to those that need to be removed. Don't be afraid to report posts you see if there is something against the rules. Mostly, sellers, spammers, and fakes. It is anonymous so I can't see who is reporting so no one is going to call you out or tell someone you reported their post. And no one is going to call you a pussy-assed snitching rat for reporting stuff that doesn't belong. Also, I have a pretty low limit on auto removal from reports. So, the more that report an offending post, the better chance it gets removed before I can even get to it. But that also gives them a chance to delete their post before I can do anything about it.
However, some things can't be done with a simple report. Mostly, the ones who start asking for money in chat or private messages. If they don't have any selling stuff in their post history (and yes, I will check) and their post appears legit, I can't do anything about it but approve the post. I know there's several out there who post regularly who aren't what they so innocently appear to be. I need you guys' help to get rid of them. If you contact someone and they start trying to sell or phish for info or ask for money, or anything that just doesn't fit right in here, screen shot that shit and send me them pics in a mod mail. Or, if you don't want to upload them to imgur or somewhere, send it as a chat directly to me. But be nice. Don't come at me all violent and angry and agitated yelling slurs and curses that I suck ass and the group sucks and everything sucks because I exist. If you're nice and polite to me, I'll be the same back.
So yeah, modmail is better than reports. Sure, it does show who you are (well, your account name) but I don't really care. I'll forget that by the time I end up taking care of the issue. So, time for my favorite. Let's do some bullet points.
Reports are fine for small and obvious reasons
Modmail is better than reports and allows you to add images as proof against those nasty onlyfans scammers. (No shade on onlyfans models, just don't sell your ass here)
When you report a post, it is removed from your feed once you refresh it. Out of sight, out of mind.
Reports are anonymous and if enough different reports are made on a post it will remove it automatically.
Modmail will add your username to the message and let me see who you are, but I really don't care enough unless you're doing something against the rules too.
Politeness goes a long way with me. I'm generally a nice guy. Overly polite in public some may say. But I will meet attitude with attitude. And I can and will just ultimately ban and block you after a certain point of being a dick.
Don't report shit as spam just because you don't like the person or like what they posted or had a bad interaction with them. Just block them and you won't see their shit anymore. If their post and history look legit, I will just approve the post anyways.
Reports come to me, the mod of the sub. Not to reddit admins or anyone higher up. Unless we are running something not so legal or doing really bad things, they don't really care what is going on in here.
I'm sure there's more shit I could add to this that I'll think of 10 minutes after posting, but I'm tired. So, whatever.
As always, have fun and play safe.
I'm looking for a chat where we can talk about anything. If you're interested, please message me! I'd also prefer that you're at least 18 or older. I can't wait to hear from you! I really enjoy meeting new people and having interesting conversations. I'm open-minded and always ready to dive into new topics. Let's see where our conversation takes us!
Hi, I guess I want to start of by saying I generally believe in traditional gender roles, although I have no problems with an independent, strong woman. I am very much on the kinky and dominated side of the spectrum but I know how to be sweet as well.
I have an established, professional career. I’m tall, relatively muscular, and have salt and pepper hair and beard. I am also a bit of a nerd and spend a decent amount of time reading and watching my nerdy shows and movies.
I work out and being in shape is important to me. I spend a lot of time doing active activities like hiking, biking, paddleboarding, among others. I don’t mind nice dinners and quiet nights at home too. I am genuinely looking to build a connection with a woman.
I hope to hear from you soon!
Hello!
I’m a sweet bunny looking to connect with an older man. I've always been attracted to older partners and hope to bond with someone special.
About me: I'm thick/curvy, Black, 5'4", and I have two dimples when I smile. Once I overcome my shyness, I can be playful and teasing. I enjoy phone calls and sending cute voice messages. I would describe myself as a girly girl who loves pink and anything feminine. My favorite activities include cuddling, coloring, and visiting the zoo to see the hippos.
I’m particularly interested in an older man who is nurturing, kind, and assertive when needed. I am open to local and online connections, and bonus points if you're over 50!
Little Woman, 21+, do you ever feel like playing hooky from life and your responsibilities for a day?
I do, my life is beyond stressful.
Let's lock ourselves in a dark room watch tv, eat, drink, cuddle, sleep, or if you wish something outdoors and more active, let's go to one of the many parks in CT, hike, layout in nature and allow nature to guide us.
I will reserve my expectations to your wishes, as a mature, respectful, gentleman, or bring out my inner bad boy.
I want to stop posting, please be the one, only met one here last year, twice, till her situation changed.
Looking for a younger 18+ slender lady that wants a older man. Maybe your getting tired of your younger hubby bf and wants something different. So idc if you have a bf or hubby. Please be in my area. My pics are on my profile. Please send age and location when responding
Looking for an attractive, fun, intelligent young woman (18-30) who is interested in a long-term traditional relationship with an older man, eventually leading to marriage.
Since my divorce six years ago, I’ve been primarily focused on my children and making sure that they’re ok, but now that they’re older and in college, I’m finally ready to give my time and attention to a new relationship. And after much consideration, I’ve decided that what I really want is a young, loving, loyal, and dedicated SAHW.
Of course, I want this to be a real relationship, and in time I’d like us to have genuine love and affection for one another. But I also expect you to listen and obey, to cook and clean, to take care of me and the house. I will take care of everything else, and you will defer to me regarding any important decisions.
My dream is to have an adorable, affectionate, devoted young wifey that greets me after work wearing a little dress and a big smile. And who looks amazing on my arm when we go out.
I earn enough that you won’t need to work, so you’ll enjoy a life of relative ease and comfort as a wife and homemaker. And, in your downtime, as long as your daily responsibilities are getting done, you’re certainly free to pursue your passions — art, crafts, reading, baking, etc, whatever you want to do. We can also discuss it if you’d like to take classes or do some kind of work or volunteering outside the house.
At this point, I should probably mention that although I’m a proud dad of three (ages 22, 20, 18) and love my kids and have a great relationship with all of them, I am not interested in having more at this stage of my life. Sorry, this isn’t negotiable. (And yes, my kids are aware that I’m into younger women, so that won’t be an issue.)
My daughter says I’m ‘eccentric’ which I take as a compliment. She and I discuss art, movies, books, poetry, language, philosophy, etc often. I have a degree in philosophy and a fairly contemplative manner. I love conversation, and have been told that I’m very easy to talk to. Of course, I also have a playful side and can be quite the lovable goofball.
This post is very sincere. I have a lot of love and affection to offer to a very lucky young woman. I absolutely intend to give someone a great life. Could it be you?
About me: Divorced (2019); educated (BA Philosophy); decent shape (6’/220); good job ($100k+) in the automotive industry; nice house (see pic) near Nashville; positive attitude; great sense of humor; slightly introverted; genuinely nice (affable) person. Financially secure. No smoking, drinking, drugs or drama. Three grown children (not interested in having more), one awesome cat. Various hobbies and interests; enjoy the outdoors, fishing, hiking. Also enjoy movies, music, road trips, antique shops, etc. Pics and verification on profile.
In the real world I'm an alpha male and usually the leader of the pack, both in my professional and personal life.
I absolutely love the outdoors. Some of my favorite activities include hiking, camping, backpacking, ski-dooing, quadding, fishing and pretty much anything that gets me into the forest.
I work as a tradesman, long shifts but plenty of time off as well so travel and free time aren't a problem for me.
I'm around 5' foot 7 inches short, blonde hair and blue eyes. Physically, I vary between very athletic to dad bod, depending on my work schedule and how exhausted I am. I'm not a Greek God and you don't have to be a super model. But I do prefer someone who leads a healthy lifestyle and will encourage me to do the same.
Sexually, secretly, behind closed doors I just want to melt into a puddle and be controlled, cuddled and owned. My interest in kink varies greatly and I don't think I fit into 1 specific category, and I'll bet you don't either.
My kinks are flexible and not written in stone, I'm open to new things and willing to give up my fetishes in order to accommodate yours. In fact, I love that.
Nonetheless, I'm going to include this boring list of kinks I like. I've been kinky all my life but don't have a ton of real world experience. So I'm sure our mutual interests will be ever fun and ever evolving. Some, and I mean "some" of my interests include chastity, orgasm control and denial, dildos, strapons, butt plugs, humiliation, forced feminization, sissification, bimbofication, cum eating instructions, small penis humiliation and more. But more importantly, I genuinely derive pleasure from making my owner happy. That's the honest truth. I love making my partner happy. That's my reward.
My limits are pretty much the normal ones, nothing gross like toilet stuff, scary stuff, knife play, needles, anything that could cause permanent damage. These are all dealbreakers.
I really just want to melt and give up control. But I also need to be coddled as much as I need to be cuddled. I adore praise....I crave it.
I cherish mommydoms and FLRs and truly desire our relationship to be long term and monogomous. I want reality, not fantasy. I don't experience PNC but I do require aftercare.
If I have piqued your interest then please have a look at my profile, check out my pics and send me a message. Let's see if we're a sexy, loving match. Let's talk and get to know each other.
I would love to love you. I hope to hear from you.
*I just wanted to say what I mean by a younger lady. 18 to any age younger than 52. I’m not one of those creeps that thinks women are finished after 25. That’s just misogynistic nonsense. On the contrary women just get better with age and experience. I just think that if there is an age gap no matter the size it works better for this dynamic
Hi there, A little about me. I’m a 52M living in the Dublin area. I’m looking for a younger lady interested in older men for fun and friendship.
I am married but in a dead bedroom situation. I don’t want to go into too much here but willing to discuss more if we connect. I completely understand if this is not ok for you. I wanted to be up front about it.
I am white with brown eyes, brown/grey hair and a salt and pepper beard. 5’10” with a slight dad bod though I am currently working on tightening things up in that area. I’ve been told that I am handsome.
I’ve come to a point in my life where I want to experience and explore some kinks and fantasies that up till now I have been unable to.
I am an affectionate dom. A pleasure daddy. I like to shower you with attention and affection. I am dominant so I can be firm or strict when needed. But overall I want to provide you with an escape where you can feel treasured, appreciated and wanted.
Perhaps you’ve always had a curiosity about older men? Do you like praise? Do you like to please? Does the thought of making someone proud and having them tell you that you are a good girl just make you melt inside?
Maybe you like to be cheeky even though it might get you a spanking? Though secretly you love the idea of getting bent over Daddy’s knee. I’m never too rough though.
If you are new to any of this you don’t need to be nervous. I’m respectful and my goal is for you to feel as comfortable and safe with me as possible. We can make a dynamic that suits the two of us. I want to have a real connection and build trust. The more two people trust and respect each other the more relaxed and fun this can all be. Because this is all about having fun after all.
Please be in the Dublin area or be able to travel there. I would love for this to evolve into a in real life FWB situation. Emphasis on friends.
If any of the above interests you then be a good girl and send a chat request. Let’s chat and see if we vibe. Obviously this will all be discreet. Do you want to be my secret? I look forward to hearing from you.
*If you have gotten this far you are amazing! Thank you.
Hii - i’m looking to chat with specifically an older man for a meaningful chat that can go with the flow! Something that can just be a friendship or potentially something longer (: I’m all for deep conversations, laughs and someone mature and attentive.
I’m a Uni student so things can get busy but I’ll always get around to replying. Less likely to respond to short hey’s - tell me all about you! And please if you are don’t lie about being married or in a relationship as it’s just a waste of time
Looking forward to hearing back <3
Now we all know the spectrum of this dynamic is very wide and for something like this to truly work out, interests and desires/cravings need to be aligned.
Therefore, I'll describe the kind of Daddy I am:
I want to be your number one fan. Supporting you, encouraging in school or career. But I also see it as my job to take some of the stress that real life can bring off those shoulders of yours, freeing up the capacity to be the best princess. Protecting and keeping you safe is a top priority, but also help guide and be your anchor I also deem important.
We'll let the kink aspect of the dynamic develop naturally as sexual chemistry can never be forced, but I am very open minded. Please know that from my standpoint intelligence, touch/affection, and the ability to be playful are essential qualities for this kind of relationship to be successful. Having conventional hobbies and interests in common will make our bond even deeper.
Physically, I am 5'10, have light eyes, brown hair, and a very fit body type.
If any/all of what I've written piques your interest, let's chat and see if we get along.
Open to online and in person.
What can I say – I've had a thing for much younger women my entire adult life. Even in my twenties, I'd catch myself eyeing girls in their late teens and early twenties. It's just how I'm built.
If you're significantly younger than I am, with a strong interest in older men, then you should definitely send me a message. Doesn't matter whether you've ever acted on that interest before; I want to hear from you either way.
I am: - Reasonably attractive - In good shape / thin - Very experienced
You are - A whole lot younger - Local or likely to visit NYC soon - Interested in older men, even if you've never done more than dream about what we'd be like with our clothes off - Able to hold a conversation involving sentences with more than two words in them - Ideally petite
Can't wait to hear from you. And if you made it this far, congratulations! Tell me about your favorite classy male actor in your first message to me.
Looking for a second dom my owner (43M) and I (18F) can casually sext with, and hopefully one i can be humiliated and degraded by with my daddy.
Hello. I'm a single 44-year-old man from the east coast of the U.S. I get lonely at nights, and so am looking for a woman to share in a voice call or voice notes, or possibly a sleep call if you'd like.
I'm not really looking for someone to talk to every night, but I would like someone I could speak to on a regular basis, whatever that regular availability may be. I'm not really into texting, and prefer voice calls because it's more of a connection, and reminds us that we're more than text on a screen. There's so much more that can be conveyed over voice calls, which is why I'm looking for them.
A bit about me:
I'm an introvert, an Aquarius, a liberal, an INTP, and a ginger.
I grew up in a rural area, and fell into a job involving agriculture, but I also grew up as a geek, and enjoy typical geeky things such as comic books, tabletop roleplaying games, history, sci-fi, fantasy, and horror. I also have studied literature and filmmaking as well, and write in my spare time. Because of this, I can talk about movies endlessly, and have a great interest in cinema, and movies of all kinds.
Some of my favorites:
Favorite music: 90s alternative and grunge rock. Favorite movie genre: Thrillers. Favorite comic book: Miracleman. Favorite TTRPG: Call of Cthulhu. Favorite book: Lord of Light by Roger Zelazny. Favorite food: Pepperoni and mushroom pizza. Favorite soup: French onion.
I'm not looking for a relationship, so there can be no strings attached, though this could be the start of a semi-regular dynamic. I have an introvert's social battery, though, so please be understanding and accommodating of that.
A bit about you:
I would prefer a woman who is nice and empathetic. Nights are tough for me, so having someone I can reach out to would be very comforting, which is what I'm primarily looking for when we talk. I would also appreciate it if you have passion you like to share and talk about as well, as I always enjoy listening to what others care about.
I'm also open to sleep calls as well. I sleep much better when I can fall asleep with someone. I tend to be affectionate and cuddly on a sleep call, but I also respect any boundaries or limitations you have. I also have no problem with SFW sleep calls.
I'm okay with speaking to women who are older or younger than I am, though I do require you be aged 18 or older. I am also open to speaking to someone from all over the world, though the availability that we could speak is dependent on our time zones and free time, which I totally understand. If you'd like to listen to a sample of my voice, here ya go:
https://vocaroo.com/1arlaHxjfOuQ
If you reach out, I'd really appreciate a voice sample from you since you know what my voice sounds like.
Any younger girl who's into older men or curious about ? Let's connect, explore our kinks and have some good time together ;)
Can be for a short or long term, I'm open to all possibilities 😉
No boys please
To whomever is reading this, I hope you're doing well and find the right person for your needs. That person may not be me-- I'm certainly not for everyone, but for the right someone? I'd like to be the last dominant, the last person, you'll ever want or need.
I've been in the lifestyle as a dominant for 16 years now. I am open to meeting IRL if we click, but I neither expect nor require it. I am 5'10'', 200 lbs, white, with short blonde hair and a full beard. You may or may not be into my looks. For the right girl, that would be completely secondary, because what I am, most of all, is intelligent, intense, and insatiable.
That could come across as arrogance or baseless bragging. So let me dig into it a bit and explain more what I mean. I am extremely psychological and cerebral in my dominance. Because of my hyper intuition and driven focus to dig into my partner, the connections I form can be deep in a way most aren't accustomed to, and, potentially overbearing. It has been reported that it can feel like my thumbs are pressing down on them or that they're being understood or seen in ways that they've never been before. Of course, this isn't a universal thing, but if we click, you may just notice a similar sensation as well. For better, and at times, for worse.
The main thing to understand is that I will *always* want more of you. More of your thoughts. More of your feelings. Sure, yes, more of your body as well. But not in isolation. It's always tied into other aspects of you. The right submissive will crave that attention. Find comfort and security in it. Addiction and dependency. The wrong one might find it toxic or panic inducing.
I could, truly, go on and on for a while now, but that would just take all the fun out of communicating via chat and other platforms and seeing how we work inter personally. So let me itemize the last few things you need to know before deciding to reach out or not.
-I am fine with all experience levels. I love to teach, train, guide, and condition.
-I am find with most body types. Out right big girls usually aren't my thing, but I love curvy, thick, petite, almost everything. What I really seek isn't something artificially apparent, anyways.
-My main kinks include: Humiliation, degradation, orgasm control/denial/conditioning, general conditioning, hypnosis, TPE, voyeurism, impregnation/breeding, and light to medium pain play.
-I do require the willingness to share pics and verify. Not immediately, no. But in general, if you cant trust and submit to me in such a way, even with some reasonable restrictions or time to build that trust, then this just isn't for you. And that's okay.
-I offer three levels of submission. Casual, Standard, and Full. I'm happy to go over them more in detail one-on-one and they aren't *completely* fixed designations. The important thing is to find a dynamic where *we both* can be happy, healthy, and satisfied with the structure and actual happenings that occur. From the lightest to the heaviest of protocols-- and the more the better.
-I'm a gamer, a sports enthusiast, a weeb, a poet, an amateur philosopher(ugh, right?), and someone who loves making people laugh. I am a dominant. That's not all I am.
Ultimately, I believe that submission is a choice. An intimate and incredible gift that is irreplaceable and to be treasured. I certainly have my dark and debatably abusive sides. But just as much, if not more so, I am a bright, caring, and supportive person. I want to find someone I can help be the best they can be, just for me. All for me. I hope that's you. I hope to hear from you soon. Thank you for reading, and if you took the time to read it all, tell me three random things about you in your opening message to break the ice.
I am 68 years old; I live in Lucerne. You are age 21+ and you live close to me in Lake County, which is in the Northern California 707-area. I want IRL dating, meetups and/or ? with a nice, younger man or trans person, CD or anyone who is looking for a man who is clean, honest, nice and sensual. A boyfriend? A Partner? I can be the older man you have always wanted.
While you are the kind of person who likes to be on TOP of every situation, I am great at holding up my end and getting to the BOTTOM of any situation. Just to be clear, I am only interested in IRL in-person activities with you, NO long-distance, NO relocations. If you only want to sit in little chatrooms and do your thing, then I am not the man for you. You be local (Lake County), be sincere, be real or be gone. PMs and DMs open, no comments. I'm in the Clear Lake area. I am single with no partner, no boyfriend, no girlfriend. You must be single and able to invite me into your space whenever we want... no roommates or a secret wife or girlfriend to hide from, just 2 men being friends, being partners and enjoying every minute we are together.
If you think you have a desire to be with me, DM or PM message me. Our future can start RIGHT NOW!
If you’re the type who crushes on her older male teachers, or friend’s dads, then let’s talk.
Let’s chat about all of your dirty thoughts and the things that you want to do with an older man. Maybe you’ve already had some wonderful experiences with an older guy. I am a low pressure chill type who is open minded and naughty like you. We can compare notes.
Prefer only local young ladies who are legal age. Don't be shy in reaching out to me.
I’m a 48-year-old man with a youthful spirit and a steady, grounded outlook on life. I’ve built a life I’m proud of—full of lessons, laughter, and a strong sense of who I am. Now, I’m ready to share that life with someone special.
What I'm Looking For: I'm drawn to women who are vibrant, full of energy, and see life as an adventure. Age is just a number—what matters to me is attitude, passion, and that spark for life. I want a partner who brings her own dreams, her own voice, and isn’t afraid to laugh, explore, and build something real.
I'm hoping to meet a special lady (you? ☺️) to share my (and your!) day with. Texting during the day, talking about everything and anything. A friendship that has the potential to become more? 😇
Me: 48-year-old white man, 1.79m + 72kg / blue eyes + blonde hair (a bit gray) / politically left, flexible, easygoing, discreet, feminist. And of course, much more, but you'll find out for yourself. ☺️
The same time zone obviously has preference, but for the right lady…rules can be bent. 😋
Interested? Then send me a message! 😎
So, to cut through the BS here it is….I am an experienced Dom/Daddy looking for long term. Tired of the games and the “What do you do for work” idle chit chat. Check out the below, if I sound like fun, you know where to find me…..
Me: 46, in great shape, salt and pepper hair, beard, 6’2”, muscular, educated, secure, wicked sense of humor, can carry on a conversation beyond the word “Ok”……
And to cut even more through it:
I am a Dom/Daddy (yes there is a difference, have been both and am willing to be both). I am NOT vanilla.
I will take you shopping, drag you into a fitting room just to use your ass as a cum dump shove a plug in you and make you shop the rest of the day with my cum plugged inside of you then get you home pull the plug out and force orgasm after orgasm out of you while it drips down your leg.
I will tease you and please you for hours. When you are panting and begging to cum I will tease you more until the last shred of your dignity is gone and you would do anything for me to allow you to release.
I will show you how incredibly sexy bruises can be
I will show you a spanking can be a life changing experience if you have it done to you by someone who knows how.
I will show you how fun the words free and use can be when combined with a devious mind and the experience to back it up….
I will have you questioning why just the sound of my voices causes you to leak like a faucet…..
I will show you how great the world outside vanilla can be!!!
Anyways, if I sound like your cup of tea (or even if you just want to say hi or ask questions) reach out and say hi!
Looking forward to it!!
Hey, little one :)
It's fine if you're not experienced,.. 😉
What matters is your curiosity for new exciting sensations.
Together, we'll explore your beautiful or maybe submissive side, sensuality, sexuality, bodily appetites, and your desire to have fun and be enjoyed. Will reveal all your passions and talents of a good girl.
If you already do some stuff, we'll expand our boundaries, adding new shades of pleasure.
...and all this surrounded by the coziness and care of a hot and loving Daddy.
Are you a plus-size girl who'd love to be touched by an older gentleman ? Would you like to be spanked gently , massaged slowly and then get eaten out by a nice single gentleman safely and discreetly ? Would you like to jerk off an older gentleman and watch him cum ? Are you over the age of 18 ? If so , then you send me a chat message.
If you are not close enough to the cities in the post please don’t bother sending me a message.
One word replies will be ignored.
Please don’t just say hi daddy, talk about what you’d like!
You should either be in Chambersburg Pa, HagerstownMd, Spring Mills Wv or in between.
Age is just a number but I prefer you are 21 plus.
I am one that enjoys kissing and touching if you do not we will not be a match.
You should know why you are. Interested in older men don’t make me ask.
Body type not important
Discretion is a must!
Hey there reddit, I'm 60, around 5'8", 250lbs, silverish salt and peppered hair, successful career, and all around in the prime of my life. In my younger years I MIGHT have had a cute grad student or 2 spread out on my desk after hours, its been a long long time since I've gotten to play it out and I'm sitting in my office daydreaming about it all over again.
If you've ever fantasized about being the pretty younger intern secretly checking out your professor, or fantasized about being bent over the conference table mid client call, I might be your man!
Have a thing for high heels and long legs and skirts without panties so if that sounds like you shoot me a message and maybe we'll see if you're a good fit ;)