r/r4rasian
hi, 26M PhD student based in NY, i am looking for like-minded long-term friends (and maybe more, if we click) here are my top (and not so top) hits:
i am on telegram/discord so pls feel free to hmu if you're interested (:
I’m east coast and traveling for a week. I will be away from the wife. Being in a cubicle inside a big office will be pretty boring. 🥱 Oh and the hotel life will be pretty lonely as well. So I’m looking to chat and see where it goes. SFW, NSFW it’s whatever.
I wouldn’t mind chatting with someone across the globe. It’s a big world. Anyways hoping to hear from you!
Title says it all. I just wanna grope and make you feel good, and there’s no sex unless we hit it off right. If you’re interested, shoot me a text and we’ll make some plans.
Me: 31 M Korean-American, 5’10, 170 lbs in shape and active, and DDF!
Let's check out some of our local spots - sushi, coffee, boba, kbbq, dimsum, anything really! I don't mind leaning into a romantic dynamic as we hang out. Sometimes it just feels nice, yah know?
Would love to try new restaurants, go to some niche museums, go climbing, or just lay out at one of the parks! Feel free to message me if you'd like to connect. We can verify and exchange pics right away as attraction is obviously important. Thanks!
19 m college boy looking for a fwb or a friend nothing specific as such I'm pretty kinky so lmk about yours
Hi there, me and my FWB are looking for a third/fourth that would wanna join.
KL Area, 20+ April (TBC)
**IMPORTANT** kindly dm me with info about yourself, including race, height, weight, D size (if male) and other relevant information.
Will ignore if you message without these info.
Looking for women for hookups/online FWBs or in person FWBs. I'm just getting out of a relationship and want to get over her by having some fun. I'm unable to host but I can travel or we can do carplay if needed.
About me:
22 year old white male in Mountain View. 6 feet tall, 200 pounds, brown hair and eyes. A little bit on the chubbier side but I am trying to change that. I like video games, golf, aviation, anime (One Piece is far and away the best piece of fiction ever created) and sports.
What I'm looking for in you:
Please be at least my age (no upper limit). I don't care about ethnicity. Looking for someone that can either meet me somewhere or host so we can have some fun. It would help if we have some similar interests but it's not required. If this sounds like something you would be down for send me a DM. Let me know who you are, where you're from and how old you are. Also be ready to verify yourself or don't mind if we move the conversation over to Instagram/Snapchat ( I lost the login to this Reddit account so it's only on my computer and cant access it on my phone)
I am a 37 years old who will be traveling to Korea in a few days. Would like to connect with someone local or someone foreign to the country! I am Asian and this will be my first time back to Asia in 26 years. I am 178 cm (5’10”) and 79 kgs (179 lbs)
Hello everyone! I'm 25 Female, living in Manila. Looking for online or actual fun (if you're in Philippines).
About me: Working professional, black hair, a bit of chinese-looking, I look young, slim, 5ft 4in, submissive
Let's talk, hit me up!
I've been out of a relationship for a bit but missing the feeling of having a go to person to share everything with. Memes, a cool thing I just saw, how psyched I am to finally cop some eggs, stupid shit like that. Maybe sit in a call for a bit after work to yap, game, or watch something.
I love people who are emotionally perceptive, curious about others' internal landscapes, and consistent! I think I can offer all of that for people I care about as well :)
Really looking for that best friend energy without the expectation of something more.
I'm an Asian American. I'm a straight woman but I love and prefer making girl friends.
I'm not explicitly looking for anything romantic or sexual with men at the moment but if it drifts that way, that's ok but shouldn't be the expectation. I find it hard to establish romantic and sexual attraction online.
Recently I've been super into those power fantasy manhwas. I binged Solo Necromancy this weekend. I also recently bought bg3 and satisfactory as a treat for myself!
Hey you all.
Trying this again since it’s been awhile. I’m a 21 mixed Asian male. Mostly Japanese and Spanish. I’m interested in talking to maybe one of all 10 women on here haha.
A little about me: I love you surf and camp in the outdoors. I also love to go to the gym…lmk if u wanna see the pump pics. And I also am a hobbiest perfumer with my own brand. A little all over the place but that’s what I kind of am as a person so. Lmk if you’re interested!
I have finals coming up and I could use some fun study breaks/convos. I’m 6’2, athletic build. If interested please include age in message (age preferred 20-30). I’d prefer to exchange selfies earlier to see if we’re attracted to each other, but if not we can still chat :)
24 [m4f] #NYC - looking for some good head. looking for some good head to forget about the past week.
Hope everyone is having a great start to their week so far!
Like most people at my ancient age, the mundane-ness of everyday adult life is definitely getting to me. I'm just the normal older Asian guy here looking for people to chat with or even someone to play chess with. I'm a beginner so fair warning.
About me: I'm 39 years old, born in Toronto but my background is East Asian. Aside from work, in my free time I'm usually just watching Netflix (tell me I'm not the only one confused about Squid Game 2 ending?), gaming, going to the gym & walks. Very exciting stuff - I know...
If you need someone to vent to about your problems or if you need someone to destroy at chess to brighten your day - I'm your guy! In the meantime, hope you'll have a great rest of your day!
Let’s be real, you wouldn’t still be reading if you weren’t at least a little intrigued. Maybe it’s the idea of playful teasing, maybe it’s the thought of someone who actually knows how to keep a conversation interesting. Either way, you’re here now… so what are you going to do about it?
Here’s the deal:
• 28M, 6’2”, 180 physically fit, and always down for a little game
• Love playful tension, pushing just enough buttons to make things interesting.
• If we click, maybe we exchange a few photos of what we’re both working with, a little anticipation never hurt anyone.
• No pressure, no expectations—just a space to unwind, let loose, and enjoy whatever this turns into
Here’s an icebreaker: What’s something fun you wouldn’t want your friends knowing? Let me know and we’ll see where this goes.
Hi there! I'm a 32 yo asian guy here just looking to chat and see where it goes! Looking to make the day go by quicker, yap and have some nice banter :) give me a dm if you're interested!
I’m a 5’9” black haired blue eyed broke college student. I’m studying mechanical engineering and I just need a break. I moved to this state recently and have no friends here. I’m stressed out, bored, and tired. My roommate is a jerk, they broke my phone and won’t pay me for it, so my phones camera has just been broken for the past 5 months. I’ve always been told in ugly and have been removed from group photos, so I have none to show if you don’t like that that’s fine. Hope we can chat. :). If you’ve read this far and want to chat, message me your age/sex/location and a fun fact about yourself. Also mention my favorite color (teal) so I know it’s not a bot. Thanks.
Hii, 27 latina female here, curvy 5' 4" 154 pounds, I'm looking for a friendship or FWB or more if the vibe checks. I live in Brazil in a low cost touristic area so visiting my city is possible. I'm learning chinese so extra points if 你说过中文. Not up to sexual interaction over internet so be mind of that. I have a small business in my city so I can't move out. I like funny people and people who likes cinema. Thanks 😄
Staying on the strip for the week and looking for an F that is craving physical validation/touch from another. Hopping to connect with someone during my stay and fulfill that desire we sometimes lack in our situations/life. Here to play and see if any F’s are interested in maybe chatting and seeing where things may lead to. Open to all F’s. Dm if interested. (Serious inquires). 🔥
Me: Easy going,Decent conversationalist, can travel, able to host, sane, DDF, Clean
You: Female, +18, local/visiting, Easy going, Sane
Stats ⭐️ Height 5’10” average build
CONDITIONS
Please be a woman, childfree, religion-free, and plus-sized. Thank you.
MY FEATURES
Atheist, skeptic, antinatalist, misanthrope, efilist. Introvert, deep thinker, politically left-leaning voter. Scientific and evidence-based worldview. Has some mental quirks. Not the best but not the worst in social situations. Not an animal person. Other likes: PC gaming, PC hardware, horror stories, very hot/spicy food, creative writing (fiction and non-fiction), drinking alcohol. Gainfully employed in IT career. Has own house in a suburb of Bloomington, Indiana. Drives a plug-in hybrid car. Debt-free. Disease-free. Vasectomy. Vaccinated against Covid-19, the flu and HPV. Exclusively attracted to plus-sized women. Caucasian, long blonde hair, earrings, average body size. Pictures available upon request.
Hey, I'm a 25-year-old attached Chinese guy (175cm, 60kg) and I’m looking for a casual, no-strings-attached arrangement—FWB or ONS. Ideally, I’m hoping to connect with someone who's also interested in keeping things fun, relaxed, and without any expectations beyond the moment.
I’m open-minded, respectful, and looking for someone who values clear communication and mutual consent. If you're into something casual and laid-back, feel free to reach out!
Let me know a little about yourself, and we can see if we vibe.
Looking forward to connecting!
Mexican looking for my future Asian wife love the culture and the women 🥰🥰
Back from vacation and I’m sad about it but it was bound to come to an end and now it’s time for a reset 😭
I made a post a little over a week ago looking for someone to help me kick off my vacation the right way but wasn’t able to find anyone in time. Still, I had a great vacation! Lots of food, lots of good drinks, beaches, sun, what more could you ask for, amirite?
But with all that said, me friends and I were on go time all day and night, and that costs a lot of energy. So, while I couldn’t find someone to help me kick off my vacation, I’m looking for someone to help me wind down and decompress after I land tomorrow afternoon, Tuesday. I need a hard reset and someone to come over and relax, watch movies, cuddle and make out with sounds like the perfect way to do that after I unpack.
I was looking for something a little more raunchy and high energy the last time I posted, but that’s not required this time around, nor do I think I’d have the energy for all of that haha so something a little more chill is more my speed.
Ill save the nsfw for when we talk more but for th e important stuff, I’m recently tested (and frequently too), ok with protection, 420 friendly, not really drinking much alcohol these days, but that’s about it!
On a vanilla note, I like eating out, watching movies and shows, going for walks (maybe we can walk the great highway), listening to rnb, and going to shows!
I’m happy to exchange photos and hop on a call to verify, so if you’re not willing to do either, I’ll have to pass respectfully (if I get a sense that you won’t reciprocate, I probably won’t take the conversation any further so we can save each others’ time). Anyway, send me your favorite song right now so I know you read this far and let’s talk some more!
Hey! How’s it going?
I wanna get back in the dating game. It’s been a while, but I’m ready! 🔥
I’m 21 and pretty outgoing! I enjoy playing video games, making video games, staying as busy as possible, and love discussing music (and making music!). My favorite genre is indie pop, but of course that’s not the only genre I listen to. Been listening to a lot of Beabadoobee and mxmtoon recently (saw mxmtoon live a couple weeks ago!).
Oh yeah, if you’re down to hang, I have a switch with Mario kart. I’m pretty solid at it, so beware. If you’re into other games, I’m down too! Anything really, I’m bored lol.
Thanks for reading! If you’re really cool I’ll let you meet my cat
I have a huge fantasy of having sex at a spa and I’m looking for a girl who’s single and around my age who’d be down to give it a try!
I live in Capitol Hill in Seattle and I know of a place nearby where this would be possible. They have a sauna, hot tub, pool, and showers and it’s completely private so we’d be in for a great time without the risk of getting caught.
I go to the gym regularly so I'm in great shape physically. I'm happy to share pics and will also verify that I'm clean/ddf. Totally down to meet in public first for a vibe check and for safety.
If you're interested send me a message and we'll go from there!