After talking with members and gauging opinion in various ways, we're making a change: Be Real or Be Gone.
YTOB is here to bring together younger tops and older bottoms for either online or real-time /real-world relationships. We're also here for conversation and appreciation. We're not here for engagement farming, preening, or spamming.
We want people to show holes, poles, faces. We want people to ask questions. We want people to hook up, get bred, fall in love, or just live in lust -- online or IRL. Going f forward, pics and posts should be about that.
Be real. Be interested. Be involved. Or be gone.
But also... be kind. This change isn't about harsh policing of posts. Treat others like you'd want to be treated. When a post is flagged for review, it's usually pretty easy to scroll through their history and see what they're doing. Occasionally, the mods give them the benefit of the doubt. You should too.
So please, post away. Just post with the purpose of being a Young Top or an Older Bottom looking for connection... not just points or praise.