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Hello, lovely ladies of Reddit! Thank you for taking the time to stop by.
Let's create an amazing experience together, where your pleasure and comfort are my top priorities. Picture this: soft music playing in the background, dim lights, and us enjoying each other's company over drinks, setting the stage for a wonderful evening.
I believe in the art of giving, and nothing brings me greater joy than exploring your body. I can start with a gentle, sensual massage, sliding into kisses and caressing you from head to toe. Eating you out passionately, every moment will be dedicated to making you feel desired!
I will find satisfaction in pleasing you, focusing entirely on your pleasure, whether you're seeking a release. Or longing for cuddles wrapped in each other's arms, sharing intimate moments while I hold you close, caress your skin with tender fingertips, and whisper sweet words of admiration and appreciation for the beautiful person you are. I am here to fulfill your desires and make you feel truly adored.
If this resonates with you, I would love to hear from you. Let's embark on a journey of pleasure and exploration together.
I am looking forward to being with you!
!lock
Tall-ish (?), athletic veterinary surgeon looking for something naughty & intense. Born and raised in Bangalore, currently living in England. I am in Bangalore for a bit at the moment!
I’m 5’11, built from over a decade of football, swimming, hiking, and surfing. By day, I’m a veterinary surgeon, steady hands and all, but outside the clinic, I have a passion for cooking, baking and I am an amateur rum and wine collector.
I’m here because I don’t just crave the physical—I want to know you. Your kinks, your fantasies, the things that make your pulse race. But also your interests, your ambitions—what keeps you up at night in all the best ways.
I’m open to sharing a picture if you’d like a visual to go with the words. If this sparks your curiosity, tell me what’s on your mind, and let's see what happens from there :)
NOTE: do not shame; if you're not into it, ignore. Looking for SERIOUS WOMEN ONLY.
Please don't reply if you haven't read the full post, I can tell if you haven't. And no responses to "Hi" or low effort texts.
This is NOT A ROLEPLAY.
I see this as a relationship where you understand your role as a submissive tradwife and are willing to accomodate the preferences and needs of your partner/dominant above yours.
Think of this as a traditional relationship based on gender roles. I don't expect anyone to realistically quit their job and career or go to such extremes, but I expect you to enjoy being a submissive woman who loves to abide by her man's preferences without complaining or demanding much. A power dynamic based on the fact of it.
Of course this includes sexual domination (the more kink friendly you are, the better; it's rather important you'll see), and your willingness to make changes to your behaviour and lifestyle (to a safe, non-extreme degree) to accomodate my preference.
The more you can prioritize my preferences and needs above yours consistently, the more I reciprocate by taking care of your needs.
Most of all, I'd love to talk and keep teasing each other when we're not sexually engaging. If you may, show enthusiasm instead of always expecting me to initiate things.
Being submissive is not the same as being a silent spectator while I perform my domination one-sided.
If it matters, I'm in the IST time zone. And I expect you to be able to commit to this and give it regular time and effort on a daily basis - if you can't, don't engage.
And since I expect this to be a constant back and forth, it is important we respect each other's time and inform when we're available and when not. Slow and infrequent responses would definitely kill this, and if you don't have the time to text more than once a day, please don't bother. That's non-negotiable.
The darker kinks you are into, the more fun it is going to be. Feel free to ask for my kinks or limits. I'd love to see how compatible we are at the beginning, and it's better if you're willing to push your limits.
If you're into this so far, I'm waiting to hear from you!
P.S.:
A few rather non-negotiable things.
Start with your introduction and be interesting enough to talk to start with the word teal if you read the whole thing. If you can't communicate well enough and keep in touch regularly enough to sext every day, this probably won't work.
Because of reddit's UI, it's impossible to play out something long-term here. So, PLEASE be ready to switch to other apps (ask which ones, not open to any other app) after basic introductions, and please don't insult me by asking for try-outs first.
I usually speak in Hindi and love the dirty talking in the same. Might be open otherwise too, if you offer something exceptionally fun.
I DO NOT roleplay, at least not at the start. Please DO NOT talk about plot or story or scenes or face claims.
In a very CNC/predator/taboo headspace. Please message me if you are interested to chat / play on this subject. I would prefer this is to eventually happen in real but that’s not a necessity if we can keep our online dynamic hot enough. I am coming to delhi soon and i would see if we can meet up and play.
For money, i work for a tech firm. Otherwise, interested in art in form of cinema, stories and sex.
What really excites me is one’s ability to talk once our clothes are off. Seeing sex as form of communication, expression of vulnerability just like many other form of communication. If you are neurodivergent, queer and not-heteronormative, a huge+.
Things i am absolutely NOT looking for : - Low effort conversation / communication. - Endless small talk. - Kink-phobia & queer(including trans) phobia. - Your mental health issues being your only personality. - If your intention to chat with me is to "explore cnc" and nothing beyond that. - If you want to only share pictures for me to feed you words - don't bother.
Few things you should know about me
If you have read till here, start your DM with an answer to this question - “What made you send me a DM ? Anything that you are seeking in particular ?”
See you in my DMs.
!lock
Its my fantasy to lick pussy and watch the girl enjoying the pleasure while I eat her. I really love going down on a woman after a long day before shower. I am doing it for my own pleasure hence i dont expect any reciprocation or sex. Its upto you, if we get along, can take things further. For now i am only looking for ladies in Mumbai who would love to get pussy licked nicely and just leave after that.
Well worry no longer! The solution to your problems has just arrived! for the low low price of - A date with you, I will personally help solve your issues. It just works.
How does it work though? - Well I am an excellent listener, I'll listen to what you say, your needs and the wants you have given up on. I'll treat you like the goddess you are. I'll remind you of just how high you can reach and above all, I won't stop until you are satisfied.
This offer is valid for as long as this post stays up. Please be 22+ (no upper limit).
Well that's all I have to say so why not give it a shot and say hello!
Hi, your friendly, tall, lean, guy next door with curly hair.
A northie in Bengaluru. looking for someone who's up for some coffee, food and some hassle free fun.
Let's put on a movie, dim the lights and cuddle under the sheets.
And if that goes well, and we wanna then we can move to some more fun... some if you'd like to indulge in some foreplay.I'd like to make you feel good. go down on you, make you moan (a lot).
PS: we can do as much as we are comfortable with :)
Hmu and let's chat before moving ahead.
Hi
The weather in bangalore nowadays just gets you emotional and sometimes you just miss that physical touch. I've been feeling down and i thought I'd try this out to find someone who feels the same way.
just looking for some cuddling and talking, nothing serious. some things about me, Im in my final year and currently just finished up an internship so the free time gets your mind racing.
im looking for show recommendations after just finishing up invincible and watching like 30 of the top 250 movies on imdb.
i love male manipulator core music and hard rock. i love talking about themselves and their experiences, it really lets you enjoy and understand yourself more.
i think rom coms are kinda overated and i prefer thrillers
i hate horror movies
I wanna make a friend with whom I can talk to about stuff in general. We can talk about whatever you want. Whatever you're comfortable with. Things we like, common interests, hobbies, what were passionate about, our song preferences, movie choices, tv show choices, we can talk about anything. I just want to have someone to have a conversation with. Irrespective of the topic. We can even talk about what's bothering us and try to help each other out. Help each other makes ourselves better. I need a ride or die friend. Someone who's will to stick around and be there for me not just out of pity but because they want to and I promise I'll do the same. I want someone who's genuinely interested in talking to me and down to havea conversation either fun and silly or deep and meaningful. If you're down for this feel free to hit me up. My only request is that you're around my age (I'm 22 so ±2 years) because I feel much more comfortable/confident talking to people around my age.
Marriage is a beautiful bond, but sometimes, it evolves in ways we don’t expect. My wife and I share a strong partnership - we care for each other deeply. But over time, we've come to accept that our desires don’t quite align in the bedroom. We’re exploring what that means for us, with mutual respect.
So here I am, looking for a like minded woman who values discretion and chemistry. Someone who, like me, is seeking a new connection without complications.
If you’re longing to feel wanted, to be fully present in the moment with someone, we might just click.
About me: I am a well-disguised introvert
I'm 5.10 with a lean athletic build.
Clean, disease and drug free
I believe in respecting boundaries and letting things unfold naturally. If this resonates with you, let’s talk. No pressure, no expectations, just a space to explore what feels right.
Have a wonderful day!
Pretty much what the title says. I am a Demisexual looking to meet folks here.
A little bit about me: I am a perfect amalgamation of what you get when you try to be everything and nothing at the same time. I am a techie (cliché), who loves to run or do cardio in general athough I go to the gym religioiusly (I literally commute to work/gym by walking despite living a bit far away) ,I do love and appreciate good stories be it books, movies or even shows. I do play chess and am a huge fan of board/card games wherein I board a collection of the same. I do love looking at /reviewing chess games, not entirely a fan but the game and the thought process behind the moves intrigues me. I spend the rest of my time learning about yoga and massages to soothe the body, something about being a masseuse helps me unwind.
I am partnered happily and looking forward to vibing with the poly community be it a single person or a couple. Age doesn't matter and neither do looks, fret not about your insecurities cause I believe beauty is discovered brought out from within.
We can outline and get to the kinky stuff later. Primarily emphasizing on looking to make a good connection first.
Cheers
My name is Jonathan. l am 27 yrs old. I am from Chennai and moved to Bangalore for work. I work in HR. Before that i used to work in IT and have been in Bangalore, Chennai and Hyderabad. I got into HR as I like interacting with people and getting to know them. I also like to be a problem solver. I am very curious in nature and try to read or learn whatever I can related to work or my interests.
Now the basic question that you will ask is why is this random guy looking for couples or even a older female for a relationship. That too long term. Why doesn't he just pay someone for a hookup or get on a dating app.
Well, all through my life the one thing I have believed in is stability. Stability gives comfort and comfort gives piece of mind. That is why i am preferring for something that is long term and stable.
Second question, why does he not get on dating apps/meet people his own age. Let me say its not like i have not tried, but sometimes their conversations are a bit childish and to be blunt-boring. Even if I try my best to be interested, it just fizzles out. But whenever i speak with someone mature/elder they seem to be interested in you and want to know more about you. They like to talk about things in life that everyone can relate to and they are clear about what they want.
So now what can you expect from me??
Now my interests are varied. A huge football fan here. I follow Chelsea. I love to read and watch anything that has some historical value in it. Like movies based on trues stories etc. I also play football whenever I get time and like to travel to new places. Food is something that I love, both cooking and eating. And sometimes I do also play the violin.
My go to places are anywhere that has water. Beaches are my ❤️ So that's a brief about me. I am open to verification over pic as I know everyone has their own preferences and it's only natural.
But would very much like to connect with you and see where this takes us.
!lock
Let's cut the bullshit - I want a real friend who I also have earth-shaking sex with. Someone to share laughs, deep conversations, and mind-blowing orgasms with. This isn't about one-time hookups - I want regular meetups where we connect both mentally and physically.
What I bring to the table: - A talented tongue that enjoys going down more than stock markets (I take pride in my pussy-eating skills) - Stamina and enthusiasm to make sure you finish first... and second - Emotional intelligence - I actually care about your pleasure and comfort - A chill vibe outside the bedroom too - great at aftercare, cuddling, and breakfast in bed - Discretion and respect for boundaries
About you: - 21+ and drama-free - Open-minded and sexually confident - Appreciates good banter as much as good sex - Values connection beyond just physical - Clean and hygienic (non-negotiable)
What to expect: - Intense sexual chemistry paired with genuine friendship - No strings, but no coldness either - Mutual respect and great communication - Privacy and discretion guaranteed - Regular meetups if we click
This isn't: - A relationship (but we'll treat each other with care) - Just sexting (I want the real deal) - One-and-done (looking for something ongoing)
If you're a sex-positive woman who enjoys: - Being thoroughly pleasured - Laughing between rounds - Deep conversations after passion - No-pressure intimacy
Let's chat and see if we vibe. Tell me what you're looking for and let's make this happen.
P.S. My oral skills have been called "religious experiences"
!lock
Hello, straight shoot, here to find a fun, NSA connection in this hedo land haha. Just your regular ol’ IT Joe here—31 years old (but I’ll always say 29 if you ask). :P
What I’m Looking For:
• Someone single, fun, independent, and opinionated in Bangalore—or Mysore/Chennai if we vibe!
• I’d prefer someone who values mutual respect and empathetic because, at the end of the day, feelings matter even in NSA dynamics, just being to nice individuals and communicating if things go (or not going) well.
• Understands and values aftercare, coz sub drop is real!
• Open to exploring together or learning from someone more experienced!
• Into specific dynamics like abf/anr, have some experience here (this is optional but fun!).
How I Look:
• 5’7”, medium build (skinny fat, around 70 kg), with a bit of a tummy—but it’s cute, I think! 😅
• Dorky/nerdy with a big smile and dimples (when I try!). 😁
A Few Things I Enjoy:
• Movies: Succession, Pulp Fiction, BoJack, Fleabag.
• Music: Deep house, raves, DJing.
• Creative Stuff: Sketching, museums, artsy things.
• Sports & Games: F1 screenings, board games.
Let’s vibe over text first, exchange pics when we’re ready, and meet offline when it feels right!
Disclaimer:
Please be ready to verify you’re a girl (via voice or other)—too many fake profiles out there. I’m not looking for anything purely online.
Cheers!
lock!
Hello everyone!
Been working my ass off for a couple of years, finally gotten to a stage where I can have a decent work life balance. Unfortunately, I've lost contact with my older friends and we've grown apart as most people do.
Weekdays are usually packed with work, but weekends are almost always free. I'm looking for people to hang out with, during weekends, be it finding new places to eat, exploring the city, or playing sports like, badminton, table tennis, football, etc.
If this sounds interesting, please reach out and tell me what you'd like to do this weekend!
So i have been exploring this side of the reddit for a while and to my surprise it has been overwhelming. Being very new to this kink side i am in many ways surprise to see things that i had thought only happened in porns, nevertheless i am online for a while and this is a post just to connect. I'm not willing to sext just old school connect. Hope you all are having a good night and good time on here.
I hope these many characters are long enough to pass the minimum character threshold to pass the minimum character criteria!
!lock
Hey there, fellow Redditors!
I’m a 30-year-old lawyer based in Delhi. But outside of work, I’m just a chill, slightly introverted guy who enjoys the simpler joys of life—good food, deep conversations, and travel to the moon.
A little about me: Personality: INFP-T – introspective, selectively social, and definitely the type to overanalyze text messages before hitting send. I like Chess (because strategizing is fun), movies, and traveling, I cook really well, so if we vibe, you’re in for some seriously good meals. Fun fact: I’m kinky enough—interpret that however you like. I won't leave you craving for some tongue ever.
I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone who enjoys witty banter, good food, and comfortable silences as much as deep conversations.
Someone emotionally mature, kind, and able to appreciate both introvert energy and occasional bouts of sarcasm.
I find curvier women incredibly attractive, so if you’ve got that soft, huggable vibe—bonus points!
If this sounds like your vibe, slide into my DMs—who knows, we might just create a well-written slow-burn romance that doesn’t end in a courtroom battle.
Hello everyone, I’m a 28 year old man currently in Pune and pursuing my MTech in Electronics.
Life’s pretty busy with studies and work, but I’m looking to add a bit of excitement with someone who’s interested in a discreet, no-strings-attached connection. I know I had put the same message before but I thought I could do again hoping to meet so.
I did chat with someone nice for a day or two but then she suddenly left and her id was off.
I’m hoping to meet someone who’s generous, open-minded, and values mutual respect and moreover is actually interested. I’m considerate, and believe in creating an experience that’s enjoyable for both of us. If you’re looking for some fun and companionship with a genuine and laid-back guy, send me a message, and we can see if we click. I don't really have preference with age so do hit me up without thinking twice.
Let’s keep things light, respectful, and memorable. 😊
Thanks for reading 😊.
As the Bangalore weather keeps on its long and heavenly innings, it almost asks us to go out and enjoy ourselves! That cute first date in a new place, walking hand in hand at midnight, or letting our desires take over and cuddling up together in my gorgeous starlit apartment.
We can try out a whole host of things, places to go, food and drink to try, dances to dance, or just lay back with some Netflix and chill? I’ll throw in some live music and great conversations as a bonus :)
I make jokes when uncomfortable and quote famous dialogues perfectly (seriously, have a knack for it). If you have above average conversation skills, we’ll make this work!
Have no restrictions age-wise, so long as you aren't married. Have a pretty great apartment to host, for those indoor dates and more. DMs are open, let's take this ahead!
Hi, there! I'm an analyst with a management consulting firm with wicked work life balance, looking to connect with someone who's dealing with similar issues like lack of intimacy and belongingness. Also trying to move on from a relationship that ended months back.
About me, you can term me as an ambivert, as I open up real quick by sensing even a trace of comfort. Among many things, I like sports and I love to binge TV series (mostly sit-coms). Huge 'The Office' and 'The Big Bang Theory' fan.
Hit me up, if you wish to establish a relationship where we can discuss our everyday struggle of finding peace post work and find time to help each other overcome them together, if you wanna explore Pune if you're from around or if you just wanna talk! I've been told I'm a pretty good listener.
HMU! :)
Who doesn't enjoy a good banter, laughter followed by a whole lot of not so innocent shenanigans?
To get to the part where I sell myself explaining why you should hit me up: - I'm well read, travelled quite a bit and generally well aware. - To get to the physical part, I've been told I'm good looking by people around me. - I hit the gym so I'm lean and ripped with veiny arms, if it matters. - I always strive for mutual pleasure. (Lookup GGG on the internet)
Two truths and a lie about me: 1. I've travelled to 5 countries in the last 1.5 years. 2. I lost my virginity at 18 to a 35 year old 3. Almost went to jail for driving on the left lane in a country where right lane driving is followed
Now, what I'm looking for: - Someone chill who respects privacy and consent. - Be near Bangalore or come to Bangalore often. I don't want this to just be an online thing. - Above 18 and willing to verify that you're real. Way too many cat fish accts around.
And so, if you're looking to get tossed around like a fresh McDonald's burger and make Furlenco regret renting you their bed and/or you're looking for some sensual fun taking it soft, we can do it all.
Willing to share pictures and verify and I hope you can too.
Hey there! I’m a 25M software developer based in Bangalore South, looking for a casual or FWB that’s ongoing and mutually enjoyable. If you’re someone who’s open-minded, kinky, and interested in exploring a variety of kinks, we might just vibe well.
About Me:
Into EDM & movies (esp. Horror, Thriller, Survival, Adventure etc.,)
Not a Greek god, just an average guy who values privacy, respect, and safety above all
Very kinky and open to most kinks — communication is the key for me
I attend almost every EDM event/show ( if you're also into EDM, let's rave together)
I like to travel (if it's your thing, we can be travel partners too)
What I’m Looking For:
A casual or friends-with-benefits connection with no pressure (ofc pleasure is mandatory)
Someone who’s open to chatting for a few days to see if we click
If we vibe, we can meet in a public place and take it from there
Kinky & funny girl who enjoys dark jokes (& sometimes my poor jokes)
If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to DM. Let’s keep it fun, safe, and respectful!
!lock
Hey there! :)
I'm looking to connect with some like-minded individuals who share similar interests. Let's have a conversation to see if we vibe. I'm open to both friendship and dating.
What I expect out of this:
I already like you if you tick at least a couple of these options:
A short introduction:
I'm 27, am 5'8'', and have a lean/muscular body. Professionally, I'm a Software Engineer and a startup Founder.
I'm also a fitness enthusiast and I regularly work out. My MBTI personality type is ENFJ-T
What I like:
I like to read and watch Sci-Fi, Thrillers, and Horror. But I can enjoy most of the genres if that show/movie/book is actually good.
I can also talk endlessly about astrophysics, the universe, metaphysics, and everything related to those topics.
I also love to talk about Feminism, Politics, LGBTQ+ rights, and other social issues.
The same goes for my taste in music but I do have a preference for Instrumental music. Some of my favorite music composers are Hans Zimmer, Ramin Djawadi, and Hildur Guðnadóttir.
Here are some random facts about me:
!lock
We can have casual conversation or serious discussion about yourself and your life issues
I am open to voice call & sending audio messages too.
We could become online best friends or could meet in real as well
we can have long term serious relationship too possibly or casual FWB . I am single and emotionally available with no past baggage .
(But I'm not into one night stands. Need a few days to develop trust . )
About me :
Location - more often in north india - haryana , delhi , chandigarh , but sometimes in Mumbai
Height - 6 feet
Body - between fit and medium. I do actively run / workout . I eat healthy.
Interests - reading, chess, psychology, maths, cooking, music, thriller movies, talking to people, playing football and I can be a foodie too.
Life goals - helping others, improving myself and adding value to the world, finding love and fulfilling my sexual desires. I do care for my parents although I don't get along with them intellectually .
Favorite kinks - spanking, overall domination, name calling & humiliation (only if you are into it) , clothed sex, submission (haven't explored that side of me much yet, but I think I'm a switch)
I'd like to feel at home with someone. Who I can barely my soul into and they could do the same. Talk to every day and night. Share fantasies with, and make them a reality.
Someone adventurous enough to dress up for me. On lonely nights like today, would keep me company and have a laugh, sext and sleep.
If you're kinky, loyal, kind and want to be loved, used, teased and broken, only to be built back up with love, please reach out.
What would you wear on a first date with me, if you wanted to tease me?
!lock