r/r4rasian
Dating apps suck. So looking for interesting conversations and meaningful connections here instead. Pics/sexts/more if you’re cute & vibes match ♥️
Bit about me:
💁🏻♀️ fit 27-year-old insomniac Asian gal trying to survive & thrive in this expensive a$$ state
👩🏻🌾 interests include cooking, video/board games, gardening, anime, history podcasts, and politics/policy reads
🏋🏻♀️ spends most of my weekdays working and/or working out
🙆🏻♀️ enjoys deep convos, spicy memes, and substantive discussions. - I’m liberal on most issues, but always happy to engage in good faith with anyone across the aisle…
Convo starters (for cute shy boys): - Ask & share about your hobbies! - Talk about show & movie recs! - Discuss & defend your wildest take (i.e. 🍍 on 🍕, Star Wars sequels > prequels, Trump should get 3rd term, etc.)
Hey! I’m looking for someone who wants to chat with me and see how things go, if towards an intimate and fun direction
I don’t mind short-term or long-term :)
What’s up, I’m a 22-year-old guy in Long Beach—5’11”, average build, white/Hispanic. Just looking for something quick and fun tonight because I’m bored and in the mood. I’ve got a car and can meet pretty much anywhere nearby. Down to swap face pics too.
I’m 7 inches, clean, and respectful. A good sense of humor is always a plus. Ideally looking for something consistent, private, clean, and safe.
If you’re down, DM me fast and let’s make it happen.
I have never been with an Asian girl. Break my cherry.
Planning an erotic escape somewhere and looking for an attractive, fit woman with great curves for a no-strings getaway. The kind who looks amazing poolside and even better when the bikini comes off.
Me: 46, fit, active. Pics/text first are required to see if there's a spark. I might come across as a bit reserved initially, but don't let that fool you – I'm definitely ready to explore and bring out my adventurous side with the right partner ;).
The Plan: Let's meet somewhere for a night or two. We can swap pics and chat first. Then pick a destination and go. Mexico? Somewhere in Canada? Beach? Mountains?
This needs a little planning, so flexibility is key – both with scheduling and between the sheets.
I’m King, 23, Black, 5’9, living in Vaughan. I’m a sport business student, laid-back, respectful, a little shy at first but real playful once I’m comfortable. I love basketball, good vibes, and keeping things honest. I’m not looking to rush into anything too serious, but I’m also not into anything meaningless either. Let’s just vibe and see where things go no pressure, no games.
I’m attracted to women who are open-minded, down-to-earth, and affectionate. Bonus points if you’re into deep convos, laughing until it hurts, and you appreciate a man who knows how to treat you right without trying to be someone he’s not.
If you’re in Toronto (especially the west end or around the GTA) and you’re craving something real, even if it starts as late-night convos or something casual with connection, slide in. Let’s talk, flirt a little, and see what kind of trouble we can get into.
Hey everyone! I’m new to the country from the Philippines. Lives around Cerritos and Lakewood area and looking to meet someone to hang out, grab some drinks, and shoot some pool with around the Gardengrove or buena park area. These placea have good pool halls.Whether you’re a beginner or just enjoy a casual game, I’m down for some friendly competition or just a relaxed time.
I also love learning about different Asian cultures, so if you’re into that too, even better! No pressure, just good vibes, great conversations, and a fun time.
If you’re up for a drink and a game sometime, hit me up! Let’s rack ‘em up and make some good memories. 🍻🎱
Hi hi, 26m, east asian man, tallish, fit build, good sense of humor but average comedic timing. Looking for someone to have fun with, regularly or one off is fine. I'm a very comfy big spoon, will provide almost insightful commentary when watching shows, as well as good with my tongue and hands.
I'm in brooklyn/the bensonhurst area, prefer a close commute but open to meeting anywhere in nyc within reason.
open to exchanging pics, shoot me a chat about yourself and we can hopefully have a good time.
Hii, I am looking for someone that I can vibe and have some online fun with, NSA
This can be short term or long term
I’m 6’0, slim fit
Hobbies: travelling, reading, gaming, working out
Hmu! :)
I’ve had success on here before and looking to try my luck again! Just looking for someone who’s interested in being please and reciprocate(:
About me: - 29, 5’9” - Mexican - Very clean and hygienic, ddf but 420 friendly - Into movies, shows, anime and always listening to music
Hope to hear back from someone!
Since I feel like I have outgrown most of my friendships I had finally decided to stop mourning over and try to socialise a bit more. Although, work has been a hinder to that-it probably should not be a restraint or so I believe.
Which is what has brought me here tonight, just to look out for people I can talk to about the exciting as well as the mundane things. Cause life really does get boring when you are on the grind.
So hit me up if you are looking for something similar and if we vibe off good, well and good and if not, it never hurts to strike up a conversation.
Looking forward to hear from y'all!
Hi all (: Hope your week is going great!
I’m from Sonoma County but happy to travel some for the right person! I’m mixed so feel free to inquire within (;
In short, I’m just looking to make friends that want to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (: hoping to find someone to do casual stuff with so we can both have our needs fulfilled with zero strings attached!
Hopefully you’re closish so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:
Here’s the about me since I know you don’t wanna waste your time on someone that doesn’t fit ur type.
6’, black curly hair, tan, pretty average all around. Not shredded but definitely not out of shape. It’s my 2nd year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school.
I’m happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have. Like I said above, I’m open to keeping something together online if that’s all you want to do for now.
I look forward to getting to know you (:
Heyo there I'm looking for someone to play games or maybe to just talk with. I'd prefer someone clingy because I'm looking for something longterm. I don't ghost people so I'd like the same in return but I guess that's sort of unrealistic.
Stuff about me.
Half asian half white. 5'11. I play the saxophone and clarinet though I'm pretty mediocre. Have a degree in account though I don't know anything nor am I working. Dark humor and very sarcastic so be ready I guess (::.
Games that I play.
League of Legends and tft. Currently masters in tft and pretty much just play arams in regular league.
Stardew, Minecraft, Terraria, Corekeeper, poe 2, bg3, pokemon, 7 days to die, valheim , monster hunter wilds, repo, elden ring, schedule 1, enshrouded and palworld.
Those are the games that immediately come to mind but I play a bunch of other random stuff and I'm open to trying new games.
I prefer using discord to chat though we can use something else. Also I guess it goes without saying but be 18+.
Hello, SEA asian here. Looking for someone to eat me up and give me multiple orgasms. Also down to fuck after as long as you wear a condom.
What im looking for: Only attracted to South East Asian or East Asian. STD free and Hygienic is a must. Someone who can host downtown/north york/markham. Muscles are a bonus.
Who i am: SEA asian, more on the petite side People have mentioned im cute.
Its hard for me to have sex with someone im not at least attracted to, so say hello with a face photo and ill reply to you with mine if i like it. 😊 No photo will be ignored.
Recently moved here and waiting to start my new job here (2 more months). Don't really know anyone from here. Korean male into lifting, food/coffee, gaming, kdramas, p typical korean dude stuff
would prefer to just vibe like gaming + discord but really down for anything
I'm seeking an online relationship that can feel incredibly real, even though it stays within the online realm, if that makes sense!
This means sharing some real-life details (enough to keep us both anonymous, or more if we're comfortable), so it feels authentic while respecting our privacy. I'm interested in engaging in each other's daily lives, being playful, flirting, getting naughtier, exchanging pics and vids .
As for my interests, I'm into sitcoms, sci-fi, superheroes, science, technology, and all things nerdy/geeky. I enjoy both light-hearted banter and deep, existential conversations. If you're passionate about something, I'd love to hear about it and discuss it together.
I look forward to hearing from you!
Hello I am 35 married been in the US for over 15 years. Lacking the romance in my marriage so looking for it outside. I am fun, fit, working in tech. Happy to share pictures right away. Looking for someone local. Good luck with your search. Thank you!
I’m basically looking for a fwb or just a booty call tbh. Im 22, mixed hispanic male 5’6, about 150 lbs and pretty fit. I work out pretty often. I have a car and am willing to travel within socal, like the valleys, LA, OC and maybe san diego. I dont mind splitting a room either. I can get tested. I’d like for this to be an ongoing thing but totally ok with it being a one time thing. I’m not big on smoking, dont ever do drugs, and only drink with friends. Im not super busy atm. currently single and have some kinks we can talk about. I can talk more about myself and verify in dms
Spending the coming weekend (18th-20th April) in KL and looking for someone to have fun with and go around to chill with.
About Me:
-Working professional -Into fashion -Has tattoos and basic piercings if that's your thing -Finds anything creative super interesting. -5'7 average build -People say I look young for my age -Goofy, playful and easygoing -I'm a giver and love to please, so won't be satisfied till you are. I'll eat you out to the end of the world -I like to be in control in bed -More than happy to go multiple rounds -Fun Fact - I can touch my nose with my tongue -Hit me up if you'd like to connect and find out more.
About you:
-Plus points if you dress well
-Consider yourself average to decent looking
-Plus if you have creative interests
-Skinny to average build. Don't mind and sometimes even like some curves or thickness, as long as it's not too much.
-Willing to sit on my face
I guess for a long time now I've felt like that I've only been attracted to older Men and I'm not sure exaclty why and I've been sort of wrestling with it but yeah I think it's what I really need. I was raised in the church and it's still important to me and yeah I hope that's okay and we can work around stuff! I was raised with discipline though. I'd love to have um well a wasian baby (aren't they the best)
I have never really been able to be attracted to guys my age and if I crushed on someone it was always someone older and I guess maybe being homeschooled had to do with it but I feel like maybe I guess now more than ever now that I'm in college that I can take a step and figure out what the right thing for me is. I have hang ups and stuff but I want to learn and learn about an older Daddy too and what he would want from me.
I guess I'm trying to figure out or balance the idea of my traditional upbringing and well the idea of other stuff as well and I feel like an older Man would be able to help me out and would be the right fit. What's your fave sort of music? Go to breakfast or do you skip? Could you be a good role model or guide and teacher and my rock for me?
Hi everyone,
Nice to meet you! Longtime lurker and on an alternate account for nsfw, and on here to look for a fwb. Summer is coming up fast and I'm looking for someone to spend it with.
I‘m Korean and working in healthcare. Let's go bike riding, exploring the city, coffee shops, and have good sex. I am a Dom, and prefer someone sub. I love giving oral as well, so if you're a pillow princess lie back and relax. I'm 5'9, 7" and DDF. Slim body (but trying to build some bulk). Open to all races, but preference to asians, black and latina women. Please be 18+. Thank you!
Hi M here 24 bi, living near Manila. I’m curious to have safe fun with female/male or even down to 3s. Decent here and working in corporate. Hit me up and let’s talk and plan when.
Here’s my TG; nutsandcup
Alright so how it works? Message me then I’ll explain the instruction. Post is up for an hour or two. Limited time only. Please get my telegram on my reddit profile
I have big boobs if you’re into that haha.
Go hit me up!
I’ve tried the sweet relationship route and have come to grips with my real self: I don’t really give a flying fuck and I’m not sweet.
I don’t care if you are or you aren’t. You can be into Asians for race play, you can be into age gaps, you can be into whatever the hell you want and frame this for whatever play or kink you have. I don't care, you do you.
What you DO need to be into, is to be used for sex. Just purely submitting to a man you barely know. No long chat. No dipping your toes slowly over the weeks to feel more comfortable before we schedule a date to meet.
Just you sending your photo and stats, we set up a date to meet up in public for a brief safety and vibe check, and then we go immediately to my apartment. Where as soon as I close the door behind us, you get on your knees, fish my 7’ long 6’ girth dick out of my pants and suck it like the good girl you are. And then I use you however long I like, in whatever position I like, whenever I like. And then that’s it. Maybe after I use you, I’ll watch TV for a bit and you can rest with my heat dripping out of you. Fine. But just know and be prepared for me to use you again and again.
My kinks: CNC, creampies (if you’ve tested, I am freshly tested and clean), anal (giving), freeuse, public, dom/sub play
Limits: Anything unhygienic, physically harmful or irreversible Me: Im lean and fit and that’s all you need to know. Because you’re here to get fucked and used; and you don’t want to have a say in that outside of knowing it’ll be safe and I can host in Manhattan.
You: Not fat. In decent shape and appearance. STD-free. Can take and follow instructions. Not looking for something online or building chemistry or comfort, but looking to actually meet and meet soon to get fucked.
I love to eat pussy and give big messy creampies.
Petite to chubby curvy thick. I like all kinds.
Shoot your shot, I like all kinds.
Happy Tuesday Ladies and Good Girls.
Sending this again, because I believe in it, and believe it accurately articulates my wants and what I can offer.
I can't imagine what woman have to deal with in this space. Fending off those "Doms" who don't understand that submission is a gift. Those "Doms" who make no effort to build that connection by learning about you. Those “Doms”who care not for discovering what you crave, and the touches and words which make you shudder.
I’m sure they all say it, and I’ll say it too, but I am not those.
I’m presently searching, patiently for that intelligent partner who yearns to be dealt and brought to that sweet subspace through measured, honest, and consistent communication. I am hoping to connect with that specific person who knows what she is and wants but also yearns for a safe haven. Someone who believes that she can be a good girl.
So many connections here are fleeting, or advertise one thing but turn out to be something quite different. I am not that thing. I provide something stable, like bedrock, with the potential of growing into the consistent delivery of communication, stability, and need fulfillment, for the right one.
For me, and hopefully you, your understanding of place and purpose will develop from high communication, emotional guidance, and the creation of trust.
Beyond that, I want the deliciously vanilla. The day to day communication about your goals, our good days, our hard days, and the general exchange which occurs when two people find that closeness. I want you to do, offer, and give to me not because it is what you think I want, but because it is what you crave to do.
That isn't to say I won't tie you, take you to the edge, and keep you there until you can't decide whether to beg me to stop or beg me for more. I most certainly will. However, it will come through collaboration, your submission, which is only yours to give, and the knowledge that I will respect you exactly as much as you want me to.
A little about me. I am early forties professional from the US, eastern time zone. I am married. I enjoy reading, being outside, live music, and staying fit. I’m not new to Reddit and was last here under a very similar user name 3 years ago. I've established virtual ownership on four different occasions, with the last running for nearly three years. I’ve been without a sub and partner for six months and I am ready to reestablish that connection. I do hope someone will take interest in what this collar offers.
All I ask of you is be honest with me about what you want, and honest with yourself about what you need. (And on the side, I'd prefer someone married or in a long term relationship, but I won't say no if all other stars align).
This is an uncertain space for any person, and responding to my post doesn't bind you to anything. It’s my obligation to honestly communicate about me, what I can offer, and ensuring that you understand where things could go.
Submission is a gift. It truly is yours to offer, not mine to take, and any formal status and responsibility between us would only come after we sized one another up to establish a fit. That said, if you feel emotionally adrift, desire to be steadied, and believe yourself to be capable of more, please feel free to reach out.
Good girls wanted.