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Like with oral sex, I can't cum from using a clit sucker vibe. I can find it incredibly pleasurable, but I can never quite make it to a climax. This is fine as I usually finish the job with my fingers.

Today I was using my vibe for about half an hour, basically just making myself feel good. I was only hovering it over and around my clitoral hood as direct stimulation is painful. I wasn't trying to cum with it, was using the lowest setting and used lube. But when I was finished and needed to finally orgasm with my fingers, I couldn't. I was very very stimulated but unable to finish.

As a result I am currently sat here extremely frustrated and unsatisfied lol.

Does anyone have any advice? Did I go in too hard with the vibe? I feel like other users of similar vibes likely go in harder than I can.

(Any dirty messages and I will block and report you. I had some absolute filth the last time I posted. I am in a committed relationship and have no plans to cheat.)

I call or message Amazon for a return or something then the worker asks, is this the correct item: “Big Monster Squirting Knot Dildo 10" Huge Ejaculating Fantasy Dildo Giant Girthy Horse Dragon Dildos with Suction Cup Massive Ribbed Knotted Dog Dildos”

Like yes 😭

Edit: Had to message Amazon again and the agent said I was the nicest person they’ve had all day 😭😭😭 why are people being so mean to them

I’m so sorry Amazon workers ❤️

So I recently met a guy who checks all of my boxes, including liking a bit of spice in bed. So I'm very happy to have found someone I am sexually compatible with.
In recent conversation he has asked about details of what I like in the bedroom, I explained and also brought up my toy collection.
Now it's nothing super intense, a few vibrators, 2 different dildos (one I just bought after my break up, and I've only ever used alone) He is requesting that I "get rid" of all my penetrating toys... My response was that I wouldn't just pitch them in the trash because of how much money I have spent on them, one being less than 2 months old!
SO my questions is that is this a red fag? Also, what do folks do with sex toys that were used with previous partners? I feel like trashing them is a biohazard in many ways.

UPDATE: I asked for a bit more detail as to why he wouldn't like using them with me. He had an ex who purchased a 12 incher and brought that to the bedroom, and after a while, he felt like she was just not into him anymore and the relationship fizzled out. He says " its not a size thing either, just made me feel incapable of pleasing her, which just made me not enjoy time with her ever"

I've been trying to ride my dildos but they keep failing. To explain I have several dildos with a suction base but every time i try to ride them they unstick in like 4 seconds. Anyone got any tips?

I’m a transgender guy and was born female, and I still have the tools I was born with. I’m exploring BDSM and often envy men that are locked up in a chastity cage and I’ve been trying to find something similar for my anatomy. My clit is a bit larger than a woman’s because I’m on testosterone so I’m hoping there is something out that that can be worn during the day for instance. I’ve seen a silicone ring with tiny balls that was supposed to be put around a ftm clit like a cock ring but I can’t find it back for the life of me. Can anyone suggest a wearable toy/device for transmen or are there ideas to diy and craft something?

I only O with clit stimulation but when I’m on top I find it a difficult angle to use a vibrating bullet/clit sucker. Are there any other toys I could use instead?

I have been looking for some toys for my girlfriend and I and she expressed wanting to try a plug like this .

I have heard these are prone to going inside unintentionally and wanted to ask some opinions from you guys and seek suggestions. Thanks a lot

Me and my girlfriend are a lot into denial. Now I’m looking for a toy that she can wear and moves inside her while she moves. I don’t want a vibrator. Something like a metalball that just moves around and gives small amounts of pleasure. Anyone has any ideas where I can find something like that? I don’t want anything electronic. Just a plug that moves through movement of the person.

I still live with my parents so I REALLY don't need them to see what I've just bought. Will I be okay? Is it actually just a blank brown box? They don't have their logo or anything like that on it? And I've also read horror stories of people getting pamphlets in the mail from them but I believe I read they don't do that anymore. I just wanna make sure I'm safe and nobody will find out what I really bought. I'm already a massive disappointment to my parents as it is LMAO

Wth was that??

I felt NOTHING while my husband was using it inside me.

Any tips or better toys? We are so disappointed smh

Hey so, I been looking for a butt doll sex toy for a little while but I can’t really fine any good ones that I want. I’m looking for one that’s realistic in all regards, shape, feel, jiggly, but also life size and to be honest that’s really not hard to fine but what is I need it to be brown/black but not the unrealistic shade of super dark black and not that tanning bed brown. It seems to me all the very realistic ones are all pale/creamy white color and than the ones I want the realistic look goes right down the drain like they never seen a naked woman of color before it’s just frustrating, like I think some sex toy business need to reach out to their customers a bit more and just ask if this looks realistic.

What's Up, guys.

I bought a Tremblr and made a handsfree setup (with an attachement for slavechairs from stylefetish, it's like a "rail" for toys which leads to fall back on your penis in right position) but i still have the same problem everytime.

You might know it: close to the finish you tend to "tense" your muscle in your penis, which makes it harder for some moments. Unfortunately, this always leads to having maybe a bigger circumfence for second, which let the tremblr rise up more (through the pressure and additionally the acceleration in high stroke rates) and let's it ultimately pop-off your head and doesnt land on the right spot to automatically "re-enter".

Even with lower stroking length this happens. Lower stroking length and switching to a bigger spt will lead to feeling waaay less, since then the vacuum isnt stable you kinda want to get.

So, any ideas how to fix it? Already tried a Venus2000 spt, but this doesnt really work either. Is there any special trick for you?

Okay folks, let’s talk about something we’ve all Googled at 2 AM: ​Buying sex toys on Amazon vs. "fancy" brand sites (looking at you, Lelo, Satisfyer, Fleshlight, and Lovehoney).

Here’s my dilemma:

​Brand Sites: My cart on Adam & Eve has a "discreet packaging" silicone dildo that costs more than my Wi-Fi bill. But hey, they claim it’s "body-safe" and won’t turn my bits into a science experiment.

​Amazon: Same ~vibe~ for half the price? 5-star reviews saying "OMG life-changing," but also one horror story about a "waterproof" vibrator that drowned in the bathtub.

So… ​is Amazon the secret MVP or a biohazard waiting to happen? I need your wisdom:

Has anyone actually gotten a good toy there without it disintegrating/committing treason mid-use?

Do those "generic" brands (you know, the ones named like "SUPERQQ69 PleasureMaster 9000") secretly slap, or are they just AliExpress rejects?

And seriously—why does the marketing photo always show a woman laughing maniacally with a rose gold bullet vibrator? Is that the universal sign of quality? 🌹

Bonus points if you’ve had a "I trusted a $15 Amazon butt plug and lived to tell the tale" story. Asking for a friend who’s tired of her wallet crying.

Was thinking of getting a second rose toy because a) the charger on my current one broke and b) it usually dies before I can hit my o so would it be worth just getting a second one as a backup or am I being way to greedy? Or should I just go with the smart option and just buy a new charger?

Does anyone know of any toys that are very very squishy? I really like the feeling of my partners dick rubbing against my vulva/clit so something that would replicate that would be great(even like a very squishy dildo that has a lot of girth would be good). Or something that I could grind on that is soft and squishy that with lube would feel something like riding someone's face. As squishy/bouncy as possible

TIA

Also discreet packaging would be 👍

Has anyone found a clone a willy style kit that has vaculock attachment? I'd like to make one for a Lovemse XMachine. Cloneboy appears to have kits that have strap and suction cup attachment but it seems they thread on? Is there a threaded vaculock adapter?

Any help is appreciated, thanks

Hi!! Looking for a nice warming lube, I like pain so I'm def not scared of the more intense ones out there, bonus points if it's sensitivity enhancing though. Does anybody have any recommendations? I have a vagina though so no like flavoured ones pls

Has anyone tried any of the male rose toys yet I’m curious if it’s worth the buy as they’re on sale right now?

Hey all, I got a cock ring and a small wand as a surprise for my wife from lovehoney this was the ring. She likes them okay, but the clitoral stimulation part is just big, bulky and hard. As well the vibration options aren't great, some are too hard others are too soft. As well, I am fairly well endowed and without a lot of lube this thing was extremely painful to get on and I ended up with some abrasions. I basically had to just use the larger ring, no chance in hell was I getting any of it around my balls, which then left more junk in between us. So I am trying to find one that has lot's of options for vibrations, something that is soft and much smaller in the clitoral area so she doesn't feel like I've put a vibrating TV remote between us. As well something that can stretch enough to go around a larger member. I saw that lovehoney has this one but I am unsure about how it pokes forward. I know just about nothing about sex toys, or if lovehoney is even reputable, so please don't roast me if I bought from somewhere I shouldn't. I got both the wand and ring for over 60% off of each so I just sent it. Any recommendations? TIA!

really enjoy the convenience and strength of corded toys, but already have magic wand. The only non-wand ones I can find are the Doxy Don and Eroscillator.

are there any others? or even mini wands maybe?

thanks :)

I bought a vibrator (from a trusted company/store front dont worry i know. I dont like buying through amazon i just have constant issues with my bank and its easier this way sometimes) anyway it says its gone through customs. It says it will be delivered by amazon but idk if that means itll still be in an amazon box. Last time i ordered a satisfyer through the satisfyer company/website.. they put a huge customs sticker/order paper on the side saying what was in the box so it wasnt discreet at all. I still live at home and my mom never leaves the house, shes very nosy about all the packages that come through... i can reschedule delivery but i have no idea when shell next leave the house because her sister keeps cancelling plans with her every 2 seconds. Ugh

(They are delivering through amazon eu but idk where its coming from)

looking for new toys that don’t take 2 plus business days to charge and aren’t over priced

She won't even hold the thing. Even when left alone in the house in bed (I've set an invisible trap so I know if it's been used)! If it were me I'd be all over it. How can I convince her to give it a go? I think the size of it is scaring her.

She's rather vanilla in the bedroom to say the least. 😭