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My TPE “big ass” sex toy caused a fungal infection, or some kind of reaction. What are my options here to continue using the toy?

It’s the Jennifer Big Ass from SexDollTorso.

Got in back in Jan and used it 4 times out of the week. I love that toy. Truly I can’t begin to describe how awesome it felt to have sexual relief as soon as I wanted it. It was a blessing in disguise.

However when I began using it, I started to have reactions on my penis. I’m not circumcised so I’m sure it has a lot to do with that. Never right away. Usually 2 days afterward.

The area on the side of the penis, under the head, would get red and swollen. General redness in the head. And intense itching in one particular spot. Lot a heavy itch.

I already went to the clinic and got prescribed a steroid mixed with an anti fungal cream. It’s worked so far.

I haven’t used the toy since then. I’m not sure what caused it. The practitioner said it could likely be -fungal, an allergic reaction, or friction. Seeing as how the cream worked it could be fungal.

I do clean the toy religiously after use. Process was douching it with water with a bit of hand soap, drain water, then douche again but with water only, stuff a microfiber towel in there, remove, put in those drying sticks for 20 min, remove, and ending buying those air thingies used for fish tanks or something like that. Basically put in a small hose that’ll blow air and air d dry it.

So I doubt I’d be lack of cleaning. I started with regular water based lube the first few week but when I started getting those reactions I switched to water based lube without glycerin.

Maybe I’m allergic to TPE?

What are my options here? How can I use the toy without getting a reaction? I wouldn’t want to throw it away. I can begin to describe how relieving it was to have this toy. My balls were empty most of the time and as a 27 year old with not the best dating life, this toy is a godsend.

TIL the a-spot exist. Should I make that the next toy?

https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/comments/1jpqi4b/what_toy_should_i_add_to_the_collection

I made this thread a couple weeks back. I thought I was doing good with knowing my wife's anatomy and just now learned what the A-Spot was. I guess every time I saw it I assumed it had to do with anal, but I was definitely wrong.

Still on the search for a new toy for her! The Enhance seems like a good one, and also considered some type of penis sleeve or just a larger than average dildo (maybe this is where the a-spot toy comes in). So I'm asking again for suggestions!

From the link this is what we have now:

  • Hitachi Wand rechargeable
  • We-Vibe Tango
  • Womanizer Pro 40
  • sex wedge
  • waterproof blanket
  • bed straps
  • Njoy butt plug
  • Njoy Pure Wand
  • wrist/thigh straps

Best sex poses for the magic want

What sex poses would be optimal for clit stimulation with the wand while the penetration is happening? We tried it with missionary with pillows beneath her and it's okay but she likes to be on top more.

Looking for a clit suctioning dildo

Not sure if this exists, but I'm looking for a suction toy like the Satisfyer that doubles as a dildo so my partner can be on top while I'm stimulated. Any reccs?

My toy won't vibrate

My Vibrator won't vibrate, It turns on but won't vibrate. Its fully charged and I'm frustrated

Help me please.

Recommendations for a silicone dildo: 6"–7" insertable length, 5.5–6" circumference

I'm after a new silicone dildo for anal play with the following requirements:

  • Insertable length: 6-7 inches
  • Circumference: 5.5-6 inches (diameter: 1.75-1.9 inches)
  • Material: Silicone (not one of the crappy SilexD-like ones that have just a very thin 'outer skin' of silicone and something else in the middle - I found the lube didn't last on this thing)
  • Must be realistic feeling and have balls (the balls help me attach it to a DIY fucking machine)
  • Must be available in the UK
  • Must cost less than £50

Thanks for your expertise!

Whizzinator purchase

I purched the Whizzinator but when I squeeze the release vaul nothing comes out. Help need answers please.

Not with the vibes, any suggestions?

I'm a woman who loves vibrations on the clit but NOT inside! Does anyone have suggestions for a toy that's insertable, thrusts, and has clit-only vibrations?

Thin Vibrators/Dildos?

Due to a lot of different medical reasons (and just how I am), I'm very small and tight. Because of that, I've only ever used toys on my clit or small bullets, but I really want to try full penetration.

Basically, I'm asking if anyone knows of any good, really thin vibrators, rabbits or dildos, or even just really long bullet vibes. Preferably out of a soft/flexible material and not metal or plastic, as that's extremely uncomfortable for me, but I'll still look into those.

Length wise I don't care too much about, but I would like to have at least 4 or 5 inches that can be inserted. Width is the tricky part. The most I can handle in the width department is about .75 inches at the thickest. I'm in the United States, but I'm open to looking into overseas brands.

Really not even sure if a vibrator or a dildo that thin exists, but I figured if anyone would know, it would be this community.

Any help is extremely appreciated. Thank you!

REVIEW: A Most Unique Orgasm: Pulse Solo Essential

This review is coming from a unique perspective, actually two. I had the pleasure of watching my husband using the Pulse Solo Essential from Hot Octopuss, and he, who will chime in as well, had what looked to be an insane amount of fun using the toy.

Pulse Solo Essential is what I would describe as a taco shell for your penis. Using Hot Octopuss' patented PulsePlate technology, the toy oscillates on your cock rather than humming or vibrating on it like other toys we've had the pleasure of reviewing. The plate works best when it is placed directly below your frenulum, or that elastic bit connecting your shaft to the tip of your penis. Pulse Solo is completely waterproof so that it can be brought into the shower, a bathtub, or the hot tub for wet fun. Lube isn't necessary, but if you're using this on your own,then you might like to use it for stroking or twisting. I helped him in our testing by sucking on him and offering up a bit of my wetness but I realize that's not always an option. Here's the best part about Pulse Solo. It can be used when you're hard or soft, it doesn't matter. The PulsePlate technology was developed from the technology used to help paralyzed individuals have children. It's a unique experience, hence the title of this review.

I used the Pulse Solo in the shower with her as my "inspiration," and the sensations were incredible. The oscillations felt fantastic on the tip of my cock, unlike anything I have felt before. The toy did slide along my cock easily with some soap that my wife happily applied and stroked me with. As the toy is open and shaped like a taco shell, my orgasm shot in the direction of my wife with ferocity. The oscillating on my frenulum as I came was EPIC.

Now for a little description of my fun. I wanted to test out the claim that this toy could be used on his flaccid penis, and it definitely lived up to the hype. I specifically chose a busy weekend afternoon to corner him, making sure he wasn't expecting to get played with and that his overall stress level would be a little elevated due to "life." I asked him to help me with something on our closet shelf in our bedroom and when he entered I untied his shorts, pulled his cock out and fit the toy around his very "unprepared" penis. I kissed him and asked him to hold the toy while I locked our bedroom door. Even with the noises of a very busy house below us, the oscillation of the toy got him hard pretty quickly. I lapped at the tip of his cock and played my usual games from my knees and looked up at him as he reacted to his orgasm inching closer and closer. Having a number of things still on our plate, I moved out of the stream of his orgasm, instead choosing to kiss his neck as he shot a load across the closet at his dresser. I left him to clean up the mess we made having proved that this toy can indeed take a flaccid penis to a powerful orgasm in no time at all.

It's easy to say that the Pulse Solo Essential from Hot Octopuss is probably the most unique toy we've had the chance to test. The oscillations are distinctly different than vibrations and provide the user with an orgasm that is intense, powerful, and long-lasting.

30f single mom with zero sex toy experience

I’m a single mom as of the last 2 years and since losing my husband have engaged in zero sexual activity or masturbating as of today I decided I was gonna start again I don’t plan on having another partner but I am at a complete loss I’ve done nothing but basic missionary sex my whole life so everything is new I plan on ordering and setting up a collection of toys and things but need help I’ve never even touched a sex toy before if anyone has any recommendations or advice I would appreciate

Njoy Pure Wand A-Spot Curve?

Asking my vaginally blessed friends here…

I’ve been eyeing an njoy wand for my wife. We are big into erotic massage, slow and steady pressure, etc.

She has a handful of vibrators that she loves externally, and one internally (Le Wand Blend).

We’ve discovered over the last few years that she is in love with A-spot stimulation during PIV, and sometimes with fingers depending on where she’s at.

This exploration has led her to finally exploring her g-spot vs just quick getting off via clit stimulation…I want a tool to help her better explore her gspot and flirt with squirting/female ejaculation.

Which leads me to the reason for the post.

Does the curve of the Njoy pure wand allow for any remotely-deep penetration? Or does it become uncomfortable after about 3-4” of insertion?

Thanks, friends! :)

🚨Toys & Tariffs🚨

Hello Everyone,

Heads up if you're eyeing a new toy or lingerie—now's the time to grab it from your favorite retailer! Insider tip: retailers have been hit with emails over the week about steep price hikes, ranging from 14-50%, due to tariffs. These increases are mostly hitting toys and lingerie, often effective immediately. Lube prices are still stable (only 3-4% up, if at all), but everything else is seeing massive jumps.

Just wanted to share this info to help you save a bit ☺️

How to use Deep Diver?

Hi guys, I'd like to know the correct way to use this device. How do I insert it? Can anyone tell me how to insert it? https://www.satisfyer.com/es/satisfyer-deep-diver-connect-app?number=SW10165

Micro egg vibrator?

Are there micro egg vibrators for g-spot stimulation, or for a petite person with tight muscles from disability? Something probably .05” in width.

Thank you so much.

Lovense lush alternative

Hi peeps,

I’ve always really loved videos of girls with the Lovense lush and really want my gf to have one but they’re a bit pricey are there any good maybe even better alternatives that are cheaper. Bluetooth is a bonus but not a necessity

Cheers

Cock pump education

Hi I'm curious what a cock pump does, I understand that it sucks which must be nice but is it more used to generate a firm erection artificially.

Any help is greatly appreciated

Thanks

Best gift for my BF

Good afternoon yall, I’m looking forward to getting my boyfriend a gift and I’m stuck between three options. I just want some opinions of what guys may look forward too more.

https://a.co/d/b2eKfyL

https://a.co/d/6OpaZ8v

https://a.co/d/8Y8mugB

Sex Hood that denies vision, no breathing impairment.

Looking for a few options for a Sex Hood that denies vision but does not impairment breathing. Ideally there is a hole for the wearer's mouth. I'd like it to be as comfortable as possible and probably not a 7$ staticy piece of garbage from amazon, but doesn't need to be anything hand-stitched either.

GSqueeze direction?

Hi! Just wondering if anybody has the gsqueeze plug and what direction they were it in? I have seen people use it both ways so just wondering if there was a “right” or correct way or if they achieve different things?

Which automatic stroker is best for girthy guys?

Currently researching the kiiroo keon, thehandy, and the autoblow. I'm also open to other suggestions but I'm only interested in fully insertable strokers. My main concern is girth. I'm a little over 6" in circumference and 7"+ length and I dont want to spend the money on a nonrefundable item that I wont be able to use.

Hismith Basic Sex Machine feedback

How do people like these smaller machines? Your pros and cons? Suggested model?

What locations and positions work best with them?

Looking for recommended gentle strokers

Got my first stroker a few months ago, the Tenga Spinner Tetra. Great toy and good suction, but it gets way too intense for me, even after I managed to remove most of the nubs on the inside. I think the strong suction creates too much surface contact on the head. Once I come I have to stop completely, any movement is just painful.

The Tenga Air-Tech Gentle looks nice, but is not available locally. I will have to buy it from Tenga directly, and shipping will probably make up 50% of the total price. I could buy the Air-Tech Regular, but there's no point if it doesn't help. I think adjustable suction could make it less intense though.

It sucks that most toys are rated on how intense they feel. I don't care about brand, but Tenga has a lot of budget friendly options.

What is a toy my gf could use on me during sex?

I’m looking for a toy other than a prostate massager that my gf can use on me during sex or we can use together